- Nov 28, 2001
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I know for a fact that I am certainly not the only socially awkward late 20s guy who hasn't dated. Certainly it's not the norm but I know others as well. And I know there are girls in the same situation. BTW don't bother asking if you don't know my situation already, I've posted enough about that here that most should know At any rate I have of course confided in my family about my issues and my father would really like to see me out there picking up some girls. He doesn't mean go crazy or anything certainly but he'd like to see it. I know this isn't really an unusual view for a parent to have but it doesn't feel a little akward as well. Does anyone else know familys, or family members who have pushed their children, yeah I'm certinaly not a child at this point I know, to 'date'? And know he's not worried I'm gay or anything.
Not this has nothing to do with wanting grandkids or anything like that. He wants to see it for my own emotional and social well being. GFs and sex being obviously an important part of life in general. He worries that I will have regrets later in life if I don't start to get off the ground now. All of these thing ARE TRUE OF COURSE! I want these things too of course it just feels a little odd to have a parent who is pushing you to go for these things too.
Note: Watching Black Swan recently brought a lot of these things to the surface. Good film btw, though not Aronofsky's best.
Not this has nothing to do with wanting grandkids or anything like that. He wants to see it for my own emotional and social well being. GFs and sex being obviously an important part of life in general. He worries that I will have regrets later in life if I don't start to get off the ground now. All of these thing ARE TRUE OF COURSE! I want these things too of course it just feels a little odd to have a parent who is pushing you to go for these things too.
Note: Watching Black Swan recently brought a lot of these things to the surface. Good film btw, though not Aronofsky's best.
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