How far involved is considered cheating?

[Monkey muppet]

How far will or could you get involved with someone before morality kicks in and says NO!! - that's too far to go with someone who is involved

 

If you have to ask ...

 

[Heisenberg]

Anything further than brief physical contact (like a quick hug etc.).

 

[NightTrain]

How quick?

 

[Patt]

Any extended physical contact -or- any deep emotional contact that you keep secret from your SO.

 

[shuan24]

Originally posted by: SampSon
If you have to ask ...

qft

 

[Phokus]

Originally posted by: shuan24

Originally posted by: SampSon
If you have to ask ...

qft

ok wtf does qft stand for?

 

[Tylanner]

have a beer and let er rip

 

[xirtam]

By what standard? Matthew 5:28 if you want to get Biblically technical.

 

[xirtam]

Originally posted by: Phokus

Originally posted by: shuan24

Originally posted by: SampSon
If you have to ask ...

qft

ok wtf does qft stand for?

Quoted for truth.

 

[MaverickBP]

Originally posted by: xirtam

Originally posted by: Phokus

Originally posted by: shuan24

Originally posted by: SampSon
If you have to ask ...

qft

ok wtf does qft stand for?

Quoted for truth.

all this time i thought it meant "quit fvckin talking" ...go figure

 

[MX2]

Funny, your girlfriend was just asking me this same question

 

[Monkey muppet]

I'm trying to work out where to draw the line; be it messages, hugs, pecks, kisses, fodling. My morality says stop at pecks.

She is the one who is attached

 

[xirtam]

Originally posted by: MaverickBP

Originally posted by: xirtam

Originally posted by: Phokus

Originally posted by: shuan24

Originally posted by: SampSon
If you have to ask ...

qft

ok wtf does qft stand for?

Quoted for truth.

all this time i thought it meant "quit fvckin talking" ...go figure

Most people do. It's the worst TLA ever.

 

[brigden]

Originally posted by: Heisenberg
Anything further than brief physical contact (like a quick hug etc.).

You're kidding, right?

 

[aircooled]

too far....

 

[Heisenberg]

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Heisenberg
Anything further than brief physical contact (like a quick hug etc.).

You're kidding, right?

Umm...no, not really although I was only referring to physical not emotional aspects. Why, what do you consider cheating?

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Heisenberg
Anything further than brief physical contact (like a quick hug etc.).

You're kidding, right?

looks like I'm going to hell then

 

[kranky]

The woman is married. Why even waste your time?

 

[xirtam]

This thread lacks three important details.

1. YAGT.
2. Story.
3. Pics.

 

[brigden]

Originally posted by: Heisenberg

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Heisenberg
Anything further than brief physical contact (like a quick hug etc.).

You're kidding, right?

Umm...no, not really although I was only referring to physical not emotional aspects. Why, what do you consider cheating?

I've had my arms around other women, we've held hands, embraced - all in front of my GF. We have no issues.

This is a thread about insecurity and trust issues, not cheating.

 

[SacrosanctFiend]

It all has to do with intent. A friendly kiss isn't cheating, but the same kiss with romantic feelings behind it is.

 

[shortylickens]

Back when my parents were stationed in Mildenhall, it was common for a guy to nibble on a friends wife.

Ass slapping, pinching, kissing. All were acceptable.

Of course, that was England and it was the 70's.

For me, in the new millenium, I would say sticky-finger is the line with a friends wife.

 

[brigden]

Originally posted by: SacrosanctFiend
It all has to do with intent. A friendly kiss isn't cheating, but the same kiss with romantic feelings behind it is.

Exactly.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Depends. Do I know the other guy?

- M4H