some of you are a bunch of pvssies.
just tell her you don't want to be with her, holy fvck it's not that hard.
well yea it is hard, but no matter what you do or say its going to be hard. and the more and more you keep making up these excuses, like "she got me a gift for xmas i cant do it now", "her dad got me a job for when i graduate, i cant do it just yet", the more and more you are going to put it off and you will never get ouf of the relationship.
i had to break up with my high-school sweetheart after like 5 years ... it was not easy! but i sat down and just told her straight up. when i was done and walked in my door, i balled crying because i couldn't believe what i had done, although i knew it was definitely for the best.
and now a few years later, i'm in a great relationship w/my current GF, and i am %100 open with her and tell her exactly how i feel. just TALK TO YOUR GIRL.