Originally posted by: Descartes
Originally posted by: KMDupont64
Originally posted by: Descartes
Originally posted by: MailBoxHead
I agree. Anyone that said get a prenup really needs to look into why they believe that they should even exist. You're entering the marriage with the expectation of failure since you feel it necessary to have a financial contract to protect yourself when it does fail. A marriage with that foundation should never occur.Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Well, that's it right there. If you're gonna think of it as a "social contract" then it really is meaningless too, in my opinion. You compare it to a job, so to speak. If you don't like your job, you can get out of the contract and quit. People that look at marriage as an expectation or some sort of contract will not make it very far....or at least, happily.I'll never get married again, I see no reason to. If two people are happy together, why the pressure to get married? If they truly love each other, they'll stay together and get along. Why does there need to be a binding social contract in place?
So say most until they experience the wrath of financial impingement after a divorce.
The smart people wont need to go through that, they either get married to a perfect mate, or they wait. They don't need to rush into marriage to fix their inferiority problem. Luckily, I am SMRT.
LOL! Is that a joke? Please tell me it's a joke. I've never heard such naivete. Do you think many, if not most, of those that divorce married without thinking it was the perfect mate?
1) Not a Joke
2) Answer to your question is yes. If they were perfect, they wouldn't divorce.