Have any of you ever spontaneously quit a job? Was it worth it?

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Engineer

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The 12 hours is insane.

Get out as soon as you can.

I really need (for my own purposes) to question him on this. I'm sure he's going to say that the quote is of no concern to me. However, if I have a target to hit, I need to know what the target is.

I can see my questioning this not ending well......might be a good thing though.
 

senseamp

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Why not interview and get offers first? It's always good to maximize your number of options and then decide.
But if you are going to bail, don't wait too long, we may already be in an economic bubble, and when the music stops you want to have a chair.
 

IndyColtsFan

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The one thing that I disliked about my first job was how they pushed the idea of it being a 40-hour work week -- salaried of course. However, you go there, and then they drop the usual bomb, "we'd like you to at least work an extra 10%". Throughout my first year, I worked the hours that I needed to (at least 40, of course). I think my longest work week was about 55-60 hours when I was put on third shift due to lack of available SIL (System Integration Lab) time. What was the comment? "Well, you only averaged about 42 hours per week" "Yes, because I usually could finish my work well within 40 hours." "Then go help someone else."

My thought? "Okay, so you want me to take up a coworker's time for him to delegate some of his work to me?" If my team leader thought that another group within our team needed my help, then he would've asked me to help them, and I would've gladly done it. In other words, it wasn't needed and it takes up time on my side and the other group's side just to set everything up and potentially teach me the things I need to know to do the job.

The biggest thing about it that bugs me? That was a defense sector job, and why does a defense company want me to work more hours? That's because I don't get paid for it, but they do. The hours get charged to the contract, which is money in their pocket. At my current job, I get comp time for any hours over 40. If I don't use it by the end of the year, it gets paid out at 100% normal hourly rate.

Companies try to sell employees on working 50 hours minimum per week to "help their career." It is an antiquated, BS viewpoint IMO. It might have been fine in the 50s and 60s when companies had your back and you knew you would be promoted or rewarded, but things are much, much different now.

Why should I give up my personal time for free when the company isn't investing in me, promoting me, or paying me for that extra effort? That company wouldn't blink an eye on getting rid of me if it helped their bottom line. No, companies don't give their products away for free and I'm not giving my time away for free either. Think about it -- a 50 hour work week is 10 hours extra every week and assuming you work around 50 weeks per year, that's 500 hours per year you are giving up for free. That's 25% of a full time job (40 hrs/week) alone.

I'm almost 44 and too old to deal with crap like that. When I was young and naïve (aka a sucker), I did the time but no more. If you're not going to pay me extra, don't expect me to regularly work extra time either.
 
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Ns1

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Why should I give up my personal time for free when the company isn't investing in me, promoting me, or paying me?

ICF - would your viewpoint change if you felt your company was investing in you, by doing things such as promoting you and/or paying for your MBA (as an example)?
 

IndyColtsFan

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ICF - would your viewpoint change if you felt your company was investing in you, by doing things such as promoting you and/or paying for your MBA (as an example)?

At my current age, after having worked 20+ years? No. I view myself as a business and I sell my skills to the highest bidder, period.

I've had jobs that would pay for an MBA (in one case, 100%). Getting an MBA has never been a goal of mine nor even desirable, as I've never respected the degree and the market is flooded with them now. I've always been considered an elite worker and basically, it has just gotten me more work. Yeah, I got some great raises, but at the end of the day, my life sucked.

I opened my eyes about 10 years ago and came to the conclusion that my job was sucking my life out and that my job is just a means to an end, not the end itself. With few exceptions, a "career" is just a job and people need to realize that. It isn't a way of life or the meaning of your life. It's sad people think it is.
 
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Engineer

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Why not interview and get offers first? It's always good to maximize your number of options and then decide.
But if you are going to bail, don't wait too long, we may already be in an economic bubble, and when the music stops you want to have a chair.

The last time the bubble popped and the company that I worked for closed down the local plant, I had an interview within 2 days and a job in 5. Not saying that would happen this time but to be honest, I'm not too worried about that right now. I'm more interested in finding the 'right job', not another job.

I have been thinking about going out on my own. I'm trying to price the software and computer hardware needed right now. Would be probably north of $6,000 to get the hardware (good laptop) and the software (AutoCAD, Rockwell software, Omron software, Mitsubishi software, Proface software, etc) to get ready. Maybe more.

Of course, I could simply freelance and tell the customers that I have to use their copies of software but that's not practical and probably a customer turnoff.
 

Ns1

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At my current age, after having worked 20+ years? No. I view myself as a business and I sell my skills to the highest bidder, period.

I've had jobs that would pay for an MBA (in one case, 100%). Getting an MBA has never been a goal of mine nor even desirable, as I've never respected the degree and the market is flooded with them now. I've always been considered an elite worker and basically, it has just gotten me more work. Yeah, I got some great raises, but at the end of the day, my life sucked.

I opened my eyes about 10 years ago and came to the conclusion that my job was sucking my life out and that my job is just a means to an end, not the end itself. With few exceptions, a "career" is just a job and people need to realize that. It isn't a way of life or the meaning of your life. It's sad people think it is.

You should just amend your post then

Why should I give up my personal time for free when the company isn't investing in me, promoting me, or paying me?
 

Engineer

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I opened my eyes about 10 years ago and came to the conclusion that my job was sucking my life out and that my job is just a means to an end, not the end itself. With few exceptions, a "career" is just a job and people need to realize that. It isn't a way of life or the meaning of your life. It's sad people think it is.

I think that's what I'm realizing myself. What I realize is that most other jobs out there would probably be as bad or worse than this one....maybe it's me that's changed. If I can't find a business that I like, I, like you, should become my own business.
 

IndyColtsFan

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You should just amend your post then

Well, that is basically what it amounts to. A business won't give stuff away for free, and my product is my skills/time, so why should I give it away for free?

I'm not saying I'd never work OT -- sometimes you have to do it. But that should be the rare exception and not the rule.

I've been burned too many times on promotions to even care about "moving up" now. I just hope to keep doing consulting, raking in the money, and retire with some of my sanity intact.
 
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IndyColtsFan

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I think that's what I'm realizing myself. What I realize is that most other jobs out there would probably be as bad or worse than this one....maybe it's me that's changed. If I can't find a business that I like, I, like you, should become my own business.

Everyone should consider themselves the CEO of their own business and realize that their skills are the product they offer, in increments of hours.
 

xeemzor

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Well, that is basically what it amounts to. A business won't give stuff away for free, and my product is my skills/time, so why should I give it away for free?

I'm not saying I'd never work OT -- sometimes you have to do it. But that should be the rare exception and not the rule.

I've been burned too many times on promotions to even care about "moving up" now. I just hope to keep doing consulting, raking in the money, and retire with some of my sanity intact.

That attitude only really works when the market is favoring the employee. In our case of enterprise software consulting there just isn't enough supply of good employees. I'm sure you have more than your fair share of hilarious stories of gross incompetence, I certainly do. Employers are willing to pay a premium to get a good employee. However, in a market for careers like nursing do you really think the same applies?

Companies in general don't promote fast enough or keep salaries in line with market. Last jump I got a 50% and at this point I almost feel compelled to jump every 3 years to stay current with my market value. It doesn't help that I'm so fed up with corporate BS like goals and performance metrics.

Do you find that going out on your own is worth the risk? Sure you make a boat load more, but you still have quite a bit of working time in front of you. Will SharePoint be there for that entire time. How do you stay current and get people to contract with you? The most successful people on my side of the fence are the ones that can jump back and forth from being independent and working for a firm. That way they can find someone to subsidize the risk and training for new products but make bank when they don't need that safety net.
 

ch33zw1z

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Vote for job search, work less, find something new in the meantime. I'm going through a similar thing, been watching for jobs on local sites, no bites yet.

It's stressful being expected to work ridiculous hours, especially in an environment where you want to do it right but the boss complains about it. Happy customers are returning customers.
 

IndyColtsFan

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That attitude only really works when the market is favoring the employee. In our case of enterprise software consulting there just isn't enough supply of good employees. I'm sure you have more than your fair share of hilarious stories of gross incompetence, I certainly do. Employers are willing to pay a premium to get a good employee. However, in a market for careers like nursing do you really think the same applies?

I think having self-respect and trying to work to live rather than live to work applies to all professions. I didn't understand that when I was younger and I bet most people are like I was and one day, it will occur to them.

Nursing is probably a bad example because my wife's cousin, for example, is really an idiot and keeps quitting her nursing jobs and has no trouble finding others. I suppose if you have a standard liberal arts degree and are working a generic office job that you may have problems finding something and may have to work extra hours all the time, but in that case, I'd advise the person to keep looking while obtaining some marketable skills.

Companies in general don't promote fast enough or keep salaries in line with market. Last jump I got a 50% and at this point I almost feel compelled to jump every 3 years to stay current with my market value. It doesn't help that I'm so fed up with corporate BS like goals and performance metrics.
I'm with you 100%. That's what is great about contracting my services out. I don't have to deal with lame corporate BS any longer and I have a ton more flexibility.

Funny you should mention goals and performance metrics -- at my last job (with a very well known sports organization), the HR group wanted to give up their HR performance management system and didn't have money to replace it. Guess what I got to do? Build a new system from the ground-up in SharePoint. The amount of pie-in-the-sky BS I had to deal with was both comical and sad at the same time. I left before it was completely done.

Do you find that going out on your own is worth the risk? Sure you make a boat load more, but you still have quite a bit of working time in front of you. Will SharePoint be there for that entire time. How do you stay current and get people to contract with you? The most successful people on my side of the fence are the ones that can jump back and forth from being independent and working for a firm. That way they can find someone to subsidize the risk and training for new products but make bank when they don't need that safety net.
It is risky and I would not have done it without having a wife to cover my benefits. Right now, I'm contracted at least through December and probably beyond that. If I don't go beyond that, I have a cushion to pay my bills for a couple of years so I can either do something else or go sign another SP contract.

I think SharePoint is good for a few more years, especially in terms of migration projects, but I'll probably need something else after that because SP isn't my passion. I've thought about moving into project management or, if this lasts long enough, just settling back into an infrastructure position somewhere and coasting to retirement. My strategy all along is to target the date my house is paid off and when that happens, I have a ton more flexibility.
 
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senseamp

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The last time the bubble popped and the company that I worked for closed down the local plant, I had an interview within 2 days and a job in 5. Not saying that would happen this time but to be honest, I'm not too worried about that right now. I'm more interested in finding the 'right job', not another job.

I have been thinking about going out on my own. I'm trying to price the software and computer hardware needed right now. Would be probably north of $6,000 to get the hardware (good laptop) and the software (AutoCAD, Rockwell software, Omron software, Mitsubishi software, Proface software, etc) to get ready. Maybe more.

Of course, I could simply freelance and tell the customers that I have to use their copies of software but that's not practical and probably a customer turnoff.

I still think it's better to interview if you have a job. Maybe it's just my strategy. I like to interview from position of strength and ambivalence, like I am just testing the waters, and make them make it worth my while to jump ship. Companies also tend to value you less if you are presently unemployed than if you have a steady job. They don't know you personally, so they will think of various possibilities of why you aren't employed, most of them are not favorable to you getting a good offer.
 

Engineer

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I still think it's better to interview if you have a job. Maybe it's just my strategy. I like to interview from position of strength and ambivalence, like I am just testing the waters, and make them make it worth my while to jump ship. Companies also tend to value you less if you are presently unemployed than if you have a steady job. They don't know you personally, so they will think of various possibilities of why you aren't employed, most of them are not favorable to you getting a good offer.

Yes, can't fault any of that. I'm also going to discreetly start gauging interest from people that I've done business with over the last 4 years to see if they would be interested in using my service if I were to go out on my own. I could lower the rate because I don't have the overhead. They already know the work quality so I don't have to convince them on that.
 

xeemzor

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Hrm, nursing must have very local dependent markets. In Chicago nurses are having difficulty finding jobs out of school or have to work undesirable shifts. You are right about it probably not the best example though.

On a more relevant note, I can't believe that were tasked with building an HRIS system by scratch instead of buying one off the shelf. Someone really thought that was best approach?!? People really suck when it comes to understanding technology. Oh well, at least it's job security++.

My goal is to eventually get away from the technology and move in a project management or director role. Everyone has a time span of expertise and you don't want to wait until the bitter end when your skills become irrelevant. At my age(under 30) I'm probably still a way away from that though.
 

senseamp

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Yes, can't fault any of that. I'm also going to discreetly start gauging interest from people that I've done business with over the last 4 years to see if they would be interested in using my service if I were to go out on my own. I could lower the rate because I don't have the overhead. They already know the work quality so I don't have to convince them on that.

You could get into some conflict of interest legal issues if your current employer finds out you are pre-poaching his customers while still employed there. I wouldn't mess with it. I think you should already know if they are there for your work or are loyal to the company. You can always poach them afterwards. If they like your work and you offer them a lower rate, it's a no-brainer.
 

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You could get into some conflict of interest legal issues if your current employer finds out you are pre-poaching his customers while still employed there. I wouldn't mess with it. I think you should already know if they are there for your work or are loyal to the company. You can always poach them afterwards. If they like your work and you offer them a lower rate, it's a no-brainer.


Yea, he could fire me! :biggrin:
 

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u sign any non-compete forms?

Nope! :biggrin:

Nor would I sign anything like that anywhere I work. Controls Engineering is too broad of a field to have someone try to control who and who cannot do it because they want to limit competition. Would never fly.

It could be worse than that. Seriously, tread carefully here.


There are no documents signed. He would have no legal recourse that I know of. He wouldn't push it anyway. He always stated that "If you go, you go...nothing I can do about it".
 
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senseamp

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Nope! :biggrin:

Nor would I sign anything like that anywhere I work. Controls Engineering is too broad of a field to have someone try to control who and who cannot do it because they want to limit competition. Would never fly.

There are no documents signed. He would have no legal recourse that I know of. He wouldn't push it anyway. He always stated that "If you go, you go...nothing I can do about it".

If you go, you go. If you poach your company's clients while still working for them and then go, that could be a different story. Even if you signed nothing, there could be a reasonable expectation that you act in the company's interest and not your own personal one while employed there and having access to their clients.
And even if there isn't, your employer could still sue you, and you could be wiped out financially even if you win. So I wouldn't tempt fate.
 

JEDI

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If you go, you go. If you poach your company's clients while still working for them and then go, that could be a different story. Even if you signed nothing, there could be a reasonable expectation that you act in the company's interest and not your own personal one while employed there and having access to their clients.
And even if there isn't, your employer could still sue you, and you could be wiped out financially even if you win. So I wouldn't tempt fate.

its ok to work for a competitor as an employee if no non-compete, but poaching a client might be a diff story
 

Engineer

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Well, I'll keep everything on the up and up. What's funny is how many times I've been asked to work 'off grid' (i.e. on my own) for many of those people because of the high rates (overhead and bad quoting). I've always told them no.
 
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