<< There's alot to be said for conservation, but extreme frugality at the expense of enjoyment in hopes for something down the road isn't necessarily the answer. Suppose, god forbid, your father had passed away at 55. When would the enjoyment have started - never! >>
Maybe I come from a different school of thought but I don't believe you have to spend/waste all your money on stupid stuff to enjoy life. Frankly wasting 30k on a car that is worthless in 10 years when you can barely afford it just goes to show that you don't have the sense to manage your money. That same 30k put into a house can net you much more in the long run. It's called wise expenditure of money. I would rather in fact buy a cheaper car and spend the money on something more enjoyable like a cruise.
Of course anyone that doens't have 6months of salary saved in cash-like accounts (easily accesible) for an emergency sitituation is pretty unwise in life management. I would place it in the same ballpark as not having insurance.