How do I tell my Highschool sweet heart GF that she is gotten too fat for me to stick around.

[Amplifier]

He's not going to come out and complain about it to you. Because you'd take the same attitude with him that you take with us. But let me tell you from a guys perspective, HE NOTICES!

Since I'm hidden behind my computer screen I can be honest/straight with you.

Do him a favor and get back in shape. It's only a few extra pounds right?

 

[0roo0roo]

did he post a fat pic

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: wondersteve
You have to ask yourself the question .. do you love her ..if you do ...then weight or looks will not matter.

thats my 2 cents.

I disagree.. looks do matter as physical attraction is important.However, we're talking 10 pounds or so, a single dress size.There are a lot of reasons she could have gained a dress size, the primary one being that most young adults haven't really gotten their full adult figures till their 21 or so, the other reason could be birth control,if she's taking the pill or the depo shot that could cause weight gain as could other meds.I'd only be concerned if she was noticably eating a lot, rapidly gaining weight, not exercising at all
or engaging in other forms of self-neglect.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: Amplifier
He's not going to come out and complain about it to you. Because you'd take the same attitude with him that you take with us. But let me tell you from a guys perspective, HE NOTICES!

Since I'm hidden behind my computer screen I can be honest/straight with you.

Do him a favor and get back in shape. It's only a few extra pounds right?

I'm taking estrogen replacement therapy so the extra weight goes to chest and butt,my waistline is quite slender.

I'm 5ft 9 and weigh at max load, 135, I ride my bike and walk every day for exercise.
and no,I don't eat excessively, I eat healthy foods prepared in a healthy manner.The SO says he prefers me this size.