Guys: Have you noticed that girls 18-21 are hard to impress?

[gotsmack]

I think if you said all that she would be creeped out. I mean she barely knows you,

 

[gotsmack]

buy you can rent it.

 

[skylark]

<< NicklasReugen ~ yeah, that must be it... :disgust:

I'm in a story-telling mood tonight.

Just a little while ago, I was in NYC for an interview. Interviewed, got the internship (didn't take it - only $15/hour, no housing, NYC), was asked out by the boss to dinner. Sure, why not... I have a couple hours to kill before my bus is scheduled to leave, anyway.

I go. The guy basically flaunts all he has... talks about his $10,000/month penthouse suite, brags about the location of his company's new office, chats about his $xxx-million portfolio, &quot;accidentally&quot; drops hints about his buddy-buddy status with big names, lists all his vacation houses, etc. I was not impressed - focused on my meal and tried not to make any sarcastic remarks the whole time. He paid the bill for dinner ($250), no sweat.

Before I left to catch my bus, he asked me if I might be interested in dating an older man... and I told him, very politely, that I was not. If money was all I was going for, I would've been all over that in a heartbeat. But... it isn't. So I wasn't.

None of my former boyfriends had a lot of money (heck, *I* was usually the one who shelled out the cash for dinner and vacations), but... they had a lot of heart. And that was what I loved them for.

Money can't buy happiness,
~kitten >~.~< >>



HappyKitten

well.. gems like you cannot be bought by money.

interested in someone here? I havent the foggiest idea who that is. <snicker>.

never a doubt I've had my share of meeting amazing individuals on internet.

edit: for grammar..
peace

 

[XCLAN]

if only i had the time to qute about 40 lines from this thread and post em all............you would all realize just how sad you all are at pickin up women . Poin being why do ya have to pick up on women? Is the world comin to an end tommorrow and we must find a woman today?

Go OUT, have fun, be yerself.

 

[TranceNation]

Umm... we're not talking about LOVE here, we're talking about impressing a girl. Sure you'll fall in love with a guy when you get to know them but in terms of first meeting a guy, girls go for the guy with the most $$$ hands down. If a girl saw two guys sitting on a park bench, one that looks like he has 10 million dollars and the other who looks like he has 0 dollars, the girl will talk to the guy with the 10 million dollars. It's simple human behaviour.



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<< the only thing that impresses girls 18 and older is $$$$. So flash it and lots of it. Sad but true fact. Any girl who denies this is in denial. >>



:disgust::disgust::disgust:

Yet another man (sorry, *boy*) who thinks he knows it all, telling us females what we &quot;really think.&quot;

Gotta love it.

Not all of us are materialistic, obnoxious, air-headed gold diggers.

As a few of you may have figured out by now, I've developed an interest in one of the male members of this forum. Is it because he's rich? No... I don't even know how much money he has, nor do I care. All I know is that he's sweet, smart, thoughtful, kind... and, he's very good at making me smile.

That's more than enough to &quot;impress&quot; me.

Stop telling me what to believe,
~kitten >>

 

[LordMaul]

It isn't hard for me to impress them; but the cops call it something about public exposure....

 

[TranceNation]

ok I just got done reading the whole thread, lots of funny stuff especially that 1.4 axia ghz hehe. But seriously, of course most girls won't admit to not being impressed by a guy with lots of money, they don't want people to think that they are gold diggers right?
Girls will say all this stuff about how they like guys with great personality bla bla bla bla bla and so and so but they say that because they haven't found the millionare man yet.

 

[Anghang]

<< Anghang ~ where in Texas? I'll be heading back there in Texas...

GoldenBear ~

Off to bed,
good night,
~sleepy kitten >^.^< >>


moved to the Dallas area about a month and a half ago... ...really different from NYC, but i'm getting used to it

 

[koldklock]

<< I've developed an interest in one of the male members of this forum... >>



happykitten, what about the rest of him?

 

[skylark]

<< I've been on a few dates and every time I feel like a court jester trying to impress the queen. Only to get the response of a *yawn*. Although this might have to do with the fact that I'm going to school and have no car, but still, I'm sure some of you can relate that girls in the 18-21 range are just hard to impress. >>



maybe its just demographics.. I'm from canada, I have no problems getting friendly with the grrls. Most of the time (especially at Raves) I have no idea how old they are, I just use my judgment and act accordingly. Never actually dated any of the grrls I met and spoke to, but I've kissed a couple of them! hahaha I even kissed a cougar once, I knew her though - she was much obliged when I asked her! *LOL

So I don't know what is your problem here. To impress someone is not about trying too hard or you'll end up looking foolish, be out of your element. Or that you are just dating the wrong types who go for the stereotypical archtypes.

To impress is to be observant of the grrl you are talking to.. Take notice of jewelry, hair, eyes, or SOCKS they wear - make comments on those, you can make it humorous or flurt a bit. I don't how hard it could be..

peace

 

[skylark]

<< if only i had the time to qute about 40 lines from this thread and post em all............you would all realize just how sad you all are at pickin up women . Poin being why do ya have to pick up on women? Is the world comin to an end tommorrow and we must find a woman today?

Go OUT, have fun, be yerself. >>



ahahha.. the SECRET to impressing grrl is by NOT thinking of trying score
with them.

edit: grammar.. aargh

 

[Cooltech2k]

I Aint Gonna say that girls between the ages of 18-21 are only looking for money, But thats a big part of it.
My Trick is to make them laugh &amp; keep em laughing till they get to know me... than I am Normally OK since in person I Come across as a well.... Thats not important... Moral of the story is that like a cat (no punn intended kitten) you have to keep em distracted till they are used to you than they will mellow out &amp; not be so Shallow...

 

[GoldenBear]

She's VERY hard to impress.

 

[The Stigenator]

eeew... GB.. all I need to impress her is with a Triple Ultimate Cheeseburger..

 

[Angrymarshmello]

That whole be yourself thing really is a good idea. I tried &quot;impressing&quot; the last (err only) girl I've been with lately and I think that blew it for me. I agreed too much with her, lied to her once or twice - I basically tried to fit her &quot;ideal man image&quot; and I guess I farked up. (She also had a few quirks that pissed me off though) In all seriousness though - just be yourself. If their so shallow that they judge you because you don't have a car or b/c you can't bench 350, then forget them.

 

[Cooltech2k]

<< She's VERY hard to impress. >>




Not an Image I needed this late at night.

 

[Lore]

<< That whole be yourself thing really is a good idea. I tried &quot;impressing&quot; the last (err only) girl I've been with lately and I think that blew it for me. I agreed too much with her, lied to her once or twice - I basically tried to fit her &quot;ideal man image&quot; and I guess I farked up. >>



Dude, I've had that happen to me so many times; I can totally relate. When they start talking about something you just start agreeing even if you really don't have an opinion.. ugh.

 

[Marauder-]

Just show her your computer and your rank at AT... That should do it - unless you're a newbie member. LOL

 

[AznMaverick]

They're not hard to impress if they actually LIKE you. If they do, anything you do is impressive.

 

[wilki24]

I don't remember having any problems with girls being 'unimpressed' when I was that age. I had a few who seemed pretty interested in whatever I did. I think perhaps that the ladies in your case just may not like you!

*Though girls of that age CAN be very finiky. They like to change their minds about being with you after a few weeks. You just have to find the ones who aren't that way

 

[Emulex]

Chicks are simple, show them your 10 inches and you won't need to talk crap to impress them.


They want some glam (nice car, cool apt), some cash, some gifts, and lotsa booty!! action..

Your pretty much gonna pay for that ass , one way or another.

 

[StormRider]

Try naked jumping jacks -- works every time!

 

[Doboji]

Ok I'm going to get you laid.... here's what you do...

1. Go somewhere that YOU find interesting... do something as a date that YOU enjoy... You'll naturally be passionate about it... and be able to engage in good fun... entertaining conversations...

Be the one waiting to be impressed... watch the chick... see if she digs what you're doing and talking about... or who at least appreciates your passion... if she doesnt do either... she's wasting YOUR time... don't work your ass off for a selfish biatch. When you find a chick who can enjoy what you enjoy.... bada bing bada boom.... you're on your way to the stars.

2. Encourage her to show you something that SHE enjoys and is passionate about... enjoy it with her.... let her be passionate about it...

the truth is this... 18-21 year old girls:

The majority of these women are either unattractive to you, or selfish biatches. It's tough to find the attractive nice ones... thats your mission.... go get em tiger...

-Max

P.S. but in all fairness bear in mind we're all computer geeks... and wouldn't know what to do with a chick unless she put it in a readme.txt

 

[brtspears2]

Whatever happened to giving an unexpected gift at an unexpected time?

 

[Blundar]

I think there are two things being addressed in this thread.

If you want to find a piece of ass, by all means show off and be as fake as you like. Money, cars, fancy dinner, the whole nine yards. Get her drunk or otherwise intoxicated too - it helps a lot getting laid. (sad but true) You probably will have an emotionally vapid realationship after you get bored of sticking your d1ck in all of her h0les.

If you want to find someone that you actually enjoy spending time with, respect, care about and maybe... love... be as honest as you can. Don't feel liek you have to be something you are not because it will come out eventually. Most girls I know would rather be able to talk to their man and feel comfortable with him than him buy him lots of useless sh1te. College campuses are good places to look for girlfriends. Avoid meeting girls anywhere you don't like to hang out because eventually they are probably going to want to hang there again.

Happykitten or any other women reading this, maybe you can give us geeks some insight into where to find quality women? My experience says most young <25 women have ISSUES. BIG TIME.

My ex-gf currently best friend with special priveledges met at a rave about 2 years ago when we were both psychotic chemically enabled kids. Although I've had some great times, the psychosis level has been a little high in our relationship for my tastes. I don't really advocate meeting women not in their natural state for anything other than sex.

That then rules out raves, clubs and parties. Where else, other than school, do 18-24 year old women hang? Any inspiration?