my bf is REALLY cheap. he is living by himself for the first time this summer and he refuses to spend money to buy food. all the food he has i've bought for him or he's asked someone for. he has mostly junk food like chips and he eats cereal all day long. how do i deal? we are both making money this summer but i am making like twice as much as he is. that is why i've bought him a lot of food and i pay a lot when we go out. is this bad? he has enough money in the bank to buy himself decent meals but he refuses to touch his savings acct because he says that it is his "life savings." what should i do? i care for him so much but he has got to be one of the cheapest guys i've ever met. i feel like i have to use my hard earned to support both of us. but if i dont, we end up not doing anything and eating chips and cereal for every meal cuz he doesnt wanna fork over any cash. help please .