i have rules myself that make people mad, mostly my mom and g/f since their usually the ones trying to exploit me...not just computers but anything, going here, doing this or that.
last incedent my mom called wanting me to drive across town just to carry a table that she had no reason to buy btw, from her truck to inside, i was too lazy that day to do squat so instead of respecting my no, she got all p'd off about it which made me mad....no one can respect the word no or even maybe anymore.
i never ask help from anyone with anything, when i moved, what i couldnt carry got left behind
my philosophy is...if i cant do it by myself, i dont need it done and i'm very hardcore on that idea, stick with stuff you can handle yourself and dont get mad if someone doesnt want to help. i dont care if i was trapped in a car dieing, i'd think it would be nice, but oh well if i dont get help, have to go sometime.