How do I tell my Highschool sweet heart GF that she is gotten too fat for me to stick around.

[JungleMan1]

Break up with her. Go find some more "hotties" who have perfect Hollywood bodies. After they've made you spend all your money on them (i.e about 3 weeks), they'll dump you and move on to a guy with more money and a better job. And you'll just move on to the next "hottie" and keep wasting away your life trying to "get some pu$$y".

Soon enough, you'll be 30, completely broke, unmarried, lonely, probably overweight (ironic, isn't it?), and with no chance of "scoring" any more "hotties"..and you'll be sitting there, wondering why there aren't any truly good women out there who are smart, and funny, and would do anything for you.

Then you'll remember what happened when you were 21...wishing that you had her back...wishing you could see past 10-15 pounds...

But it'll be too late. She will have found a guy who truly deserves her, cares about her for more than sex, and appreciates her good heart.

And you'll be all alone...

 

[knyghtbyte]

couldnt be arsed reading the pages between 1 and this one...lol

personally i'd say the thread is a parody, im sure someone has done a thread like this before, here or elsewhere.....

if he was for real, then he isnt in love with the girl as 15-20lbs is nothing whatsoever, he is just sexed up over her, or rather was.......best advice to give the OP, tell her its over, that way she can find a guy who isnt a twat, and you can go get syphillis screwing as many skinny hot whores as you like, cuz quite simply, the chances of getting a girl who gonna stay skinny is very very unlikely, it does happen, but u in for a life of heartbreak waiting.....or do u just not give a fvck?...lol

 

[zendari]

Links aren't working. But just dump her if you want to, or link her to this thread.

 

[dandruff]

:laugh:

 

[ActuaryTm]

Better links (so the bonfire may continue):

• Sheusedtobecute.jpg
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[Sentinel]

you should gently suggest going to the local gym to do some workouts or walk/jog with her a few times a week. if you love her you will do anything for her and not leave her for her physical appearance. if you don't love her then move on.

 

[Miramonti]

Its not a crime to dump an SO when they get fat and you become less attracted to them, because when they lose weight and get hot, they want to replace you with someone else as well.

 

[Don Vito Corleone]

Originally posted by: jjsole

Its not a crime to dump an SO when they get fat and you become less attracted to them, because when they lose weight and get hot, they want to replace you with someone else as well.

I agree, but posting a public thread about it to ask the opinion of a bunch of strangers is stupidity of the highest order.

 

[PingSpike]

The girl looks pretty thin in that picture. I'd say even if she gained 15-20 pounds she probably wouldn't really be that overweight.

Regardless, if the girl is great otherwise it'd make more sense to try and get her into exercising with you. This ignoring and avoiding her stuff is weak sauce that you should have left in grade school. Stop being a pussy and either flat out dump her or get your sh|t together. You're acting like a dillhole. Even if she is now a heffer that you can't date anymore, she deserves better than to be treated like that.

 

[fLum0x]

i think the girl in the red dress looks pretty good from that picture. could just be me, but i wouldnt hesitate to ask her out. as for you, go ahead and live that "the grass is always greener" life

 

[Miramonti]

Originally posted by: DonVito

Originally posted by: jjsole

Its not a crime to dump an SO when they get fat and you become less attracted to them, because when they lose weight and get hot, they want to replace you with someone else as well.

I agree, but posting a public thread about it to ask the opinion of a bunch of strangers is stupidity of the highest order.

So you suggest he talk about it with friends, 90% of which probably know her, lol. This is the net...everying talked about is with a bunch of strangers, that's why people can talk about these kinds of things.

 

[Chryso]

She looks pretty good to me.

 

[Don Vito Corleone]

Originally posted by: jjsole

So you suggest he talk about it with friends, 90% of which probably know her, lol. This is the net...everying talked about is with a bunch of strangers, that's why people can talk about these kinds of things.

What I'm saying is that this kind of decision has to be internal. If he's really inclined to dump his GF because of weight gain, he should keep it to himself, do it, and be done with the whole thing.

 

[miniMUNCH]

Originally posted by: sonz70

Originally posted by: Smackem

Okay, I had dated this girl for maybe 3-4 years off and on. She is smart, funny, would do anything for me, etc etc.

The girl I liked.

Its a camera phone, i just posted it to get the general idea of how she looked. That picture was taken like 2 years ago. She has since gained maybe 10-15 pounds. Not a WHOLE lot I know, But i wana nail hot chicks. She is no longer attractive to me. She is begning to .... look like her mother... *shudder*. I guess I knew this was a possibility all along. But it is time get the message across, that unless she wants to become as hot as she used to be, there is no place for her in my life.

That is based on some assumptions:
1. 1/3rd of an adult sexual relationship is based on... sex! If I can not have great sex with her anymore, maybe its time for her to go.
2. If I didn't know her and saw her at school/club/bar/gym I would not go up and hit on her. I would auctually make fun of the friend that did for talkin to a chud.


So what do you guys think. I am 21 btw. Older guys, please chime in. Esp. if you stuck with the chick who got fat and now you are miserable.

I can not tell her that she has gotten to fat out of fear of crushing her self esteem. That would be a horrible thing to do to the girl i (once) loved.

Just an observation, not saying you are shallow, but you never loved her if you can leave her for this. So it might help if you realise that

Word...

But at the same time...men and women need to realize that "going fat" on your SO sucks big donkey balls. I woman climbing from 5'6" 120 lbs to 140 lbs should not expect her SO to not care. Childbirth, or gaining weight due to an accident that keeps you off your feet, is one thing...just gaining weight because you are 'getting older' is another.

My wife and I have talked about this very phenomena...we have promised one another to do our best to stay fit and sexy because, no matter how hard you try to say/think it doesn't matter, it shouldn't matter...IT DOES.

My wife and I have been happily married or over 6 years now and we just had our first child in May...I love my wife and she'll get back in good shape eventually. She may not physically never be exactly the same as pre-baby but, hell, childbearing can do that to a woman's body...but my wife will be back in good shape in another 6 months or so.

So...this is my honest advice to the OP: Don't be shallow...nailing "hot" chicks is not all it is cracked up to be. Having sex with someone you truly love is much, much better. At the same time, if your gf is gaining weight and you don't like it...express your thoughts to her. Sometimes people need their feeling hurt...if she's getting fat then she's getting fat...just tell her. At least your honest. If she gets pissed and doesn't see the need to change, get excercise, whatever! and you do...well then, leave her and find someone else.

Don't continue to pursue a relationship in which you are going to harbor resentment...it is just bad for both of you and is bound to fail.

 

[Miramonti]

Originally posted by: DonVito

Originally posted by: jjsole

So you suggest he talk about it with friends, 90% of which probably know her, lol. This is the net...everying talked about is with a bunch of strangers, that's why people can talk about these kinds of things.

What I'm saying is that this kind of decision has to be internal. If he's really inclined to dump his GF because of weight gain, he should keep it to himself, do it, and be done with the whole thing.

If you want to set rules for posting YAGT's, you might find ATOT a little overwhelming to police. And based on the few hundred replies, its obvious he's not the only one that wants to discuss it.

It may just be simpler to stick to the medical threads to tell people to quit asking strangers on a forum for medical advice and go see a doctor.

Btw OP, The girl seems pretty cute even with a few extra pounds.

 

[TGS]

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Can I get another thread on getting only prime cuts.

How does a level 60 WoW shaman compare to a pallies pick of women?

Oh why is life full of such difficult choices? *sigh*

 

Where is a pic of you? Let us be the judge....

 

[pack1]

Originally posted by: buck
Where is a pic of you? Let us be the judge....

Yeah playa, you do have a camera phone right? While youre at it why not post the after pic of her too.

 

[NorthRiver]

My wife gained 45 pounds, and I feel for you. Try the exercise talk, make a point to go on walks, if that doesn't work then think about walking. My weight went up also, but I am getting back down there and she is staying the same. I know that it can be sucky, but try to work it out before you take off.

 

[stnicralisk]

I think she looks like she is in great health. So the girl ate a damn sandwhich. Personally I like to be able to take my woman out for pizza or drinks without knowing shes going to go to the bathroom and puke.

You want my advice? Let her go find a real man.

Where are the pics of you?

 

[Chunkee]

your pics suck

 

[Smackem]

Okay, you want a high rez pic of lori? or a girl i thnk is much hotter? I will have to edit out the not ATOT safe parts. Ill give you guys a choice. Or me next to girls i'd rather be with? its all fair game.

 

[blckgrffn]

Wow, I think the girl in the red dress is pretty darn good lookin', WTF is up with you? I bet you aren't even really dating this girl. That would be the best part of this whole thing

 

[imported_Pablo]

Pics of you. Holding, "This is me, Pablo" on a sign.

 

[imported_Pablo]

Pics of you. Holding, "This is me, Pablo" on a sign.