Think of it this way.
Let's say you're drawing a picture. That picture has a bunch of dogs and cats, loping around exactly as you drew them. Do those dogs and cats have free will, or are they only doing what you drew them to do?
I understand this.
But the reason why we're missing each other is because you seem to be indicating that knowing the future is tantamount to
manipulating the future -- those aren't the same, IMO.
If you draw a circle for the animals to walk around in, and that's
only path available, then sure, they technically don't have free will, but they can still choose not to move at all...so in a sense, they still do have free will.
Say for instance that you ask me: "Who created the Universe". You know me, so you know my answer which would be "God". Does that mean that you
caused (manipulated) me to give that answer? No. All it means that you knew what I'd say. I think there's a difference between causing something to happen, and simply being aware of it happening.
If I know that you're gonna do or say something, that doesn't mean I am causing that to happen. People often say God has a "plan". I don't believe that for a second.
The reason is that if a mass-shooting took place, then you can put that on God and not the perpetrator -- after all, he "planned" it. If a baby is born and dies with no kidneys, well, you can blame that on God because he "planned" it.
So that doesn't add up because the Bible indicates that God will punish "bad" people. But....how can he punish the "bad" people when he planned for them to be bad, and manipulated things for that to happen?
If you have children, how can you get upset at them for being murderes if you planned that for them all along, and even guided them to that way of life?
Makes.No.Sense.