Guys, does it bother you when a Lady pays for the date? Ladies, do you mind paying for the date?

[Adul]

I use feel guilty if my significant other paid for a date or movie. But I would try not to show I did.

 

[toph99]

my ex and i finally figured out that seeing as how she wouldn't let me pay every time, we'd split it, 50/50

 

[Train]

never under any circumstances am i ok with the girl paying, even if its just a friend, i feel stupid.


Just the way my Dad raised me i guess, I even feel bad if i dont open the door for her, take off my hat, etc etc, all that old fashined stuff

 

[reitz]

It used to bother me to no end, but my girlfriend and I have been dating for so long that it's now a non-issue. Whoever happens to have cash on them is the one who pays for everything now.

 

[Gusfo0]

Ladies should pay 100%. PUHLEAAZE!

 

[Yeeny]

I don't see a problem with paying for a date, that would not bother me at all. But, if the guy is gonna feel uncomfortable, then I don't mind him paying instead. Of course I am married though, so now its just like Reitz said, whoever has money pays.

 

[Jothaxe]

<< Whoever happens to have cash on them is the one who pays for everything now. >>



This is exactly how it works for me and my girlfriend also.

-jothaxe

 

[loup garou]

Of course not! My gf pays for alot of stuff we do. Sometimes she'll treat for dinner. Or if we go to a movie, she'll buy the tix. Or if we're at a bar, she'll buy the next round. Who cares?

 

[Ariel]

When you are first dating, whoever asked the other person out for the date should pay. If the guy asks the girl out, he should pay and vice versa. But after you are dating for a while it is no longer an issue. Generally my husband and I split the bill, but sometimes he asks me out and pays and sometimes I ask him out and I pay. It's important to continue "dating" after you are married.

 

[Tauren]

We are equal, so she can pay if she wants. When my fiancee and I were dating, if she offered I let her and I didn't mind at all.

 

[rmblam]

My wife and I have always had a "sharing" relationship. Why should one party always have to pay? Therefore, we alternate (but don't really keep track). It usually works out to who ever has the cash or CC handy.

Women that expect men to pay all the time don't fly with me.... Carry your own weight beyach.

Women wanted equal rights/pay, etc.... So, cough it up baby.

However, there are the ever present males that figure out how to mooch off of women like a champ. I work with a girl that has a nasty credit card bill from an ex-boyfriend because she "took care of his every need". Duh.

Dam, I'd have some nice stuff if I had only met her sooner.

 

[CromNogger]

I agree completely with what Ariel said.

 

[themightyplatypus]

Well said Ariel.

 

[iamwiz82]

when i first started dating my girlfriend, i always paid, but now it is whoever has the cash. I prefer it this way.

 

[kikokam]

it really doesn't matter. personally i wouldn't like it if he pays for everything, makes me feel guilty since we're both poor college students
so we usually alternate... like he pays for dinner and i pay for movie etc... makes everything equal that way

 

[Adul]

noce to know guys are feeling to bad any more.

 

[Radiohead]

<P>If it was a first or second date, then yeah it would kind of bother me.&amp;nbsp; But if she does pay for the date, I wouldn't make a big fuss about it, I'd just use it to ask her out on another date and pay for that one.

If it was with a girl that I have been dating for a while, then 50/50 usually the way I go.


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