I'll try to find exactly what I'm looking for so I can back up what I am saying.If marriage is religious, by definition, show me that definition.
Technically, they would be a "union" and not "married".What about atheists getting married?
You do not need to be married inside a church, but I believe it needs to be done by a priest/etcWhat about people getting married *outside* of a church with no pastor/minister/priest/etc?
If they are done by a priest, I would say they are married.What about pre-arranged marriages?
I don't know much about this.What about our colonial history and the social/economic factors behind marriages?
I'm certainly willing to change my thought on this. If it can be shown that the term "marriage" was ever used before it was a religious term, then I would no longer say that the term is reserved for God. Personally, I think it's stupid getting worked up over terms like this, but I think those who wish to deny "marriage" to a gay couple is justified (by this arguement only). I don't agree with any of their other reasons. I think gay people have the right to a "union" (or "marriage" if the term "marriage" has roots that are not religious)