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Originally posted by: skywhr
Tell her the dinner is payment enough
This. If she can cook that is...
Originally posted by: skywhr
Tell her the dinner is payment enough
Originally posted by: thecoolnessrune
Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: hunewbie
Just say your gf already paid for it. =)
I did this exact thing... Seriously.. Don't do it OP..
Originally posted by: Duddy
Originally posted by: Turin39789
um, nothing? nookie?
FTW
Originally posted by: l0cke
Follow the jokers advice on this one, if you are good at something never do it without getting paid.
Originally posted by: Pale Rider
You people just don't get it. He already offered to do it for free, and she WANTS to pay. It would be an HUGE INSULT to her not to not allow payment.
As people age they lose more and more control of their lives. Obviously this is something she still controls and wants to pay. Don't rob her of that dignity.
You aren't doing her a favour by FORCING her to accept your work for free.
Originally posted by: marketsons1985
Originally posted by: Pale Rider
You people just don't get it. He already offered to do it for free, and she WANTS to pay. It would be an HUGE INSULT to her not to not allow payment.
As people age they lose more and more control of their lives. Obviously this is something she still controls and wants to pay. Don't rob her of that dignity.
You aren't doing her a favour by FORCING her to accept your work for free.
Thanks Pale. It does seem like no one in this thread understands this at all.
Sometimes I wish people would read through my responses as the OP
Originally posted by: Pale Rider
Originally posted by: waggy
wow i bet most of you haven't got laid yet right?
its your GF's grandmother. DO IT FOR FREE at the most for dinner.
the GF will remember it. Also if you are in a serious relationship then it gets you in good with the family.
but if you charge her then the GF is going to hear about it and get pissy. its a no win situation.
Certain people become HIGHLY OFFENDED when you refuse to accept things from them. He already offered to do it for free. The grandmother obviously wants to pay for the service. Don't INSULT her by not allowing her to do that. Charge a small fee and be done with it.