As a girl, yes I hit my husband once. I know I should feel bad, but I don't.
I was pissed because he promised not to get drunk at our wedding and he got pretty drunk. He was partying with his friends all night and I barely even saw him during the last 4 hours of our reception. I was angry because I had explained to him beforehand exactly what I didn't want (several times as we planned our wedding for a year and a half) and he promised he wouldn't do it, then he went ahead and got drunk. When he's drunk he gets very... hmm, I would say he becomes an a$$hole. So when we got back to the room and I calmly tell him why I'm pissed he starts arguing that he isn't drunk and blah blah blah. Anyways, 2 hours into it of him not acknowledging it, I hit him several times on the shoulder with my fist. Fortunately he didn't hit back. I did apologize in the morning for losing my temper.
The biggest fight we've ever had... it just happens to be on our wedding night. That sucked.
I was pissed because he promised not to get drunk at our wedding and he got pretty drunk. He was partying with his friends all night and I barely even saw him during the last 4 hours of our reception. I was angry because I had explained to him beforehand exactly what I didn't want (several times as we planned our wedding for a year and a half) and he promised he wouldn't do it, then he went ahead and got drunk. When he's drunk he gets very... hmm, I would say he becomes an a$$hole. So when we got back to the room and I calmly tell him why I'm pissed he starts arguing that he isn't drunk and blah blah blah. Anyways, 2 hours into it of him not acknowledging it, I hit him several times on the shoulder with my fist. Fortunately he didn't hit back. I did apologize in the morning for losing my temper.
The biggest fight we've ever had... it just happens to be on our wedding night. That sucked.