How do I tell my Highschool sweet heart GF that she is gotten too fat for me to stick around.

[silverbuyer]

Originally posted by: Nebor

Originally posted by: Smackem

Originally posted by: Nebor
If you're not attracted to her anymore, that's that. Dump her. It doesn't matter if you're shallow, or she's fat. That's irrelevant. You don't want her anymore, so get rid of her.

Ignore all the people in here who would rather "settle."

I knew it all along, I just had to have someone tell me. I can't beilive someone on ATOT told me though.

People here don't understand how to be PC. They think they need to be nice and sensitive to everyone, but fat people and smokers are excluded from politically correct protection.

You should just take her for a nice car ride out in the country, and leave her on the roadside. Err... actually just take her to a McDonalds and drop her off. She might not even notice you're gone.

Another jerk.

 

[Smackem]

its on there, but i will take it off here in the next 20. better mirror it!

 

[Kalbi]

my goodness is tthis still going...

 

[Smackem]

heh, sh1t, i don't have time to edit these now, ill get em later. I got a pic of me with a much hotter chick. and a picture of my girlfriend naked, that I was going to edit out the NSFW parts. Just tell me now mods if this is gonna equal a ban. I promise it will not show anything you couldn't see on TV

 

[MetalMat]

Originally posted by: Smackem
heh, sh1t, i don't have time to edit these now, ill get em later. I got a pic of me with a much hotter chick. and a picture of my girlfriend naked, that I was going to edit out the NSFW parts. Just tell me now mods if this is gonna equal a ban. I promise it will not show anything you couldn't see on TV

I like how you are so confident of your posts. As I tell some of my friends that lie alot "you can try to fool everyone around you, but you can never fool yourself".

 

[Wheatmaster]

dude she doesn't like that bad

 

[bpatters69]

After I pulled myself up off the floor for laughing so hard, I thought to myself, "self, I think he is serious". Sooooooooooooo.........

I am going to assume that this is a serious post. Calling you shallow and insensitive has already been done so I won't be redundant. Time for some real advice. Get out of the relationship. Use whatever excuse you need. You never did "love" this chick as your post proves. Your girlfriend may end up looking her mother but guess what? Checked out your Dad's bald spot or pot belly recently? It will happen sooner than you think.

I leave you with one very real and troubling thought. What comes around, goes around. Call it a karma thing or whatever you want but you will get it in the end.

Grow up. There is still time.

 

[imported_Pablo]

Here's what we want, you illiterate dumbass...

Pics of OP. Holding, "This is me, Pablo" on a sign.

Its only been posted about 10 times before.

 

[imported_Pablo]

Originally posted by: Smackem
I have been asking you guys what kind of picture you want? I already put a pic of me without my face. I will post a more high res pic... hold on....

Pics of OP. Holding, "This is me, Pablo" on a sign.


By now you've had time to ask about 50 other people online for it anyways... seeing as we were asking for it yesterday.

 

[Saint Nick]

Originally posted by: Smackem
heh, sh1t, i don't have time to edit these now, ill get em later. I got a pic of me with a much hotter chick. and a picture of my girlfriend naked, that I was going to edit out the NSFW parts. Just tell me now mods if this is gonna equal a ban. I promise it will not show anything you couldn't see on TV

you acting like an asshat.

"OMG D00D I HAEV DIS PIC OF ME N MUH G/F N WER NEKID LOLL!1! OMG DO U LIEK BACON??!//WTF"

"ALL DA GURLIEZ DAT I C R ALL SUPA HOTT N I MAEK LIKE A MILLION DOLERZ PER HOUR"

 

[imported_Tomato]

I agree with innumerable others. She really deserves better, perhaps this is for the best.

I gained 10 pounds since meeting my fiance, and went from 105 to 115. He loves me more than ever, and wants me to gain 5-10 more pounds. He likes thicker girls, and I've always been pretty thin... I have a bigger booty now, which is kinda cool, and I feel healthier too.

:thumbsdown: to you, Smackem.

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: Tomato
I agree with innumerable others. She really deserves better, perhaps this is for the best.

I gained 10 pounds since meeting my fiance, and went from 105 to 115. He loves me more than ever, and wants me to gain 5-10 more pounds. He likes thicker girls, and I've always been pretty thin... I have a bigger booty now, which is kinda cool, and I feel healthier too.

:thumbsdown: to you, Smackem.

:camera:?

 

[Saint Nick]

Originally posted by: Nitemare

Originally posted by: Tomato
I agree with innumerable others. She really deserves better, perhaps this is for the best.

I gained 10 pounds since meeting my fiance, and went from 105 to 115. He loves me more than ever, and wants me to gain 5-10 more pounds. He likes thicker girls, and I've always been pretty thin... I have a bigger booty now, which is kinda cool, and I feel healthier too.

:thumbsdown: to you, Smackem.

:camera:?

:camera:!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[imported_Pablo]

Guess who said this:


"thats cool, i went [to Defcon] 3 years ago. Nerds smell alot when the get together in big groups like that. Neat thing though. I was all impressed with myself because after a huge securty speaker came on, I went up and corrected him on a few things. Hitting on girls there is super wierd"
LOL...

http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview...atid=38&threadid=1627367&enterthread=y

 

[Saint Nick]

Originally posted by: Pablo
Guess who said this:


"thats cool, i went [to Defcon] 3 years ago. Nerds smell alot when the get together in big groups like that. Neat thing though. I was all impressed with myself because after a huge securty speaker came on, I went up and corrected him on a few things. Hitting on girls there is super wierd"
LOL...

http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview...atid=38&threadid=1627367&enterthread=y

is this guy kidding himself? does he really think he is this amazing? is he this shallow? does he really have all these ladies?

yes, yes, yes, no.

 

[sunzt]

OP,

If I was in your position and felt that the girl was not attrative enough for sexual intimacy I probably would break up with her in an honest (truthful), serious, and direct manner. HOWEVER, I highly question the validity of you saying that you were truly in love with her.

If you were truly in love with her I would have believed you tried to encourage her (actively not passivly) to take better care of her physique. Asking her to work out with you and encouraging her to take better care of herself because you are worried about her health shows a genuine effort that you care about her.

 

[Saint Nick]

Originally posted by: sunzt
OP,

If I was in your position and felt that the girl was not attrative enough for sexual intimacy I probably would break up with her in an honest (truthful), serious, and direct manner. HOWEVER, I highly question the validity of you saying that you were truly in love with her.

If you were truly in love with her I would have believed you tried to encourage her (actively not passivly) to take better care of her physique. Asking her to work out with you and encouraging her to take better care of herself because you are worried about her health shows a genuine effort that you care about her.

okay i have a serious question for you (i'm really serious, i'm not being sarcastic). my girlfriend doesn't eat healthy, but she has a metabolism like me. she is thinner than i am and i am 6' 5" and 160lbs. she is like 5' 9" and i dunno her weight. anyways should i tell her to eat better? she keeps telling me about how she always eats snacks and nothing with real nutritional value.

 

[imported_Pablo]

Originally posted by: jndietz

Originally posted by: sunzt
OP,

If I was in your position and felt that the girl was not attrative enough for sexual intimacy I probably would break up with her in an honest (truthful), serious, and direct manner. HOWEVER, I highly question the validity of you saying that you were truly in love with her.

If you were truly in love with her I would have believed you tried to encourage her (actively not passivly) to take better care of her physique. Asking her to work out with you and encouraging her to take better care of herself because you are worried about her health shows a genuine effort that you care about her.

okay i have a serious question for you (i'm really serious, i'm not being sarcastic). my girlfriend doesn't eat healthy, but she has a metabolism like me. she is thinner than i am and i am 6' 5" and 160lbs. she is like 5' 9" and i dunno her weight. anyways should i tell her to eat better? she keeps telling me about how she always eats snacks and nothing with real nutritional value.

Do you love her?

If yes, then STFU, and only say something if she is unhealthy. There are plenty of skinny bodies out there. Go get you one. If they are disease-infested, its for good reason. If you're all about the physical, jack off or get a hooker. Because its a lot cheaper and you're not screwing anybody but yourself, or someone who's expecting to get screwed.

 

[Saint Nick]

Originally posted by: Pablo

Originally posted by: jndietz

Originally posted by: sunzt
OP,

If I was in your position and felt that the girl was not attrative enough for sexual intimacy I probably would break up with her in an honest (truthful), serious, and direct manner. HOWEVER, I highly question the validity of you saying that you were truly in love with her.

If you were truly in love with her I would have believed you tried to encourage her (actively not passivly) to take better care of her physique. Asking her to work out with you and encouraging her to take better care of herself because you are worried about her health shows a genuine effort that you care about her.

okay i have a serious question for you (i'm really serious, i'm not being sarcastic). my girlfriend doesn't eat healthy, but she has a metabolism like me. she is thinner than i am and i am 6' 5" and 160lbs. she is like 5' 9" and i dunno her weight. anyways should i tell her to eat better? she keeps telling me about how she always eats snacks and nothing with real nutritional value.

Do you love her?

If yes, then STFU, and only say something if she is unhealthy. There are plenty of skinny bodies out there. Go get you one. If you're all about the physical, jack off or get a hooker. Because its a lot cheaper and you're not screwing anybody but yourself, or someone who's expecting to get screwed.

lmao i'm skinny enough, believe me

 

[Brazen]

I tell my wife she's fat every day. She hasn't killed herself yet. I think you'll be fine.

 

[amnesiac]

You're an ass.

If you actually cared about HER and not just the sex, you'd tell her that the weight she's put on is really dampening your sex drive. If she's the overly touchy type that will probably try to kill herself if you said that, do something more subtle like suggest you both start walking or biking or doing some sort of other exercise.

I'm under the impression that you're not really sure what is required of a committed relationship, because if you plan on leaving your s/o based on a few pounds alone, then something is obviously wrong with your idea of "commitment." Either you're just shallow or not ready/not mature enough for a long term commitment based on mutual love and respect.

If you can't see yourself loving this girl "for better or for worse" then it's probably in both her and your best interest if you ended the relationship and found some other vapid c*nt to wet your stick. You might as well just not bother with the whole "relationship" thing if that's all you're after.

 

[TheFlamingDead]

Well, if you cant convince her to work out...
Nothing like weight loss pills in the orange juice

 

[bluestrobe]

Originally posted by: amnesiac
You're an ass.

If you actually cared about HER and not just the sex, you'd tell her that the weight she's put on is really dampening your sex drive. If she's the overly touchy type that will probably try to kill herself if you said that, do something more subtle like suggest you both start walking or biking or doing some sort of other exercise.

I'm under the impression that you're not really sure what is required of a committed relationship, because if you plan on leaving your s/o based on a few pounds alone, then something is obviously wrong with your idea of "commitment." Either you're just shallow or not ready/not mature enough for a long term commitment based on mutual love and respect.

If you can't see yourself loving this girl "for better or for worse" then it's probably in both her and your best interest if you ended the relationship and found some other vapid c*nt to wet your stick. You might as well just not bother with the whole "relationship" thing if that's all you're after.

I agree with the above but believe that the original poster doesn't really know what love is or know about the past/future consequences of relationships. People age and relationships change over time. If a few pounds bother you to the point you can't operate in bed then you require counseling because that?s not normal for most people.

 

[Smackem]

Anyone know how to ignore someone? This pablo freak is creepin me out.

 

[CFster]

Smackem, you are an utter POS.

That post was wrong, on so many different levels.

I didn't even read the whole thread, as there's nothing you could say as far as I'm concerned that you could use to redeem yourself.

I'm just glad there's people in the world ten times better than you, which make me look good.