How do you feel about?

[GasX]

Originally posted by: Proletariat

Originally posted by: eakers
in my relationship we have a thing called respect. seeking out romantic/sexual attention from a member of the opposite sex is disrespecting your relationship.

in conclusion, it wouldn't happen to me and if it was i would leave.

Originally posted by: YJK76
effort and perseverance is a rarity nowadays.

When was it ever common place? In the old days if a woman was hanging out and partying that late, she would get bitch-slapped quite a few times and thrown out on her ass. If a man did it, it was fine. I'm sorry but if this is indeed happening to you, you are definitely getting played like a b!tch. I would never let my woman do this kind of stuff.

Would you send her to the kitchen to make you some pie?

 

[CraigRT]

I wouldn't care to be honest.
as others have said, it's called trust.

if she messes up and breaks the trust, she's gone.

I don't let it bother me when crap like that happens. I am not in a long distance, but she does go out on her own with guy friends a lot, and I love my time alone :thumbsup:

 

[DevilsAdvocate]

Originally posted by: nerve
Put her on a leash and tie her out in the backyard


edit:
that reminds me! gotta go get her food ready!

lol

 

[Que-TiP]

The first time i read the OP, i just skimmed through. and all I read was, "sex, Sex, SEX!"

 

[Gibson486]

The only partying i do at 2 am is with my Electromagnetics book. My g/f never seems to mind.

 

[shimsham]

1 why would i care. im her daddy, not her momma.
2 i wouldnt be a part of that. LD arent practical or lasting(99% of the time). why hold each other back from living life?
3 wouldnt be an issue unless she had a problem with me coming along.
4 sounds like every woman. thats why they have make up and fashion. if the line is never crossed, why should i have a problem with her feeling good about herself? it only benefits me.
5 you cant hold someone else accountable for the past. shes not the other girl that hurt you, so why should she suffer the baggage and consequences. its only fair to both of you that you put that behind you before you enter into a serious relationship.

my wife is free to go out whenver she chooses. of course, i know all the people she goes out with, and its mostly women, with a guy or two sometimes. it would be foolish not too. PSA: a pack of women going out can be just as "naughty" as men, and a lot of times more so.

if i didnt feel like i could trust her, for whatever reason, i wouldnt have been in a relationship in the first place. that doesnt mean i think she would never fvck up; she is human after all. but if shes going to cheat, shes going to cheat. i would know if something was up, and investigate accordingly.

lifes too short to worry about things like that. deal with it before you invest yourself into soemone else so deeply.

 

[deejayshakur]

motion for some editing action: "YAGT".

i subscribe to the 'i won't try to change him/her' philosophy. OP, are you happy? if not, get rid of him and find another man who will respect you for who you are. the only clubbing that i do is under the sheets with my girl. go find one, they're out there.