Has a woman ever hit you?

[Zysoclaplem]

This is basically a question for men, but ladies can answer too.

I have noticed that in male/female relationships, women seem have the priviledge to slap, hit, and throw things at the man with almost non-existent consequences.
But most men I know will not fight back or hit a woman, and if they do they go to jail or it's a huge deal.

Is this something agreed on before the relationship?

 

[Lola]

I have done the "Elaine... NO WAY/GET OUT" to my husband and accidentally hit him hard
but never to hurt him purposely...
No one else i have ever hit.... besides my brother.

 

[ohtwell]

I've choked a woman to the ground before!


: ) Amanda

 

[giantpinkbunnyhead]

I've hit women plenty of times. But, then again... they were my sparring partners from time to time!

outside of that, I only hit a woman once, it was my ex and I hit her arm to knock a knife out of her hand. She was coming at me with it. Crazy bitch.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
I have done the "Elaine... NO WAY/GET OUT" to my husband and accidentally hit him hard
but never to hurt him purposely...
No one else i have ever hit.... besides my brother.

But you have never slapped an ex bf for saying something, or threw something at a guy?
Your brother counts. Did he fight back?
My sister hit me once. She never did again cause I laid her ass out.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: ohtwell
I've choked a woman to the ground before!


: ) Amanda

Poor grandma. Next time she should watch her mouth.

 

[moshquerade]

most, if not all, siblings come to blows while growing up together. i didn't think your question was pertaining to that.

 

[Lola]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
I have done the "Elaine... NO WAY/GET OUT" to my husband and accidentally hit him hard
but never to hurt him purposely...
No one else i have ever hit.... besides my brother.

But you have never slapped an ex bf for saying something, or threw something at a guy?
Your brother counts. Did he fight back?
My sister hit me once. She never did again cause I laid her ass out.

no i have never slapped a man (or woman) before. never threw something at a man either.
You bet my brother faught back. we were younger and we had some good fights.

 

[ohtwell]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: ohtwell
I've choked a woman to the ground before!


: ) Amanda

Poor grandma. Next time she should watch her mouth.

Yep! She got her's though when she got ran over by a reindeer, walking home from our house Christmas Eve!


: ) Amanda

 

[GalvanizedYankee]

On two occasions, I have defended myself.
I believe in absolute equality of the sexes.

 

[SmoochyTX]

Assuming brothers don't count, I've never hit a man with the intent of hurting him. Wait. I did throw a cordless phone at my ex-husband before. The damned thing shattered into a million pieces and I didn't even hit him. I never did it again though.

I operate like this: if I hit then I should be hit back. I don't want to get hit so I don't hit.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
most, if not all, siblings come to blows while growing up together. i didn't think your question was pertaining to that.

I didn't it's just interesting.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: GalvanizedYankee
On two occasions, I have defended myself.
I believe in absolute equality of the sexes.

i agree, if a woman hits you first you have that right.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Assuming brothers don't count, I've never hit a man with the intent of hurting him. Wait. I did throw a cordless phone at my ex-husband before. The damned thing shattered into a million pieces and I didn't even hit him. I never did it again though.

I operate like this: if I hit then I should be hit back. I don't want to get hit so I don't hit.

lol
Good idea.

 

[JulesMaximus]

I've never hit or slapped a woman. It is regarded as unfair because men are stronger than women. Only a cowardly man beats up on a woman.

And no, brothers/sisters don't count.

 

[krunchykrome]

A crazy ex gf of mine once jumped on top of me and started slapping me. I threw her off the bed. She literally flew through the air before hitting the ground.

I dont believe in hitting a woman back, just because she's a woman. And Im sure most women feel the same way. Kinda funny though, it's another one of those hypocrisies where women demand to be treated as equals to men, yet they want different treatment.

 

[I Saw OJ]

I've been slapped by women a couple times. Never hit them back though.

Being slapped in the face by a 110 pound woman is not the same as being punched by a man so it does not suffer the same consequence.

 

[ohtwell]

I have hit a man before! I smacked him really hard and his nose started to bleed! He was very upset with me, but he never hit me back, except when we were playing around. He was one of my brothers friends so they always tortured me.


: ) Amanda

 

[ohtwell]

I think if a man or woman hits you, that you have every right to hit them back. The level of force you put into it should be dtermined by the person though. If I hit my husband with all my strength, it probably wouldn't hurt too badly, but if he it me with all his strength I think I'd be in a lot of pain!!


: ) Amanda

 

[NuAlphaMan]

Sad to say, when I was younger, I slapped a young lady back after she slapped me in the face. I've learned not to hit woman, just wrestle with them! The rewards are so sweet afterwards! And even if they aren't just think of all the FF's you get while you're wrestling! :thumbsup:

 

[EngenZerO]

i got slapped by some anonymous women after i told her louis vitton purse was fake...

this was @ like 3am @ some pizza joint in adams morgan, d.c.

the whole joint was like ooooo, you just got slapped... i kinda stood there and was like uhm, i cant hit a girl... so my friend amanda got up in her face and started running her mouth to that chick... i had to restrain amanda before it escalated into a fight... lol...

good times...

 

[krunchykrome]

Originally posted by: EngenZerO
i got slapped by some anonymous women after i told her louis vitton purse was fake...

this was @ like 3am @ some pizza joint in adams morgan, d.c.

the whole joint was like ooooo, you just got slapped... i kinda stood there and was like uhm, i cant hit a girl... so my friend amanda got up in her face and started running her mouth to that chick... i had to restrain amanda before it escalated into a fight... lol...

good times...

She got pissed off because her fake bag was exposed. Hahaha, thats worth a slap IMO.

:thumbsup:

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Let's say a woman slapped me in the face.
Would it be better or worse to not hit her back, but grab her arm and dislocate it on purpose, or just to hit her back?

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: krunchykrome

Originally posted by: EngenZerO
i got slapped by some anonymous women after i told her louis vitton purse was fake...

this was @ like 3am @ some pizza joint in adams morgan, d.c.

the whole joint was like ooooo, you just got slapped... i kinda stood there and was like uhm, i cant hit a girl... so my friend amanda got up in her face and started running her mouth to that chick... i had to restrain amanda before it escalated into a fight... lol...

good times...

She got pissed off because her fake bag was exposed. Hahaha, thats worth a slap IMO.

:thumbsup:

Women love their purses.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: NuAlphaMan
Sad to say, when I was younger, I slapped a young lady back after she slapped me in the face. I've learned not to hit woman, just wrestle with them! The rewards are so sweet afterwards! And even if they aren't just think of all the FF's you get while you're wrestling! :thumbsup:

What gets me is when you say "Jane slapped Michael because she was mad at him." You get a certain image in your head. But if you were to say "Michael slapped Jane because he was mad at her." He is a abusive asshole.