Guys.. seriously.. dont ever.. ever.. never.. ever.. get married..

[Brutuskend]

Originally posted by: NissanGurl
My experience:

*Parents got married.
*My mother paid off my dad's college debt.
*My mother basically had to handle all financial matters since she had to work (and earned majority of money).
*They had kids (2).
*They divorced (I think I was 3 yrs old at the time - can't really say for sure).
-I latter found out it was my dad that had already started seeing someone (sort of)
-My mother NEVER spoke negatively about my dad in front of us or let anyone else (so we could still enjoy time with our dad)
*Court ruled my dad had to pay child support.
*Dad never did.
*Mother raised 2 kids on her own (and they turned out wonderful IMHO ) .

I love my dad and wouldn't trade him for another dad for anything, just pointing out to all you women bashers that men do the same thing. Even if men are supposed to pay doesn't mean they actually pay. It's pretty darn hard to raise 2 kids and work full time without any help. Both remarried even after that experience. I plan to eventually marry, but will fully know what I'm getting into ahead of time. Not flaming, just informing.

Yup, men do indeed screw over their wives from time to time just like women screw over their husbands.

My Mom has been married to the same man for over 30 years now and a short time ago he was diagnosed with a terminal brain tumor. What does he do. He signs over power of attorney to his son who then tries to take EVERYTHING from my mother. The house they bought together and which SHE made the down payment on (after selling HER house to do so) and pretty much everything else.

 

[Schrodinger]

Er I'm not SoylentGreen! I can prove it... I'm Canadian... if a fellow Canadian asks me the secret question I will answer and prove

 

[Ausm]

Originally posted by: NissanGurl
My experience:

*Parents got married.
*My mother paid off my dad's college debt.
*My mother basically had to handle all financial matters since she had to work (and earned majority of money).
*They had kids (2).
*They divorced (I think I was 3 yrs old at the time - can't really say for sure).
-I latter found out it was my dad that had already started seeing someone (sort of)
-My mother NEVER spoke negatively about my dad in front of us or let anyone else (so we could still enjoy time with our dad)
*Court ruled my dad had to pay child support.
*Dad never did.
*Mother raised 2 kids on her own (and they turned out wonderful IMHO ) .

I love my dad and wouldn't trade him for another dad for anything, just pointing out to all you women bashers that men do the same thing. Even if men are supposed to pay doesn't mean they actually pay. It's pretty darn hard to raise 2 kids and work full time without any help. Both remarried even after that experience. I plan to eventually marry, but will fully know what I'm getting into ahead of time. Not flaming, just informing.

Wow ,If I were you I would be VERY pissed off at my Father. A person who doesn't own up to his responsibility and pay his CS don't rank very high in my book.

Ausm

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: jemcam
I'll second the plea not to get married. They all turn evil. I'm working on number three now. Guys, marriage sucks. But don't take my word for it, come talk to me after you've been married for 10 years or so, then you'll see. Talk to me when your best friend gets divorced, yes it will happen.

Marriage sucks but divorce is worse.

<Evil Bastard> When my best friend gets divorced, I'll be too busy nailing his ex-wife to talk to you </Evil Bastard>

- M4H

lol Actually... I could see myself doing that. :Q

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Schrodinger
Er I'm not SoylentGreen! I can prove it... I'm Canadian... if a fellow Canadian asks me the secret question I will answer and prove

Oh yeah? What's the first and last letters of the alphabet?

- M4H

 

[Tiamat]

Originally posted by: Brutuskend
A man's life before Marriage
A man's life AFTER Marriage

:laugh:

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: ricochet
Selfish and materialistic people without morals should not get married. I agree.

lol I've seen some of the most "moral" people come unhinged once the prospect of marriage starts looming. It's a fascinating thing to watch, actually, to see the greed and selfishness unmasked.

 

[blakeatwork]

Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
LOL...

It's too late for me, guess I'll just have to put up with the 2nd income &amp; sex.

Indeed...

Been over a year since we married, and nothing changed, with the exception of the ring and her last name...

we still bicker like we did, laugh likw we did, ... like we did...

Not sure why everyone's so scared of it...

Though granted, I'm sure the average age here is something approaching half mine..

 

[ragazzo]

Originally posted by: Brutuskend

Originally posted by: NissanGurl
My experience:

*Parents got married.
*My mother paid off my dad's college debt.
*My mother basically had to handle all financial matters since she had to work (and earned majority of money).
*They had kids (2).
*They divorced (I think I was 3 yrs old at the time - can't really say for sure).
-I latter found out it was my dad that had already started seeing someone (sort of)
-My mother NEVER spoke negatively about my dad in front of us or let anyone else (so we could still enjoy time with our dad)
*Court ruled my dad had to pay child support.
*Dad never did.
*Mother raised 2 kids on her own (and they turned out wonderful IMHO ) .

I love my dad and wouldn't trade him for another dad for anything, just pointing out to all you women bashers that men do the same thing. Even if men are supposed to pay doesn't mean they actually pay. It's pretty darn hard to raise 2 kids and work full time without any help. Both remarried even after that experience. I plan to eventually marry, but will fully know what I'm getting into ahead of time. Not flaming, just informing.

Yup, men do indeed screw over their wives from time to time just like women screw over their husbands.

My Mom has been married to the same man for over 30 years now and a short time ago he was diagnosed with a terminal brain tumor. What does he do. He signs over power of attorney to his son who then tries to take EVERYTHING from my mother. The house they bought together and which SHE made the down payment on (after selling HER house to do so) and pretty much everything else.

f'king bastard of a son ;(

 

[IGBT]

...like any investment in time..money..or emotion..you have to ask your self..can you afford the down side. Most of us can't but only find this out thru the experience of loss.

 

[Schrodinger]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Schrodinger
Er I'm not SoylentGreen! I can prove it... I'm Canadian... if a fellow Canadian asks me the secret question I will answer and prove

Oh yeah? What's the first and last letters of the alphabet?

- M4H

c'mon do better than that

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Schrodinger

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Schrodinger
Er I'm not SoylentGreen! I can prove it... I'm Canadian... if a fellow Canadian asks me the secret question I will answer and prove

Oh yeah? What's the first and last letters of the alphabet?

- M4H

c'mon do better than that

We can't make it too hard, or the Yanks wouldn't get the joke.

- M4H

 

[Geekbabe]

I'm getting married soon and can't remember the last time I was this happy

 

[CHfan4ever]

That the thing i always say to a girl i meet in the first week.I dont beleive in marriages.Then if she do then ill tell her to dont expectr that from me.

Marriage is a secret organisation of women who decide to invent that in the early years because they were inferior to men in the society and monetary.So the only dumb think they had to do is to "grind up their boy", show him lots of affection and then when married leave all that, and wait for his man to cheat on her, or to simply ask for divorce.

Woman who ask for marriage are EVIL ! Dont even come close to them! Just for a one night stand thats it no more!!!!

 

[Syringer]

Originally posted by: z0mb13
This is why Scott Peterson killed his wife.. its not that he was a murderer.. he just literally saw no way out.

:roll:

Any possible credibility that article had was ruined by that line.

 

[Fausto]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I'm getting married soon and can't remember the last time I was this happy

Can I be the flower girl?

 

[Schrodinger]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Schrodinger

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Schrodinger
Er I'm not SoylentGreen! I can prove it... I'm Canadian... if a fellow Canadian asks me the secret question I will answer and prove

Oh yeah? What's the first and last letters of the alphabet?

- M4H

c'mon do better than that

We can't make it too hard, or the Yanks wouldn't get the joke.

- M4H

oh okay
It is P and E

P O U T I N E

Oh and further backup proof: RIP John Morgan of Air Farce... I hope they give him a salute with the chicken cannon

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Schrodinger

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Schrodinger

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Schrodinger
Er I'm not SoylentGreen! I can prove it... I'm Canadian... if a fellow Canadian asks me the secret question I will answer and prove

Oh yeah? What's the first and last letters of the alphabet?

- M4H

c'mon do better than that

We can't make it too hard, or the Yanks wouldn't get the joke.

- M4H

oh okay
It is P and E

P O U T I N E

Oh and further backup proof: RIP John Morgan of Air Farce... I hope they give him a salute with the chicken cannon

Ah, merde, you got it.

- M4H

 

[Armitage]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I'm getting married soon and can't remember the last time I was this happy

If you weren't I'd be really worried. Everybody is/should be outrageously happy just before/after they get married. But it has no relevance wrt the eventual outcome.

 

[Schrodinger]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Schrodinger

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Schrodinger

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Schrodinger
Er I'm not SoylentGreen! I can prove it... I'm Canadian... if a fellow Canadian asks me the secret question I will answer and prove

Oh yeah? What's the first and last letters of the alphabet?

- M4H

c'mon do better than that

We can't make it too hard, or the Yanks wouldn't get the joke.

- M4H

oh okay
It is P and E

P O U T I N E

Oh and further backup proof: RIP John Morgan of Air Farce... I hope they give him a salute with the chicken cannon

Ah, merde, you got it.

- M4H

Americans don't even know what CBC is let alone our rich "cultural" TV programs

I know about Rick Mercer.
I watch This Hour Has 22 Minutes
Red Green is filmed in Ontario
I was forced to watch Road to Avonley before these schmucks even knew who zombie girl Sarah Polley was.

That was a TKO as far as doubts towards my citizenship goes

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Schrodinger

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Schrodinger

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Schrodinger

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Schrodinger
Er I'm not SoylentGreen! I can prove it... I'm Canadian... if a fellow Canadian asks me the secret question I will answer and prove

Oh yeah? What's the first and last letters of the alphabet?

- M4H

c'mon do better than that

We can't make it too hard, or the Yanks wouldn't get the joke.

- M4H

oh okay
It is P and E

P O U T I N E

Oh and further backup proof: RIP John Morgan of Air Farce... I hope they give him a salute with the chicken cannon

Ah, merde, you got it.

- M4H

Americans don't even know what CBC is let alone our rich "cultural" TV programs

I know about Rick Mercer.
I watch This Hour Has 22 Minutes
Red Green is filmed in Ontario
I was forced to watch Road to Avonley before these schmucks even knew who zombie girl Sarah Polley was.

That was a TKO as far as doubts towards my citizenship goes

Speaking of the CBC, you ever been in the RCAF?

- M4H

 

[Ausm]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I'm getting married soon and can't remember the last time I was this happy

Been there twice before myself but unfortunately it will wear off soon....

Ausm

 

[Schrodinger]

IN the RCAF? I'd have to say not.
I'm not sure if you are talking about the TV show or the actual RCAF heh.

 

[moshquerade]

i actually agree with the OP.

marriages fail at a 50% or higher rate - not worth it to me.

 

[Fausto]

Originally posted by: Schrodinger
IN the RCAF? I'd have to say not.
I'm not sure if you are talking about the TV show or the actual RCAF heh.

Why don't you two go play footsie over a plate of those nasty-ass gravy fries or something? Sheesh.