Have any of you ever spontaneously quit a job? Was it worth it?

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cabri

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Nov 3, 2012
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Bailed with 1 day notice.
Was being jerked around by the company owner.
Left a notice on boss's chair Thurs evening that I was quitting on Friday.

Had to fight for the last paycheck for 9 months; invoking both the Feds and State labor boards. Made a nice Xmas present when it arrived.
 

brianmanahan

Lifer
Sep 2, 2006
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Considered jumping to a university about a month ago, but the pay was just too low. I figure I should do this a few years and hopefully I can settle into a cushy government job and coast to retirement.

think i might be able to get a %15 or %20 percent raise and finally snag that 100$k salary that is required of everyone here at atot
 

gorcorps

aka Brandon
Jul 18, 2004
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You're bending over and taking it. I'd leave, and then wherever you end up later, make sure you don't fall until the same trap. Employers will wring every drop from you if you let them.
 

purbeast0

No Lifer
Sep 13, 2001
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not me. i'd never let myself get to that position at a job where it got to that point. i'm not one who cries about things sucking and doesn't do anything about it, and i'm not scared of change. if it's this bad for you, you've obviously known this for a very long time but just haven't done anything about it. too many people bitch and complain about their jobs, yet they stay there year in and year out. life's too short to live like that.
 

vi edit

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not me. i'd never let myself get to that position at a job where it got to that point. i'm not one who cries about things sucking and doesn't do anything about it, and i'm not scared of change. if it's this bad for you, you've obviously known this for a very long time but just haven't done anything about it. too many people bitch and complain about their jobs, yet they stay there year in and year out. life's too short to live like that.

Things are different when you have a family to provide for. It's a lot harder to take chances when you have kids to keep fed and clothed.
 

purbeast0

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Things are different when you have a family to provide for. It's a lot harder to take chances when you have kids to keep fed and clothed.

looking for a new job and moving to a new job while you are currently employed isn't much of "taking a chance", especially if you have a very solid skill set, which it sounds like he does. if he's been unhappy for 3+ years at his current job, that is 3 years he could have been searching for a new gig and could be a lot happier.
 

brianmanahan

Lifer
Sep 2, 2006
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Considered jumping to a university about a month ago, but the pay was just too low. I figure I should do this a few years and hopefully I can settle into a cushy government job and coast to retirement.

haha i am thinking the same, maybe stick w/ government for 10-15 years and see where i am at then
 

Ruptga

Lifer
Aug 3, 2006
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A job is what it is. Employers rarely change who they are and how they do business, even if they say they will. They will ALWAYS consider their needs above yours.

You can speak with your employer to try and improve your job situation, but those energies will probably be better spent finding a better situation. Cut back to 40 hours per week and don't walk out until you have something better to move on to.

This is good advice. Your line of work may be thankless but if you don't have a clue what else you'd do, you really should follow the above. You'll be much happier when you're working sane hours and properly compensated for your work, thanks or no, and you'll be in a much better position to figure out what exactly it is you really want to do.
 

Engineer

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Oct 9, 1999
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looking for a new job and moving to a new job while you are currently employed isn't much of "taking a chance", especially if you have a very solid skill set, which it sounds like he does. if he's been unhappy for 3+ years at his current job, that is 3 years he could have been searching for a new gig and could be a lot happier.

Never said that I've been unhappy 3+ years. It comes and goes and generally, I blow off the comments and basically state "I am what I am" at that point. Lately, something changed. I don't know what's changed....money situation....working situation....both.....but something has changed. I'm at the point that I can no longer blow it off as an "I am what I am" type of situation.

Every job has it's pluses and minuses. I've had more pluses....up until the last few months.

Maybe I'm just tired and don't know what the hell I'm talking about. I still have my 10 days vacation that I received new in October of last year. Haven't had a chance to take any of them yet. Maybe that fact alone should be telling me something........
 

purbeast0

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Never said that I've been unhappy 3+ years. It comes and goes and generally, I blow off the comments and basically state "I am what I am" at this point. Lately, something change. I don't know what's changed....money situation....working situation....both.....but something has changed. I'm at the point that I can no longer blow it off as an "I am what I am" type of situation.

Every job has it's pluses and minuses. I've had more pluses....up until the last few months.

Maybe I'm just tired and don't know what the hell I'm talking about. I still have my 10 days vacation that I received new in October of last year. Haven't had a chance to take any of them yet. Maybe that fact alone should be telling me something........

yeah i was just saying in general, for things to get to the point you are thinking of just walking, typically that means people have been unhappy for a very long time and haven't done anything about it. one of my best friends has been hating his job for like 5+ years, yet he's still there and has been there for like 13 years, and he's only 32. i don't see him doing anything any time soon either job wise. many people get too comfortable and scared to make a change. but again, not saying you are, but just generally speaking.

and only 10 days vacation a year? i'd never take a job that only has 10 days vacation, let alone a job where i couldn't even take them. my current job goes from 22 days vacation to 27 in september when i hit 10 years industry experience. and i plan on using that extra week every year. i never understood the people who have weeks and weeks of vacation banked then claim "they dont have time" to use it. that right there would be a reason i wouldn't be at a company that works that way.
 

Fenixgoon

Lifer
Jun 30, 2003
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I'm strongly considering giving a notice this week. I'm tired of the expectations....no matter how much I give, more is expected. Customers love the work....boss can't stand my 'slowness'. Wants a 'get in - get out' type and no matter how many hours I do at home at nights / weekends, it's just not enough.

I'm just worn out to the point of crying now.

Anyone else ever felt this way and just quit? Did it work out ok?


that's pretty F'd up, engineer. i'd absolutely be looking elsewhere, and from the sound of it, you're a sharp guy who would have no problem finding another job.
 

bbhaag

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Jul 2, 2011
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I did once. I worked for a transport company running a forklift. I basically unloaded Caterpillar equipment off semitrailer A and put it on semitrailer B. Terrible job with terrible pay.
Sounds like you might be a little bit more vested with your current company though. If you don't mind me asking what exactly do you do for a living?
 

imagoon

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Feb 19, 2003
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I worked for someone like you are describing. I got lucky and the client bought me out and took me on fully time for about an 85% raise. Otherwise I have only walked out on one job before and that was one where the "General Manager" of the store was high school dropout who thought he knew our business better than the people that had been their years prior. I just got tired of the stupid management that cycled in and out just about every 3 months.
 

ThinClient

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I have. I walked out of one of the worst jobs I've ever had. The feeling of walking to my car knowing I'd never have to return to that hell hole was fucking orgasmic.
 

RockinZ28

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Start looking at other options asap. No sense being somewhere you're unhappy unless you have no other choice. Wouldn't burn bridges when leaving either.

Just be sure to have something else lined up. My former coworker that took my position after I left got fed up and gave his two week notice. Manager said no, you're fired right now. So he has been unemployed for a couple months. Got denied unemployment cause company said he quit. Thought he had other options, but when he came knocking they had nothing currently.
 

MistaFreeze

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Not that my level of intelligence nor skill-sets are near what the OP has, I will still chime in and post a small history of myself. I've worked retail jobs and service jobs. I've walked out with no notice on one job (felt bad) and not shown up the next day on 4 jobs (felt bad). I have no degree, the latest job I made $16.50/Hr and was voted in the top 100 places to work according to Fortune Magazine which was the last job I had. They called me and really wanted to get me back, I denied. I've wanted to walk-out on every job I've had every day for the past 3 years.

I have my own personal reasons as to why, but I now know that there's no going back to working under someone. I said "F it, I'm starting my own business." Took out a loan, told the wife it's going to be rough for a while and now I'm slowly building up clientele. When I'm working, which is generally less than 15 hours a week, I make great money and enjoy every moment of it.
 

JEDI

Lifer
Sep 25, 2001
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OP,

200hrs in 2weeks w/o additional pay? jesus WTF?!
why haven't u been sending out your resume weeks/months ago?

yes, I've quit a high paying job after 2yrs w/o a new one lined up because I didn't like it.
but I don't have a wife/kids like u.
I also had a years expenses in the bank when I gave my 2weeks.

how long can u last w/o a job?
 

Red Squirrel

No Lifer
May 24, 2003
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I felt that way when I worked as server tech for the hospital. I was a contractor, so the company I actually worked for was good, and the job was good, but the customer IT manager was essentially more my boss than my real boss was, because I was on site. He was a huge asshole, nobody liked him, not even our managers, but it was a big contract so from a company point of view it made sense they just bowed down to him and gave him everything he wanted. We did our best, but no matter what, what we did or how we did it was always wrong. It got to a point where I always dreaded to go to work in the morning. The IT manager would come in multiple times a day and give us speeches on how we're doing everything wrong or about whatever event or incident that occurred and how it was our fault it happened. We called it soapboxing. There was about 2-3 hours of that per day, and I'm not even joking. Usually first thing in the morning for about an hour, then after lunch, then sometimes near 5, and he would keep us past 5. Mondays were the worst, 3 hour meeting right after lunch. And RIGHT at 1:00. So not only did you have to make sure not to be late, you had to be ready and everything by 1:00. At least make it at 1:15 or something...

A job at my company came up for NOC, first time I did not apply thinking I was not qualified (barely knew anything about telecommunications) second job opening a few months later I figured it's a sign. Applied and got it. Everybody told me it was a bad move... but it was the best move I ever did and to this day I don't regret it. Been there for 3-4 years now... lost track, but it's been great. WAY more easygoing than what I did before.

Problem is, it took over a year before they let me start on my new role so the IT manager was in double asshole mode knowing I was leaving and he was pissed because it was a situation he could not do anything about. Often times, I felt like quitting my company just so I can get out of that job, but there really is not anything else here that pays as good so it would have been a bad move in my case. I was pretty much looking at jobs all day. I was at a point where I realized if I do absolutely nothing all day I get in less trouble than if I do something. Thing is, I actually enjoyed the server work, but hated the environment. Though I think that job actually made me hate IT, I don't know if I'd want to do IT type work for people again. Nice thing with NOC is that it's a behind the scenes job and you don't interact with customers. The danger is that it's fairly easy to outsource or relocate... then again, so is server tech, even more so with cloud computing being the big thing.
 

Dr. Zaus

Lifer
Oct 16, 2008
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As a trained professional at seeing people suck at managing: you need to GTFO before death-spiral sets in. You get none of the benefits of being in a small company when the management is looking to commoditize the labor.

Move along.
 

Jeeebus

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Aug 29, 2006
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OP,

200hrs in 2weeks w/o additional pay? jesus WTF?!

I had a trial in NY a few years back that had me up there from Nov 1 through about Jan 10. I was billing about 105 - 110 hours per week for two months (including holidays). It sucked, and I was completely burned out.

Additional pay for more hours? Ya right. Not in this field at least.
 

IndyColtsFan

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Sep 22, 2007
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I knew a guy who one day, went into the office really early, got his stuff, and then went home and resigned by email. Unlike you though, he didn't really have a legit reason to quit. He had a really fragile ego and screwed up a presentation (his software didn't work and the owner jokingly said "He thinks he's hot shit but is a cold turd" and knowing this guy, the owner nailed the assessment. To add "insult" to injury, they made his wife (who didn't even work there) play outfield on the company softball team when she wanted to play first base. No, I'm not joking. When he told me that was the "final straw," the look I gave him was priceless and he started to backpedal and make new excuses.

Fortunately for him, it worked out and he was able to get another job. I'm frankly amazed as I thought he screwed himself, but I think he had some connections to this new job.

In your case, you're being used. Would your boss give away a 60 hour project to a customer for free? No? Then why are you giving him 60 hours/week for free? You're the CEO/President/Owner of your own business and need to look at it that way. My advice is the following:

1. Immediately cut back your hours to 40 hours per week and start looking for a new job. Update your resume if it isn't already updated and start applying everywhere.
2. Take a week off and do nothing but relax. I never understand people who don't use their vacation time -- work not getting done in your absence is your company's problem, not your problem.
3. Once you get a new job, you can quit. I recommend giving 2 weeks notice but only work 40 hours those two weeks.

You can't just quit your job in this economy without several months of liquid savings. If you have that, you can consider it but I'd still try to find something else first. If your wife has good benefits, maybe even consider doing contracting or consulting as you'll make much more money.

Additional pay for more hours? Ya right. Not in this field at least.

I am hopefully done with salaried work. I am tired of the free labor for no benefit other than "you're lucky to have a job!" If I bill hours beyond 40 hours, I'd better get paid.
 
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ultimatebob

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Jul 1, 2001
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The OP really needs to take some of the blame for this... he should have stood up to his boss much earlier before it got this far out of hand. If he would have refused to work more than 50 hours a week awhile back, his boss never would have expected him to work 60 or more regularly.

But, yeah... it's time to tell your boss that you're going back to a 45ish hour work week. If he's not OK with that, do it anyway and spend your new free time looking for a new job.
 

purbeast0

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it's crazy just from this thread hearing how many people will work for free. not a chance in hell i would ever do that. okay maybe like for a few hours once a year or something, but on a regular basis like many of you are talking about? lol fuck that.
 

IndyColtsFan

Lifer
Sep 22, 2007
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The OP really needs to take some of the blame for this... he should have stood up to his boss much earlier before it got this far out of hand. If he would have refused to work more than 50 hours a week awhile back, his boss never would have expected him to work 60 or more regularly.

No offense Engineer, but I have to agree with ultimatebob here. Don't feel bad -- I did it to myself a couple of jobs ago and routinely worked 60+ hour weeks. One night, it was 8:00 PM or 9:00 PM on a Friday night and I was still at the office and it dawned on me -- why am I doing this to myself?

At your next job, set the expectation of 40 hour weeks.

it's crazy just from this thread hearing how many people will work for free. not a chance in hell i would ever do that. okay maybe like for a few hours once a year or something, but on a regular basis like many of you are talking about? lol fuck that.

You and I have talked about this before and I'm with you -- I don't understand it. It is just a job for Christ's sake, not your life. People who miss kid's events, vacations, etc. to put in extra hours for free are throwing their lives away. Sure, 30 years ago, working those hours may have had tangible benefits. But now? I've certainly not seen them in 20+ years.
 

BikeJunkie

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not me. i'd never let myself get to that position at a job where it got to that point. i'm not one who cries about things sucking and doesn't do anything about it, and i'm not scared of change. if it's this bad for you, you've obviously known this for a very long time but just haven't done anything about it. too many people bitch and complain about their jobs, yet they stay there year in and year out. life's too short to live like that.

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