How should I react to this...

[eits]

Originally posted by: Nebor

Originally posted by: theprodigalrebel
Wow, everyone here is blasting Duddy for not 'trusting' her. I guess you all must be dating strong-willed characters with immaculate moral values.
I don't think I need to pull statistics out of my ass to give us an idea of how common it is for people to cheat on their SOs.

The problem is that he doesn't trust her, but he's not going to dump her. He's going to act like her dad and "lecture her." He's just an idiot.

qft

 

[Eeezee]

It doesn't look like she's dancing with anyone, wtf

 

[Duddy]

Originally posted by: theprodigalrebel
Wow, everyone here is blasting Duddy for not 'trusting' her. I guess you all must be dating strong-willed characters with immaculate moral values.
I don't think I need to pull statistics out of my ass to give us an idea of how common it is for people to cheat on their SOs.

Finally, a normal person.

I don't think anyone here on Anandtech has an moral fiber left in them.

Signs of the Apocalypse.

 

[CrazyShiz]

Originally posted by: Duddy

Originally posted by: theprodigalrebel
Wow, everyone here is blasting Duddy for not 'trusting' her. I guess you all must be dating strong-willed characters with immaculate moral values.
I don't think I need to pull statistics out of my ass to give us an idea of how common it is for people to cheat on their SOs.

Finally, a normal person.

I don't think anyone here on Anandtech has an moral fiber left in them.

Signs of the Apocalypse.

Wow, so if your SO has such low moral values, what makes you think she won't cheat on you on a future date?

It's sad that you can't face the fact that you have ZERO control over whether or not your SO is faithful to you. The only control you have is whether or not you forgive her or kick her to the curb if she does.

You obviously have no respect for her ability as an adult to make her own decisions.

Yours will be a sad existance and I pitty her's if she stays with you.

 

[Kadarin]

How is this girl still with you, given that you are such a complete retard when it comes to relationships...?

 

[eits]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
How is this girl still with you, given that you are such a complete retard when it comes to relationships...?

it must be her first boyfriend... conversely, she must be his first girlfriend (i really hope this is the case... if not, duddy's completely screwed in life).

i remember that my first girlfriend put up with my bullshit the just like duddy's gf is putting up with his. i was just like duddy back in the day and she left my sorry ass because she just got tired of it.

i'm so glad that i learned my lessons so that i will never be like duddy again.

 

[eits]

Originally posted by: Duddy
OK, we talked on the phone for about 2 hours and settled it.

When I called her, she told the truth and broke down crying. She said she wishes she could turn back time and change it.

She also told me that she entered the bikini competition and won $50 and that she qualifies for the finals which gives $500.


This girl is the one. This is the one I want to be with the rest of my life. She is soo loving and is soo sweet. She would do anything for me and I would do anything for her.

I just don't want her to become the decay of society along with all the other rednecks in that bar and half the people who replied to this thread. (You know who you are)




[This is for the posters lacking moral fiber]
It's easy to say that I'm being an ass. But your hypocrisy shows no bounds.

If you put yourself in my situation, you would feel as every other man in the world would.

HAHAHAHA ok. sure thing.

you must REALLY love her, then, right? i mean... she's THE one. there's no doubt she's the one, right?

... then, why interrogate her and be distrusting?

*sigh*.... kids....

 

[blakeatwork]

Originally posted by: NanoStuff

Originally posted by: Duddy

Originally posted by: NanoStuff

Originally posted by: Duddy

Originally posted by: sm8000

Originally posted by: Cdubneeddeal
Is this the same guy who tried to give his girl a curfew?

This is the twerp who wanted to dump her over a tattoo.

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So then you would be OK with your girlfriend going out dancing with some guy you don't know and then gettin' dirty with him and you would be fine with it.

Yup. You might not agree, but judging by this I'd say if I were her I'd have told you to ****** off for good a while ago.

You're probably feeling insecure because you're a lame piece of ****** who can't hold a girl; no surprise if this is the case.

**** you.

No, seriously, ****** you. Browsing through club-shot archives to spy on the girlfriend. This is how a serial rapist starts off. Dumping her because of a tattoo? Ofcourse you wouldn't do that because you probably damn well know you're lucky as it is that she puts up with your bullshit.

And a curfew? You're trying to set time limits on how late she can be out?

I have a great suggestion for you, buy a cage and a water bowl.

What was the OP that started this mess?

Dammit, I always miss the drama starring hot women in little clothing...

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

Once acheat, always a cheat. Tell her to hit the road. it will suck for you at hte time, but she'll probably end up cheating again down the road.

Give it some time and if it's meant to be, you'll be back together. Yo also might be able to talk her into some unorthadox bedroom behaivior to

 

[Psycho18]

lmfao!!!

 

[cKGunslinger]

After the update, I call complete and utter SHENS. No way anyone can be this fvcking retarded and controlling an still have a girlfriend who could win a bikini contest (and in all seriousness, given that pic you provided, I'd think the big girl would have a better chance then the stick-girl you claimed as "yours.")

If not, I hope she ends it soon, or else I foresee many a trip to the emergency room for "running into a door" and "falling down some stairs" for the poor girl.

 

[Cdubneeddeal]

Originally posted by: cKGunslinger
After the update, I call complete and utter SHENS. No way anyone can be this fvcking retarded and controlling an still have a girlfriend who could win a bikini contest (and in all seriousness, given that pic you provided, I'd think the big girl would have a better chance then the stick-girl you claimed as "yours.")

If not, I hope she ends it soon, or else I foresee many a trip to the emergency room for "running into a door" and "falling down some stairs" for the poor girl.

Kind of what I was thinking as well but held back. However, I don't think it's shens. I think they're already broken up and he's now insecure that she's out having fun while he's stuck sobbing at home.

 

[Cdubneeddeal]

Originally posted by: Duddy
OK, we talked on the phone for about 2 hours and settled it.

When I called her, she told the truth and broke down crying. She said she wishes she could turn back time and change it.

She also told me that she entered the bikini competition and won $50 and that she qualifies for the finals which gives $500.


This girl is the one. This is the one I want to be with the rest of my life. She is soo loving and is soo sweet. She would do anything for me and I would do anything for her.

I just don't want her to become the decay of society along with all the other rednecks in that bar and half the people who replied to this thread. (You know who you are)




[This is for the posters lacking moral fiber]
It's easy to say that I'm being an ass. But your hypocrisy shows no bounds.

If you put yourself in my situation, you would feel as every other man in the world would.

Ok..after reading this, I call shens as well. Turn back time and change what? Having fun? With the statement that you don't want her to become the decay of society, you want to control her. You want to make her your little puppet on a string to do whatever you command. I wouldn't be surprised if soon, she ends up in the hospital because you beat her up. Break up with her for her sake. You're not going to make her happy, only sad. You have the outstanding traits of an abusive and controlling nature.

 

[Blazin Trav]

ROFL. ****** happens man. If she is really the one you will forgive her and try to keep her on a short leash, if not, you won't. End of story.

 

[Steve]

Your head is so far up your own ass you can't hear the voices of reason. Get help.


I'm not kidding. Get help.

 

[cheapgoose]

again, I call shens on that girl being your gf.

 

[DainBramaged]

Originally posted by: Duddy
I just don't want her to become the decay of society along with all the other rednecks in that bar and half the people who replied to this thread. (You know who you are)

What the fvck?

 

[Praxis1452]

I see no pic... wtf is everyone talking about...

 

[Accipiter22]

aaaaaaaaaaarg wtf was the original post?? can someone cliff it for me? I take it she went out to a club, was dancing with people, OP saw a picture of it...was pissed that she was dancing with some guy..OP is pissed cause he has two left feet...OP confronts GF over it?

 

[j00fek]

Originally posted by: Kalvin00
:Q

ATOT-We know drama

:laugh:

 

[Accipiter22]

wait wait wait...bikini contest?!??!?!?!??!? PICS! STAT!

 

[Cdubneeddeal]

Originally posted by: Accipiter22
aaaaaaaaaaarg wtf was the original post?? can someone cliff it for me? I take it she went out to a club, was dancing with people, OP saw a picture of it...was pissed that she was dancing with some guy..OP is pissed cause he has two left feet...OP confronts GF over it?

That's the jist of it. OP went to SC for a family reuinion. Was checking up on her and found a picture of her in a club in some hick town. Got insecure, wasn't adult enough to be calm about the situation, then confronted her about it. Saying she needed a lecture now.

The pic in question she's the one in the middle with the Freddy Kreuger shirt

 

[RichardE]

ARe you not that odd Christian freak who flipped over a Tatoo? Let the girl go already, she is obviously going to bang some asshole who knows how to shoe her a good time. Hell, give me your number, I'll make it nice and painless and take her out tommorow.

 

[AznAnarchy99]

Originally posted by: Duddy
OK, we talked on the phone for about 2 hours and settled it.

When I called her, she told the truth and broke down crying. She said she wishes she could turn back time and change it.

She also told me that she entered the bikini competition and won $50 and that she qualifies for the finals which gives $500.


This girl is the one. This is the one I want to be with the rest of my life. She is soo loving and is soo sweet. She would do anything for me and I would do anything for her.

I just don't want her to become the decay of society along with all the other rednecks in that bar and half the people who replied to this thread. (You know who you are)




[This is for the posters lacking moral fiber]
It's easy to say that I'm being an ass. But your hypocrisy shows no bounds.

If you put yourself in my situation, you would feel as every other man in the world would.

wow she is the one? you sound like one of those middle school kids saying that their girlfriend for the week is the love of their life. If i was in your situation yea i admit i might get a little jealous, but i would think about it and shes out partying when im away. The exact same thing i would do if she was away. What is she forced to stay at home thinking about you when your not in town?

 

[RichardE]

Originally posted by: AznAnarchy99

Originally posted by: Duddy
OK, we talked on the phone for about 2 hours and settled it.

When I called her, she told the truth and broke down crying. She said she wishes she could turn back time and change it.

She also told me that she entered the bikini competition and won $50 and that she qualifies for the finals which gives $500.


This girl is the one. This is the one I want to be with the rest of my life. She is soo loving and is soo sweet. She would do anything for me and I would do anything for her.

I just don't want her to become the decay of society along with all the other rednecks in that bar and half the people who replied to this thread. (You know who you are)




[This is for the posters lacking moral fiber]
It's easy to say that I'm being an ass. But your hypocrisy shows no bounds.

If you put yourself in my situation, you would feel as every other man in the world would.

wow she is the one? you sound like one of those middle school kids saying that their girlfriend for the week is the love of their life. If i was in your situation yea i admit i might get a little jealous, but i would think about it and shes out partying when im away. The exact same thing i would do if she was away. What is she forced to stay at home thinking about you when your not in town?

He means she is the only one who will put up with all his whiny drama ******.