Have you seen instances where parents really wanted their children to date?

[Locut0s]

Hell no.

Seriously, you should seek locations where you will find women with similar interests as you. Do not look at a woman as how you think of your porn collection. Just have a normal conversation and see how it goes. And listen to your body or you are going to mess up.

If your desire is to get laid only seek those kind of women who only want this too but be ready to share the lady and if you have bad luck, maybe more.

And if you do not feel comfortable around people in general check for Aspergers syndrome. Depression is very common if you are always stressed out.

LOL uhh yeah my keyboard is cleaner than most actually. And I'm not looking just to get laid, that was just to point out that I have the same drive as others. I don't view women in the real world like that at all. Sure I want to get laid but I'm looking for a GF mostly.

 

[zerocool84]

LOL uhh yeah my keyboard is cleaner than most actually. And I'm not looking just to get laid, that was just to point out that I have the same drive as others. I don't view women in the real world like that at all. Sure I want to get laid but I'm looking for a GF mostly.

How do you know you even want a gf if you've never even gone out with a girl?

 

[William Gaatjes]

LOL uhh yeah my keyboard is cleaner than most actually. And I'm not looking just to get laid, that was just to point out that I have the same drive as others. I don't view women in the real world like that at all. Sure I want to get laid but I'm looking for a GF mostly.

It seems centuries ago when i was young and beautiful that i made the same mistake :biggrin:

Look to make just friends, the rest will come automagically.
If you want a girlfriend bad, you only look for girlfriend material and that is wrong because it clouds your judgement, when you make a few of female friends and just enjoy life, it will come naturally because you can assume you know them and as such may have some favorable characteristics or at least a lonely girlfriend that wants to be coupled(Be extra critical here). Enjoy life, because there is the weird thing about women that when you look needy and lonely they look at you as when you have a disease. D: If you are happy with your self, they get curious even when you are a nerd who is happy with his interests. Same as when a man in a relationship is more interesting then a single man. Generally speaking, it is not because of the evil womenz, it is because these men seem to have more inner peace. Afcourse there are exceptions but you do not want to be around those. They cause only headaches and problems for themselves and others.

Women know all men want to get laid, no need to lie about that. That is why they use body language or unbutton their shirt a little or throw their hair to see how you respond. If you get a boner and sweat drops from your nose, they might understand what is going on. If you behave over the top cool, same thing. If you stay your friendly self who notices her doing it but not getting all aroused and still being interested, it is the proper message.

 

[Falloutboy]

hey jumpinh in late here, I didn't really start dating till I was almost 26 got layed a few months later and then a few months after that met the gal I just recently broke up with. Get on that horse was hard I made alot of mistakes, but don't regret any of them, there the same mistakes everyone makes tbh, but they are harder the older you get.

 

[amicold]

Nothing like that in this case. I'm 1/2 White 1/2 Chinese but my father is the White one. He wasn't to see it for my own emotional and social well being. GFs and sex being obviously an important part of life in general. I want these things too of course it just feels a little odd to have a parent who is pushing you to go for these things too.

I mean this with serious intent he probably thinks you're fucking gay and just lying to him. As well I also wanted to say he probably does want grandchildren eventually... and he is probably embarrassed for you and himself that at this point in your life despite all your other successes you haven't even shoved your schwanzschnooker in some cooch.

Edit:...after reading more of the thread I think you will have to find a celibate girl so you both can fumble around with eachothers' parts like blind people feeling one another's face. Or go to the bar and pick up someone useless to learn a thing. I know I wouldn't want to date someone ~30 years old who doesn't know how the parts work. Save yourself the embarassment.

 

[unxpurg8d]

As a parent of five kids I personally will be thrilled when all of 'em are someone ELSE's responsibility.

Seriously, though, there seems to be a "Peter Pan" trend going on - it's taking longer and longer for people to head out into the world or figure out what they want to be if/when they grow up and even after they do they often coming running back home to mom and dad. There's a reason why "Retired at 35" is a tv show.

Maybe your parents are just trying to encourage you to be established and hopefully happy before you hit all the milestones late in life and they miss the joy of sharing them with you.

Or maybe they just want your room back.

 

[Gerand]

btw the bar scene sucks..
try to find a singles group that does activities in your area.
there you will meet much better class of women instead of the bar flys..

This

I'm 24 and was (I thought) a late bloomer in college, I eventually just said screw it and decided to become outgoing where in grammar/highschool I was introverted as all get out. Join a soccer league or some co-ed sport, you don't want to meet someone at the bar unless its for a fling. People aren't themselves in that environment. Good Luck.

I''ll come wingman for ya!

 

[shortylickens]

Without even reading this thread I'm going to assume we have at least a dozen incest jokes, amiright?

 

[OCGuy]

So confidence is the issue? Go to the gym 3 days a week for 90 days, and eat well. No need for some rabbit-food crazy South-Beach Hydroxycut diet...just make smart choices about what you put in your body.

You will feel like a million bucks, and people will see that on you.