I've been married for 14 years and I never wear mine anymore. First of all, I hate wearing jewelry and when I was surfing regularly I had to take it on and off all the time because it would slip right off my finger when wet so I'd put it somewhere and inevitably forget where I left it. I lost it once for about 4-5 months but then found it again.
We had it resized once but it cracked where it was mended and I must have bumped it against something so now it scratches the crap out of my finger if I wear it.
My wife doesn't care. Hell, she bought a different ring that she wears and keeps her good one in our gun safe.