how many of you guys actually cry?

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thraashman

Lifer
Apr 10, 2000
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I haven't cried since I was about 13. I just had to learn to disconnect myself. If I cried everytime something hurt me emotionally, I doubt I'd ever stop crying. Sometimes I think people are trying to make me cry, but they'll never make it happen.
 

Stifko

Diamond Member
Dec 8, 1999
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I have been crying my eyes out, sobbing like a child on the way to work today. Ppl looked at me like I was nuts on the train. I don't care, let them look. I lost a very close friend last week and it wrecked me. All you overly macho fellas need to let go sometimes. Crying is not a sign of weakness.
 

qacwac

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Oct 12, 2000
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I haven't cried in a while. I wish I was a little more emotional. But since I grew up suppressing my feelings it's very hard for me to feel them now. I don't see anything wrong with crying. Unless of course your one of those girls who cries about everything all the time. I don't understand that.
 

Teatowel

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Sep 22, 2000
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After being dumped a couple of years ago, I watched Apocalypse Now, The Killing Fields, Gandhi, and Platoon. Was close to tears after that.

Another time I wept, after doing something completely stupid, I smelt for the first, and hopefully last, time, "burnt ROM smell".
 

Namuna

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Jun 20, 2000
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Yes, it's a ploy to get 'in' with the chicks.

After slapping them around a bit, I like to squirt some. That way they see the manly side AND the caring side.

It's very effective.
 

Moonbeam

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Nov 24, 1999
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Since there are some here who mention a reluctance to let go with tears, maybe it won't hurt to give a personal example to indicate it isn't the end of the world:

I was in a men's group and we met with a therapist every other week. The objective of the group is to provide the kind of mutual support that builds trust and a willingness to explore truthfully men's issues, encluding being too cut off from feelings. Over a period of many months I explored a rage issue. I allowed myself to get more and more angry, slowlly week by week pouring out more amd more rage to the point where I beat my thighs black and blue. The rage was a protection and reaction that was a cover for and substitute for pain and hurt, because one night I snapped out of rage and fell into deep and prolonged crying. I cried and cried and cried osme more, I'm donig it now, because suddenly I was a little boy in the fourth grade who'ed beautiful beloved puppy had just been run over in the streat. I had stuffed that grief. I had no idea and couldn't believe that after so many years I could actually be carrying around something like that. It was simply mind blowing.

This incident was tied to lots of other things from that time too though, and there is still more pain burried there, but I KNOW in a way about which there can be no doubt, that we can be completely unconscious of what is really at the heart of our motivations. Also, I know that the feeling there is no end to suffering comes from how vastly deeper our past pain really was as compared to what we think.

So if you're pulled down into a sea of tears, when you break surface again, don't be surprised if you come flying out ot the water and soar for a while. One less Boogie Man in the closet.
 

tvman28

Senior member
Jun 7, 2000
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i find that i might cry over stupid sh*t but not when the time calls for it, such as loss
whats up with that?
 

Mday

Lifer
Oct 14, 1999
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of course i cry...

you think that layer of tears covering my eyes doesn't evaporate?
 

ArMs

Senior member
Oct 22, 1999
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Friends/Family die...no.
Kidney stones...no.
Cutting leg open...no.
Losing the girl I love...weeks on end.
Somethings aren't worth crying about, some are. She most definately was, and if this girl meant 1/1,000,000,000 as much to you as mine did to me, then it's worth it my friend, definately worth it and okay.
 

PCAddict

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Nov 19, 1999
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I've cried on past occasions during my adult life. I'm not ashamed of it. A few times involved the death of a loved one, others involved less-significant events. But, in any case I'm more than willing to kick the crap out of anyone who has a problem with that.
 

Pulp

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Oct 3, 2000
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-Three times when i played football and got a knee to the groin

-whenever i hear 'nothing compares to u' by sinead o'conner...damn song always gets me

-when a loved one passes away, which has thankfully only happened once.


Pulp
 

LittleWashuuchan

Junior Member
Nov 6, 2000
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hmmm... Boys that cry , well i've seen one cry before. Well two. One was my father , his dog got hit .... yep he's a big red neck , so stop laughing. Another would be a guy that really cares a ton about me. Sorry for what it's worth and ... I'm not doing anything tomorrow so ... why not ?
Washuu
 
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