Im confused once again. Im going to upgrade my router. Whats the benefit of buying a router and wap in one rather than buying a wired router and a separate wap?
Simplicity, primarily.
There's nothing fundamentally wrong with getting separate devices, and as you mention, you can replace one without replacing the other.
Fliipside is, they'll probably both last a number of years, and you'll find reasons to replace them eventually anyway.
I'd also be suspicious of a router that seems "too inexpensive" or which is from a brand I've had bad experiences with. Like the TP-Link one you linked earlier - not only is $65 "cheap" for a router, but I've had nearly zero luck with TP-Link hardware. (Personal anecdotes - I realize they get decent reviews, and there are probably other reasons that their stuff didn't work for me as well as it should/could have.)
The primary deficiency of that router seems to be the
CPU. Put simply, it's weaksauce. (single-core, 500-600MHz, 64MB of RAM.) Any kind of rapid, chatty network access with a lot of connections will clog the brain. (BitTorrent is very good at this.) For comparison's sake, the ~$200 ASUS RT-AC68U uses a dual core 800MHz CPU with 256MB of RAM, and has better wifi specs to boot.
It's not uncommon - typically, it doesn't cost manufacturers extra to load the fully featured high-end firmware on their low end hardware; they already wrote it. So they can offer a crapton of awesome features on paper, which will slow the router to a halt if they're enabled because of the slow CPUs.
Consider the "routing performance" sections of the smallnetbuilder reviews for the two:
http://www.smallnetbuilder.com/lanw...roadband-vpn-router-reviewed?showall=&start=2
http://www.smallnetbuilder.com/wire...etgear-r7000-a-asus-rt-ac68u?showall=&start=1
What it boils down to is if you want to get that kind of CPU grunt (and therefore "works well" and not just "barely works" support for all the nifty security and firewall features, QoS, etc.) in a standalone router, you can, but it'll cost basically just as much as the ones with wifi built in. If you really want to turn around and build a wifi network to end all wifi networks using Ubiquiti APs or something, you can always disable the wifi on the main router. When you consider all the goodies the high end routers bring to the table, you basically got the wifi for free anyways.