Holy sh!t, I might be breaking up with my girlfriend

[Gulzakar]

yeah, but baggage can sometimes be stowed away in the attic

 

[Pacfanweb]

Dude, just dump her and go on to the college chicks. You can still hook up with her when you come home (if you're in school out of town).
Nothing wrong with that.
The surest way to get her to come crawling back is to break up with her completely. It's hard to do, but works nearly every time. It feels bad to break up with somebody, but take it from me, it feels MUCH worse to be on the other end of it. You're in the driver's seat. I suggest you put it in gear and move on out. A nice college chick would be just the ticket.

 

[Viper GTS]

Originally posted by: HappyPuppy

Originally posted by: Deeko

Believe us, you should walk away. You're a teenager, you're in high school, and in the end, HS relationships are simply building blocks for later in life. Ask any guy 10 or more years removed from HS, and 99% percent will say they wish they had dumped their "high school sweetheart" when things started going bad and tried to tap any and every girl that would let them. The other 1% will lie and say they don't think that.
Dump her ass and go out with her best friend. Then go out with HER best friend. etc, etc, etc. You'll be glad you did after you graduate.

I'm a freshman in college. She is in high school. That's a part of the problem, I am older, and I am pretty mature for my age, I'm looking for something more than a little high school fling, and she just wants to be the cute girl with problems that the guy pities. She doesn't want to be happy.

So, why don't you try dating some of the girls your own age? Can't hand it? You shouldn't be dating HS girls. You should be partying with college girls.

Age is not necessarily the problem. Maturity, position in life, values...

There's a multitude of factors, but age is pretty low on the list.

My rollercoaster is 1.5 years older than me.

Viper GTS

 

[dawnbug]

11 months is a long time. Make sure you think about it for awhile before you actually go and dump her. But if you still do (and it sounds to me like you should), don't look back. You'll find someone who better fits what you're looking for. Good luck.

 

[loup garou]

Originally posted by: Gulzakar
yeah, but baggage can sometimes be stowed away in the attic

From my experience, many women tend to carry any extra baggage in their trunk.

 

[Kadarin]

It's becoming pretty clear why she wants to go to the dance with some other guy...

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
It's becoming pretty clear why she wants to go to the dance with some other guy...

Yea, and why she is on the Atkins diet.

 

[smp]

Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Been there, done that. I rode that rollercoaster over & over again, then stood in line for more. My advice? Walk away. Do it now while you still can. Viper GTS

yeah and try to do it with your dignity intact.

 

[Pacfanweb]

Hey, I was thinking about this, and realized that if you simply want her to go away for good, you don't even have to break up with her.






















Just give her a copy of "D Squared" and you'll never hear from her again. Ever.

 

[Deeko]

haha oh she's heard it. In fact, I wrote her a song for our 6-month semi aniversary.

 

[Hamburgerpimp]

Don't worry. It gets easier as you get older.

 

[BujinZero]

Hi Deeko

I was in a fairly similar situation a month or so ago (except our relationship wasn't quite as long as your is). The girl I was dating had some SERIOUS baggage (really, you DON'T wanna know, hers is quite possibly the worst childhood I could ever imagine) yet she actually was fairly equipped to deal with some of it. She has a lot of respect for me, but as hard as she tried to keep me safe from her drama/baggage it began to take its toll on the relationship, slowing me down and driving us apart. We both knew we had to end it before it could really get anywhere bad, so we did. And yes, it sucked quite a bit. The bottom line is that if she is doing you more bad than good, you have to end it, for your sake, otherwise you may end up with baggage of your own. It'll be difficult to occupy the void she'll leave, too. The key is to keep busy--rekindle old hobbies or find new ones, pick up more hours at work, etc. Another thing that helped me was something completely out of my character: I just started hitting on girls I had no real intention of asking out. That, strangely, was a big confidence booster for me. Also, talk about your situation with some of your closer friends or anyone else you're not afraid to expose your feelings to.

Ultimately, Deeko is only responsible for Deeko. Best of luck.

 

[Deeko]

trust me, I know what baggage is like, she has ALOT of baggage that I haven't posted on here out of respect for her.

I'm in the middle of a pretty lengthy conversation with my brother(he's 20, been with his girl for over 4 years)....he's definitely helping me calm down and sort things out.

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
It's becoming pretty clear why she wants to go to the dance with some other guy...

Yea, and why she is on the Atkins diet.

Ah yes.. working her way down to her fighting weight..

 

[Deeko]

I've been coming home every week/every other week. I've decided I'm not coming home until thanksgiving, and I will give her those three weeks to think. She can think about what this relationship really means to her, and I will have to think if its worth the risk, should she decide to come back.

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
It's becoming pretty clear why she wants to go to the dance with some other guy...

Yea, and why she is on the Atkins diet.

Ah yes.. working her way down to her fighting weight..

She isn't even fat, at all. Seems to me she is doing it to become more "marketable", cuz I've told her millions of times how beautiful I think she is, and I wasn't lying either.

 

[thawolfman]

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
It's becoming pretty clear why she wants to go to the dance with some other guy...

Yea, and why she is on the Atkins diet.

Ah yes.. working her way down to her fighting weight..

She isn't even fat, at all. Seems to me she is doing it to become more "marketable", cuz I've told her millions of times how beautiful I think she is, and I wasn't lying either.

I think that's what he meant, but either way I hope everything works out for ya

 

[UberDave]

Holy sh!t, I might be breaking up with my girlfriend



leaves more fish in the sea...thanks.

 

[gopunk]

run and run fast

a bad family life is always a bad sign, imo.

 

[Deeko]

leaves more fish in the sea...thanks.

haha, if you've read about this one, you sure you want to?

a bad family life is always a bad sign, imo.

Look at her family's relationships:
real mom: never married, has had kids with 3 different guys, currently living with a 4th.
real dad: never married, has had kids with 2 different women, hasn't spoken to my gf in 2 years
foster mom: divorced once
foster dad: divorced twice
real sister: only person with a stable relationship(married 5 years), but her family doesn't like her husband and wants her to divorce him, even though she is in love with him
foster sister: is only 16, has been engaged 3 times

wow.

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: thawolfman

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: Astaroth33

Originally posted by: Deeko

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
It's becoming pretty clear why she wants to go to the dance with some other guy...

Yea, and why she is on the Atkins diet.

Ah yes.. working her way down to her fighting weight..

She isn't even fat, at all. Seems to me she is doing it to become more "marketable", cuz I've told her millions of times how beautiful I think she is, and I wasn't lying either.

I think that's what he meant, but either way I hope everything works out for ya

Yep, that's what I meant. Deeko, I wish you luck.

 

[cmdavid]

Originally posted by: Deeko

leaves more fish in the sea...thanks.

haha, if you've read about this one, you sure you want to?

a bad family life is always a bad sign, imo.

Look at her family's relationships:
real mom: never married, has had kids with 3 different guys, currently living with a 4th.
real dad: never married, has had kids with 2 different women, hasn't spoken to my gf in 2 years
foster mom: divorced once
foster dad: divorced twice
real sister: only person with a stable relationship(married 5 years), but her family doesn't like her husband and wants her to divorce him, even though she is in love with him
foster sister: is only 16, has been engaged 3 times

wow.

:Q

 

[NutBucket]

Originally posted by: gopunk
run and run fast

a bad family life is always a bad sign, imo.

And/or childhood. Its a leathal relationship combination.

 

[pamchenko]

with gta: vice city out, no is as great a time as any to break it off

 

[Deeko]

FVCK and my CS assignment was due by midnight and I finished it hours ago, didn't upload it then because I was going to try the extra credit and now I was so pisesd I forgot to upload it. sh!t...I can still submit it but for a pretty heavy docking of points.

with gta: vice city out, no is as great a time as any to break it off

lol, no PS2 here....Gamecube all the way! Just last week I finished runing through all 3 paths of Eternal Darkness, possibly the best game ever, its right up there with SoA on dreamcast.