How far involved is considered cheating?

[Zolty]

if you have to hide it you were cheating

 

[MercenaryForHire]

For those of you who still don't get it:

1) The OP isn't attached
2) The girl he's making play for is
3) He wants to know what your limits are in his position

Quit getting your sh!t all assbackwards, people.

- M4H

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
For those of you who still don't get it:

1) The OP isn't attached
2) The girl he's making play for is
3) He wants to know what your limits are in his position

Quit getting your sh!t all assbackwards, people.

- M4H

Perhaps he should ask her husband what his "limits" are ?

 

[Heisenberg]

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Heisenberg

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Heisenberg
Anything further than brief physical contact (like a quick hug etc.).

You're kidding, right?

Umm...no, not really although I was only referring to physical not emotional aspects. Why, what do you consider cheating?

I've had my arms around other women, we've held hands, embraced - all in front of my GF. We have no issues.

This is a thread about insecurity and trust issues, not cheating.

Well that's fine if you have no romantic intent. I assumed he does when I answered.

 

[Phoenix86]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet
I'm trying to work out where to draw the line; be it messages, hugs, pecks, kisses, fodling. My morality says stop at pecks.

She is the one who is attached

If you can't tell your SO... So have you?

 

[xirtam]

If you wouldn't do it in front of her SO, it's cheating.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
For those of you who still don't get it:

1) The OP isn't attached
2) The girl he's making play for is
3) He wants to know what your limits are in his position

Quit getting your sh!t all assbackwards, people.

- M4H

Perhaps he should ask her husband what his "limits" are ?

See, but then he'd be risking the revocation of the ePimp card and a real-time punch in the mouth to boot.

- M4H

 

[angedinoir]

Cheating pretty much comes down to a mesh of two things:

A. What you consider to be in the bounds of personal loyalty.
B. What is considered acceptable by your partner.

It's possible that hugging and a peck on the cheek may be completely unacceptable, either because you feel that way, or because it makes your SO jealous.

On the other hand, I know plenty of relationships where the couples are very emotionally strong and bonded, and have safe sex with other people/couples all the time.

 

[angedinoir]

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[Fenixgoon]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
For those of you who still don't get it:

1) The OP isn't attached
2) The girl he's making play for is
3) He wants to know what your limits are in his position

Quit getting your sh!t all assbackwards, people.

- M4H

Perhaps he should ask her husband what his "limits" are ?

See, but then he'd be risking the revocation of the ePimp card and a real-time punch in the mouth to boot.

- M4H

ahahahahahahah

 

[tm37]

Originally posted by: angedinoir
Cheating pretty much comes down to a mesh of two things:

A. What you consider to be in the bounds of personal loyalty.
B. What is considered acceptable by your partner.

It's possible that hugging and a peck on the cheek may be completely unacceptable, either because you feel that way, or because it makes your SO jealous.

On the other hand, I know plenty of relationships where the couples are very emotionally strong and bonded, and have safe sex with other people/couples all the time.

Well you hang out with some pretty interesting people.

 

[AntiEverything]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
For those of you who still don't get it:

1) The OP isn't attached
2) The girl he's making play for is
3) He wants to know what your limits are in his position

Quit getting your sh!t all assbackwards, people.

- M4H

Perhaps he should ask her husband what his "limits" are ?

This is the correct answer. If the husband doesn't mind then there are no limits.

 

[ribbon13]

Originally posted by: tm37

Originally posted by: angedinoir
Cheating pretty much comes down to a mesh of two things:

A. What you consider to be in the bounds of personal loyalty.
B. What is considered acceptable by your partner.

It's possible that hugging and a peck on the cheek may be completely unacceptable, either because you feel that way, or because it makes your SO jealous.

On the other hand, I know plenty of relationships where the couples are very emotionally strong and bonded, and have safe sex with other people/couples all the time.

Well you hang out with some pretty interesting people.

I've met some really nice people from the polyamorous community. But like anything anywhere, you'll find bad people too.

 

[Pepsi90919]

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Heisenberg

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Heisenberg
Anything further than brief physical contact (like a quick hug etc.).

You're kidding, right?

Umm...no, not really although I was only referring to physical not emotional aspects. Why, what do you consider cheating?

I've had my arms around other women, we've held hands, embraced - all in front of my GF. We have no issues.

This is a thread about insecurity and trust issues, not cheating.

that's pretty screwed up.

 

[AntiEverything]

Originally posted by: tm37

Originally posted by: angedinoir
Cheating pretty much comes down to a mesh of two things:

A. What you consider to be in the bounds of personal loyalty.
B. What is considered acceptable by your partner.

It's possible that hugging and a peck on the cheek may be completely unacceptable, either because you feel that way, or because it makes your SO jealous.

On the other hand, I know plenty of relationships where the couples are very emotionally strong and bonded, and have safe sex with other people/couples all the time.

Well you hang out with some pretty interesting people.

Me and my wife have done some swapping with another couple, and just last week I brought a hottie home with me and me and the wife both had some fun with her. It's not as uncommon as some might think. As long as everyone involved knows what's going on and is OK with it, it's not cheating.

 

[TrueBlueLS]

Originally posted by: SampSon
If you have to ask ...

BINGO!

 

[Cuda1447]

Originally posted by: xirtam

Originally posted by: Phokus

Originally posted by: shuan24

Originally posted by: SampSon
If you have to ask ...

qft

ok wtf does qft stand for?

Quoted for truth.

I always thoguht it was quite fvcking true... lol

 

[AntiEverything]

Originally posted by: Pepsi90919
that's pretty screwed up.

...said Mr Myopia and his 15K posts.

 

[EtOH]

penetration is a no-no, anything shy of that is up to you!

 

[blazerazor]

Depends if i get to watch or not.. hee,hee

... no for real... its all about Truth and Honesty. I hate someone that will lie to me, to my face. Then its over. But AntiEverything has the right idea. Lifes too short.

Kiss the one you love, ... for tomorrow you may never get the chance.

 

[bootymac]

Hug = pushing it
Kiss = gg
Sex = you da man

 

[Crucial]

anything you wouldn't do in front of your SO.

 

[Scouzer]

Originally posted by: xirtam

Originally posted by: MaverickBP

Originally posted by: xirtam

Originally posted by: Phokus

Originally posted by: shuan24

Originally posted by: SampSon
If you have to ask ...

qft

ok wtf does qft stand for?

Quoted for truth.

all this time i thought it meant "quit fvckin talking" ...go figure

Most people do. It's the worst TLA ever.

titty licking acronym?

 

[xirtam]

Originally posted by: Scouzer

Originally posted by: xirtam

Originally posted by: MaverickBP

Originally posted by: xirtam

Originally posted by: Phokus

Originally posted by: shuan24

Originally posted by: SampSon
If you have to ask ...

qft

ok wtf does qft stand for?

Quoted for truth.

all this time i thought it meant "quit fvckin talking" ...go figure

Most people do. It's the worst TLA ever.

titty licking acronym?

Three letter acronym.

 

[Yossarian]

balls deep