How do middle class people afford international vacationing?

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Ben90

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Credit cards - yes, I think that's what people are doing which terrifies me. I got into trouble in college with cards and then cut them all up and only have one for emergencies....

Why do people think credit cards magically create debt? Honestly, people who put everything on their debit cards probably aren't the smartest with their money.
 

hans007

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Why do people think credit cards magically create debt? Honestly, people who put everything on their debit cards probably aren't the smartest with their money.

Seriously. I think there are relative levels of financial intelligence


Whenever I see someone using a debit card I cringe because that person could be earning cash back rewards and building a credit score.

Then again if you are using a debit card because on a credit card you'd be out of control broke paying interest since you have no self control then I guess you are relatively smarter than an irresponsible card user
 

Acanthus

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Why do people think credit cards magically create debt? Honestly, people who put everything on their debit cards probably aren't the smartest with their money.

I would say the same for people that think CC's are magical gift printing machines.

We all know why those incentives are there, to get you to use the card. If a huge financial disaster hits you (divorce, disabling injury, catastrophic job loss) they've got you, for thousands more than you ever raked in in bennies.
 

PenguinPower

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It varies so much by region. The house I live in would cost $100k in some places and $500k in other places. It's almost dumb to even try to have this argument online with people all over the world.


I'll just go ahead and leave this here:

Class
Typical characteristics

Upper class (1%)
Top-level executives, celebrities, heirs; income of $500,000+ common. Ivy league education common.

Upper middle class (15%)
Highly-educated (often with graduate degrees) professionals & managers with household incomes varying from the high 5-figure range to commonly above $100,000.


Lower middle class (32%)
Semi-professionals and craftsmen with some work autonomy; household incomes commonly range from $35,000 to $75,000. Typically, some college education.


Working class (32%)
Clerical, pink- and blue-collar workers with often low job security; common household incomes range from $16,000 to $30,000. High school education.


Lower class (ca. 14% - 20%)
Those who occupy poorly-paid positions or rely on government transfers. Some high school education.


 

AViking

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The problem with those figures are they don't factor in location. 20 years ago $100,000 in California was definitely upper middle class. Today not so much. I definitely wouldn't have called myself upper middle class when I was making between $100K and $200K. Why? Spending power is almost halved. However a $100,000 income in the midwest is definitely upper middle class. $35,000 is lower class in CA but middle class in the midwest.
 

dabuddha

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My wife comes from a family that would travel internationally quite often, so I've been feeling guilty and pricing out vacations (for reference, growing up we'd only vacation domestically other than one trip back to my parent's homeland, and I didn't go to Europe until I could afford it on my own) - trip packages to Euro destinations for a couple are in the $5,000 - $9,000 range!

Now most of my peers make a similar salary range yet they all seem to travel like crazy, it's something I wonder about - how are they dropping upwards of 10% of their annual income often times multiple times a year (in NYC, where rent is already up to 50% of your income) - is everyone going into massive debt (my friends aren't huge savers based on the amount they spend dining and drinking out), or is there something I'm not getting? My wife's not demanding anything by the way, I just feel bad and am starting that jar.

The bolded part is the problem. My parents took me and my sister all over the world and we didn't make that much money. We'd book our own tickets and we'd rent a car and drive all over the place. We'd find places to stay locally as well.
 

shortylickens

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Jul 15, 2003
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Set aside a hundred bucks every month in a special account. will probably take a year or two but in my opinion visiting Europe is worth the money.

Of course, I did it in the Navy so your experience may vary.
 

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OP: if you want me to help you plan a European vacation on a budget, just PM me. Would be happy to help.
 

Tweak155

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I'll just go ahead and leave this here:

Class
Typical characteristics

Upper class (1%)
Top-level executives, celebrities, heirs; income of $500,000+ common. Ivy league education common.

Upper middle class (15%)
Highly-educated (often with graduate degrees) professionals & managers with household incomes varying from the high 5-figure range to commonly above $100,000.


Lower middle class (32%)
Semi-professionals and craftsmen with some work autonomy; household incomes commonly range from $35,000 to $75,000. Typically, some college education.


Working class (32%)
Clerical, pink- and blue-collar workers with often low job security; common household incomes range from $16,000 to $30,000. High school education.


Lower class (ca. 14% - 20%)
Those who occupy poorly-paid positions or rely on government transfers. Some high school education.



The problem is that people on AT don't fit those percentages. We have more like 30%+in upper middle class, 60% in middle class, etc. The view is skewed.

Back when I was middle class and now in upper-middle, not much for me changed. More money in savings for the most part. I think this is why most people don't see a difference between middle and upper middle outside of the extreme highs and lows.

Biggest difference I've noticed is that I have a new car a lot sooner. I don't buy stuff that I don't think is worth the tag and when my income goes up $10k or whatever, that's usually just money in the bank. I've already become used to not having that $10k.

I honestly don't know what I'd do different at $500k/yr. Maybe retire earlier.
 

Exterous

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I would say the same for people that think CC's are magical gift printing machines.

But they are!*

*If you use them correctly and the system has a large number of people who don't. Exploiting the exploiters
 

Naeeldar

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The problem is that people on AT don't fit those percentages. We have more like 30%+in upper middle class, 60% in middle class, etc. The view is skewed.

Back when I was middle class and now in upper-middle, not much for me changed. More money in savings for the most part. I think this is why most people don't see a difference between middle and upper middle outside of the extreme highs and lows.

Biggest difference I've noticed is that I have a new car a lot sooner. I don't buy stuff that I don't think is worth the tag and when my income goes up $10k or whatever, that's usually just money in the bank. I've already become used to not having that $10k.

I honestly don't know what I'd do different at $500k/yr. Maybe retire earlier.

Vacation homes and college tuition for grandkids. I drive a car that's within 20-30k (he ended up going fully loaded on his RR) of my fathers but we have a few hundred thousand dollars separating us in income. The big difference between us though is I don't have a second home in florida, nor am I considering a 3rd shore house in NJ. And finally, I'm not setting aside 1 million to fund all my grandkids college.

Otherwise I agree not much is different.
 

Doppel

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If they have kids they don't.

Upper middle class can, but a family of four going to Europe won do it under $5k and it can be a great deal more.
 

skyking

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I just wanted to thank several of the helpful posters in here.
Dullard, Exterious, Aviking, Outhouse and several others all had some good specific travel advice that I can use.
I have friends n Manchester and Warsaw, and we always took the quickest trip to Manchester.
We want to see Ireland so that Dublin tip makes perfect sense. Instead of a ~10hour flight to Amsterdam, I will suggest a 5 hour to JFK and a 6.5 to Dublin.
We are travel wimps and the 10 hour flight is not a happy time
 

Doppel

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I go to Europe around 4-6x / year but usually for work. The GF and I try to do 2x European vacations per year as well as several domestically. We are middle class (< 200K combined gross income in DC). We pay $2600/mo rent in a recently gentrified DC neighborhood. We have no kids and no car. We are also very good planners and usually spend max 2-3K total with airfare for two weeks in Europe. The good planning, no kids, and no car are all important factors. We are also debt free.

The no kids is by far the most important factor. They rape income and make all trips cost more, which is hard with less income.

Dual professional income no kid couples are literally rolling in cash and, if they aren't, they are doing something terribly wrong.
 

Tweak155

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Vacation homes and college tuition for grandkids. I drive a car that's within 20-30k (he ended up going fully loaded on his RR) of my fathers but we have a few hundred thousand dollars separating us in income. The big difference between us though is I don't have a second home in florida, nor am I considering a 3rd shore house in NJ. And finally, I'm not setting aside 1 million to fund all my grandkids college.

Otherwise I agree not much is different.

That is different but to me that is just looking to spend money because you have it. I don't blame them, don't get me wrong, but you can't realistically use 3 houses efficiently (outside of renting them out). I guess it depends how big the houses are.

College tuition I can see though. Good for him.
 

Rhezuss

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Me and my gf travel each year. We choose our destination, we plan some stuff we want to do and book everything ourselves.

Our trip to Mexico (Yucatan), Belize and Guatemala costed us 1300CAD each for 21 days and it included EVERYTHING (plane tickets, inns and lodging, food, activities). Backpack travelling is quite fun.

Sure we're not going to luxury hotels and rent cars, etc but we manage to get where we want when we want.
 

AViking

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The no kids is by far the most important factor. They rape income and make all trips cost more, which is hard with less income.

Dual professional income no kid couples are literally rolling in cash and, if they aren't, they are doing something terribly wrong.

Kids change the equation but they don't have to rape you. Say you have 2 kids. You would be making a mistake to take a trip to say Rome with them. It's hot, touristy, and kids don't make good travel companions seeing historical sights and standing in line.

Instead you would probably go to Hawaii, Thailand, India, and other places where you could hang out on the beach and let them play. Maybe take them to Costa Rica where it's like being in a giant zoo. When they get older you could tackle some of the harder destinations.

Ideally though if you want to travel you will have friends or family either at your destination or going with you. Say your family goes to South Africa with your brother's family. You can then leave the kids with an adult while the other 3 adults go out and do adult things. You then rotate. This works out even better with more than 2 couples or with the grandparents along for the ride.

Your cost of living makes a big difference though. If you have 2 kids and are paying $2500 a month for daycare it can really hurt your ability to save money. However once the funds are in place you can look at your expenses in a new light since you automatically have a savings of $2500 that you won't have to spend on daycare while gone.

What makes it much harder for us in America to justify going overseas though is our tiny vacations. I wouldn't go to Europe for 2 weeks. I can't justify the airfare for such a short time.
 

Tweak155

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The no kids is by far the most important factor. They rape income and make all trips cost more, which is hard with less income.

Dual professional income no kid couples are literally rolling in cash and, if they aren't, they are doing something terribly wrong.

Yeah that's my current situation and a few other couples I know. It's annoying because one couple is nice little bit into the six figures and they complain they don't make a lot of money like me and my wife and I just have to shake my head. Having a good idea of what they are pulling in this year compared to us and they aren't as far off as they like to whine about.

They just can't go buy whatever they want so the wife whines and complains. She was a spoiled brat growing up and hasn't changed (and her family was by no means rich). She sees us buy a few things and says its because we make a ton more money but in reality we have been saving a lot longer than them and we don't buy a lot of the useless crap they do. We've been married 3 years longer and have a nice head start even though we're close to the same age (me & husband are same age within months, his wife is 3yrs younger than my wife).

So as was said before, it is all about priorities.
 

purbeast0

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traveling is a big priority for my wife and i. we usually take 3-4 trips a year. when we travel too we splurge like a mofo. i'd never want to go on a "budget" vacation and have to worry about what i can and can't do on a vacation, in a place i may never visit again in my life time. i want to be able to go and do whatever i want, eat wherever i want, and see whatever i want. we do this just by planning and saving. but we're pretty well off with a dual income and no kids (yet).
 

Golgatha

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The problem with those figures are they don't factor in location. 20 years ago $100,000 in California was definitely upper middle class. Today not so much. I definitely wouldn't have called myself upper middle class when I was making between $100K and $200K. Why? Spending power is almost halved. However a $100,000 income in the midwest is definitely upper middle class. $35,000 is lower class in CA but middle class in the midwest.

Yeah, $100k in KCMO is definitely upper middle. Average home is about $200-300k though. If you're talking about household income, $35k in the midwest is not upper middle by a longshot.
 
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IndyColtsFan

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But you're right. It all has to do with priorities.

We believe that life is best lived to the fullest by visiting new places, making new friends, and sampling new foods. We believe that having children causes more stress, causes stress to relationships as couples no longer focus on each other, and are cost-prohibitive to raise appropriately. And if you cannot raise children appropriately (by your own definition) you shouldn't have them.

Agreed.

You guys who think saving every spare dime so you can retire early and not enjoy life now are making huge mistakes. It is all about balance.
 
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