Originally posted by: Gibson486
For some reason, my mom's opinion matter alot to me. Soemtimes I feel like a kid because it does, but it matters alot.
me too.
Originally posted by: Gibson486
For some reason, my mom's opinion matter alot to me. Soemtimes I feel like a kid because it does, but it matters alot.
Originally posted by: dug777
Originally posted by: Modeps
I'm 42 and I really don't know what I'd do without my parents generosity and compassion. Even though I have my own family, my own house, and my own life, I can still count on them 100% of the time. I don't see how it could be emotionally liberating at all.
Originally posted by: mrizvi66
Originally posted by: Gibson486
For some reason, my mom's opinion matter alot to me. Soemtimes I feel like a kid because it does, but it matters alot.
me too.
Originally posted by: Modeps
I'm 30 and I really don't know what I'd do without my parents generosity and compassion. Even when I have my own family, my own house, and my own life, I can still count on them 100% of the time. I don't see how it could be emotionally liberating at all.
Originally posted by: SoulAssassin
Originally posted by: Modeps
I'm 30 and I really don't know what I'd do without my parents generosity and compassion. Even when I have my own family, my own house, and my own life, I can still count on them 100% of the time. I don't see how it could be emotionally liberating at all.
You're 30 and you don't own a house? Maybe it's time to get out of the basement.
Originally posted by: HomeBrewerDude
750 words to sum up something as varied and complex as the impact of death on family relationships is a recipe for a guaranteed fail.
Originally posted by: JEDI
CNN
-people are "emotionally liberated" after a parent's death
-The death of a mother or father can be emotionally wrenching -- particularly for children who had a difficult or complicated relationship with their parents. But for others, it can also be a time for personal growth and renewal.
-it may take the death of a parent to allow adult children to feel liberated and do things they never dared when their parents were alive. (They feel emotionally liberated when they no longer are dominated by someone else's values.)
wont work for me i dont care about what my parents think. i live my own life. if it makes them happy, great. if they dont like what i'm doing, tough. i still do it anyway. what they think/feel has no impact/weight on whether i do this or that.
if you're no longer financially dependant on your parents, do their negative opinions stop you from doing what you want and being free?
Edit:
Why? Why not?
Originally posted by: JEDI
if you're no longer financially dependant on your parents, do their negative opinions stop you from doing what you want and being free?
Edit:
Why? Why not?
Originally posted by: paulxcook
Originally posted by: SoulAssassin
Originally posted by: Modeps
I'm 30 and I really don't know what I'd do without my parents generosity and compassion. Even when I have my own family, my own house, and my own life, I can still count on them 100% of the time. I don't see how it could be emotionally liberating at all.
You're 30 and you don't own a house? Maybe it's time to get out of the basement.
There are plenty of 30 year olds that live in apartments or share houses with others.
Originally posted by: SoulAssassin
Originally posted by: paulxcook
Originally posted by: SoulAssassin
Originally posted by: Modeps
I'm 30 and I really don't know what I'd do without my parents generosity and compassion. Even when I have my own family, my own house, and my own life, I can still count on them 100% of the time. I don't see how it could be emotionally liberating at all.
You're 30 and you don't own a house? Maybe it's time to get out of the basement.
There are plenty of 30 year olds that live in apartments or share houses with others.
Unless you live in NYC or make like 20k a year, by 30 most people should own a home. I bought mine at 24.