No, I don't look like a bum at all. I don't want people who's homes I go to to think I am homeless lol. I just don't have that "preppy" clean cut look. It's hard for me to look good by nature - nothing I can do about it.
It's always the same when I go to car dealerships. No one gives me a second look until they run my name, or check my credit - then they are all on their knees with mouths wide open for me.
Also, back on topic - she has NO idea about my financials. I am very tight when it comes to letting people run checks on me. I explained to her how many successful car loans I had, and how decent my debt - credit ratio is, and she said I should look into a variable rate. I told her I didn't want a variable, and she insisted that, as a first time buyer, it was unavoidable. This is what threw my BS meter off on her.
She made assumptions without knowing anything. Plus, the shadiness of "checking" other places being sold by other realtors (telling me they weren't available, when they are actually available.)
Well, lol, as for the way you look, that sounds better. You made it sound like, lol, you went looking like a bum. As for financials, you don't have to share anything with her, but as your agent, she has to know you can get a mortage. Trust me, I will tell you this, you would be shocked how many times she has heard the "I got good credit" line. Thats why I am saying you need to prove out your financials through a bank. As for her assumptions, hate to say it, but thats on you. You have to clarify the picture for her or any agent.
You get to the bank and get that letter to give to your agent, thats all they need.
On the shadiness of not wanting to show homes of other realtors, that unfortunately is true, of them all. Now I will admit this, from afar, it did appear to me Re-Max was guilty of this more than other agencies. But also keep in mind, she can see when a property is available even when many times people who are not agents think the property is available.
When you go into the system you see if its pending or an offer is on the table. You can't see the particulars, but you see if something is happening with the house.
But if you don't like her, just dump her. All I am trying to help you with is be careful rushing to judgement. I have seen a few people dump good agents over similar things and end up with agents I know sucked.
Your agent has no power at all over your mortage stuff. All they can do is offer limited advice. I don't know your state, but most even have it in their ethics not to give mortage advice. A lot of brokers will come down hard on agents who do that.