Just curious what people's strategies are for buying tech items ("toys").
I'm on a fixed income, and I often spend money that should be allocated for food, for tech toys. Thank goodness for my stash of ramen noodles.
I have trouble actually saving money, I guess it's kind of a willpower / instant-gratification issue.
I'm semi-addicted to ebay. Not bidding, I don't bother with that. But just buying stuff.
I've been thinking of breaking down my budget, and allocating money weekly, "for food or toys". Hopefully, I'll leave a little for food.
I do pay my rent on time every month, and my bills.
I do 2 things:
1. Weekly allowance: We have a basic his & hers allowance system, pretty easy to setup to automatically transfer a set amount of money weekly to our AMEX Serve cards (basically reloadable pre-paid debit cards). That covers going out to lunch, buying geeky stuff during the month, etc. If I want something within that budget this month (I am a kitchen appliance junkie, for example), I just wait a few weeks (or months, if it's something pricey) until it builds up to get it. My rule for anything other than a house mortgage, student loans, and car payments is cash-only. This way bills get paid, a portion actually goes into savings, etc. & you never get in trouble financially of your own accord.
2. Automated savings program: I also use SmartyPig, which is similar to ING/Orange/whatever it's called now, where you get a percentage of interest like a savings account, but it also does auto-withdrawals & gives you the option of cashing out to a gift card with a discount. For example, you get you get a 3% cash boost at Amazon, 3% at Lowes, 2% at Best Buy, etc. Here's a list of gift cards:
https://www.smartypig.com/how-it-works/retailer-offers/retailer-gift-cards
I'm in the same boat as you OP, regarding fixed income - my job pays what it pays. Could get paid more at a more specialized tech position, but I love my current job & don't mind making it work budget-wise. Thus coming up with creative strategies to be able to afford stuff I want. It's not as instantly gratifying as buying whatever I want on impulse on a credit card, but it also lets you avoid getting into trouble financially because the allowance & online piggy bank gives you a completely effortless safety net.
For example, I wanted to jump into VR this year, so I pre-ordered a headset back in like January. 6 months out from shipping equals 24 weeks, divided into $800, equals setting up a SmartyPig account for about $35 a week. One less pizza a week in the budget means a VR headset down the road, plus I don't have to choke out eight hundred bucks all at once. I used to do this with computers too...the "new every 2" plan. $20 a week into savings equals $2,000 every 2 years to spend upgrading my computer system. It was harder to do back in college when I was making minimum wage because $20 hurt a lot more when you were only making $250 a week after taxes, but that system enabled me to fund my computer hobby for years without killing my finances.
You mentioned having trouble saving money due to willpower, but personally I don't like having willpower be a part of my equation because it's subject to fail based on emotion (how you feel at the time). It's easier to setup systems that funnel you into doing what you want automatically, like auto-withdrawing money towards a goal into something like an online savings account or putting cash weekly on a prepaid card to use as your mad money for the month. The same thing applies to other areas of your life. Like with food, I largely do all of my meal prep at home so that my healthy food portions are prepped & when I get hungry during the day, I can cave to that rather than hitting up a fast food place & wasting money (although I use my "allowance" for going out to eat too, if I'm in the mood ). With exercise, although it's more about habit, I roll out of bed & do my exercise routine first-thing in the morning based on a schedule. That way it's not something I have to fight myself to do. TL;DR: not a fan of using willpower as a financial strategy because that junk is fickle!
One of the things to remember when building your financial system is that you're gonna die someday. Not saying that to be morbid, but to realize that there's a balance there: first, don't just endlessly save money without saving towards goals because you could be hit by a trunk ten years from now & never got to enjoy life. Second, don't just endlessly save your money because you could live to 105 years old & need that 401k to survive on. So basically, a structured savings plan is probably what you're looking for. You might want to look up some introductory financial stuff like Dave Ramsey's material. For example, do you have a $1,000 savings buffer for emergencies? If you're working for a living, do you have a 401k or IRA that you're actively contributing to? If not, there are things like Betterment that you can setup by yourself easily. This lets you tuck stuff away for when you get old & retire, but also have some money leftover to buy a pizza & video game you want this week.
It all depends on what your income situation is & what your goals are. If you're loaded, you can hire someone to manage it for you. If you're well-off, you can optionally spend as desired & have things kind of balance out every month because you have a large enough buffer to make it work. If you're tighter on funds, then it pays to setup some systems for yourself to meet your goals. Per your OP, you've stated that you pay your bills & rent every month on time, that you have a fixed income, and that you spend perhaps a little too much on tech toys & are looking for help on that. Well, if you really like buying nerdy gadgets, then figure out a way to make it work rather than cutting back! For starters, read up on how to save money on food:
https://www.reddit.com/r/collegecooking/
https://www.reddit.com/r/budgetfood
https://www.reddit.com/r/EatCheapAndHealthy/
https://www.reddit.com/r/Cheap_Meals
https://www.reddit.com/r/studentfood
If you're not a foodie, then you can get by on oatmeal, ramen, etc. and have a lot more free money for your techie toys. If you really want to get serious about it, then look into OAMC (once a month cooking), meal prep, freezing casseroles, bulk shopping (BJ's, Costco, Sam's), bulk supplies on Amazon (Hoosier Hill Farm, Barry Farm, Anthony's Goods, etc.), etc. Food is probably the most variable expense on the planet because you can spend as little as $100 or as much as $1,000 (or less or more) depending on your eating habits. But if you'd rather have more geeky toys & live off ramen, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that & there are literally TONS of resources out there for helping you along the way. So again, it boils down to goals. It doesn't make sense to save up endlessly for no reason, but it also doesn't make sense to blow all of your money every month so that you're living on the edge with no emergency buffer & no plan for the future.