I'm in the same boat. The main difference I've seen in my neighborhood is people complaining about mortgage payment taking up a large part of their paycheck (probably due to a small amount down on the house).
The other difference? When I got a new car late last year; the conversations I had with neighbors. Several neighbors were shocked that I wrote a check for it. Many of them have nicer vehicles, but I've heard at least a couple talk about what they're planning to do when their lease is up. Nothing wrong with leasing if your priority is to have a new shiny vehicle every 3 years I suppose. But I'm a weirdo. I've only had a car payment once in my life, and that's because I was very young (19 and in college), my car was totaled, and I found an excellent deal from a friend of my dad on a replacement car. Took out a $1,700 loan and paid it off within a year. My dad was good with money, but my mom was horrible (parents divorced when I was 2 years old largely over money issues). I decided, at a very young age, I was NOT going to live paycheck to paycheck and/or live beyond my means.