Help with ways to ask a girl out???

[CoolTech]

hey guys, remember me, if not lemme refresh your memory. I have braces and I am a college student with a plethora of beautiful women to ask out. I just dont know how to go about doing so. Can u guys give me examples of exactly how you asked a girl out. If I only have like 30 seconds to talk to her like when Im riding the bus with her to when Im just walking and approach a girl and would like to ask her out. Any pointers on how to ask out different girls (i.e. race, social class). thanks.

 

[GL]

&quot;Look this is kinda weird but I don't know how else to do it. Would you like to go catch a movie or something <insert day here>?&quot;

When you can't think of anything, might as well say it like it is.

-GL

 

[ravahbOi]

I, too, am a college student who frequently rides the bus and seems to be in this predicament every so often. The best way to go about this is to just politely ask for their number or something before they get off the bus. If you go to bars, etc. and you have a cell phone, I've noticed that some women think it's real cool to play with other people's cell phones (anyone care to explain that to me?). So I usually just let them type in their own name and number if they want.

This prolly helps you none, but hopefully it does a lil.

 

[ThundercatHO]

get her drunk, and grop her some

 

[loudog9999]

thundercats all about some date rape

 

[Azraele]

Just take a deep breath and go up and talk to her. See how well the chatter goes and if all goes well, ask her out

thundercat: geez that's crude :disgust: and no way to treat a lady

 

[Noriaki]

<< I've noticed that some women think it's real cool to play with other people's cell phones (anyone care to explain that to me?). >>

Yeah I'd noticed that too...ladies? Any ideas?

 

[SackOfAllTrades]

pull her hair and slap her ass

 

[Lily27]

I don't know about most girls but i rarely go out with a guy that i don't know at all. I'd say ur best bet might be to try to get to know the girl, maybe just as an acquaintance. I also think the easiest way to get to know someone is probably in class as opposed to on the bus. U never know though

 

[Azraele]

CoolTech: as far as social class, etc goes, I don't think asking technique matters much. Be polite, be nice, and most importantly, be yourself.


SackOfAllTrades: crude :disgust:

 

[ThundercatHO]

RUPHIES RULE!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[loudog9999]

the next time we hear from thundrcat hell be writing from prison

 

[perry]

Run around campus with your pants around your ankles, you'll get lots of dates..

 

[ThundercatHO]

she said she was 18, but she was only 15........all of my friends made fun of me

 

[Total Refected Power]

I was wondering if you would like to have dinner together on Friday?

 

[CoolTech]

i didnt know they had web kiosks in prison, lol

 

[C'DaleRider]

Start with eye contact.....is it positive or not? And with eye contact, it's not look-away-when-she-sees-you-looking stuff, rather it's look right into her eyes....no flinching or diverting. Oh, and make sure you're smiling a bit, too. If her reaction is positive, and you'll know if it is or not, then talking to her is a snap.....you've essentially already gotten your OK.

 

[Bluga]

Wake up, for my various and painful experiences, a decent girl won't just go out with you because you asked for it. You have to get to know her first before making any move. Start with friendly conversations and see how it goes from there, don't rush, or you will die quickly.

just my $0.02

 

[bobtist]

Don't ask me... That's about all I have to say.

 

[jyrixx]

well, compliment her first of all. then start just a regular old conversation, and then just ask her out to the movies, or dinner and a movie, or whatever..

 

[Bluga]

oh and most beautiful women already have a bf, check it out before you proceed.

 

[JMaster]

Just do it!

 

[Champo41]

DO NOT set a date and time when you ask someone out. This gives them the easy option of saying &quot;I have plans that evening&quot;. There are magic words to which the woman would almost have to oblige to, and that is....

&quot;Do you want to do something sometime?&quot;

By asking this, you are not setting a date. For all she knows, it could be tomorrow or two weeks from now. There's no way she can turn that down or make an excuse, because you never planned anything.

If it's a complete stranger (someone you just met a few minutes ago), always do and say the exact opposite of what you're really after. Also, having an aura of cockiness works wonders too, especially if they're really hot.

 

[prodigy]

Guess you're not that &quot;Cool&quot; after all?

J/k

 

[dababus]

oh and most beautiful women already have a bf, check it out before you proceed.

I don't think that matters. I have went out with beautiful girls who have boyfriends. It doesn't matter if someone has a bf or not. Just be bold and be nice and most important be your self.