You guys suck. Enough with the cheap shots at the OP already--as if those of you who responded haven't done something pathetic yourselves, sheesh.
Btw, there is an actress/model named James King. Sometimes people call her Jamie, sometimes they call her James. That's nothing new. If this is the first time you've heard of that, then you were probably living under a rock for quite some time.
As for the OP, you shouldn't try to push it. Just do little things here and there to show her you care. Believe me when I tell you that women love to manipulate men as well as being manipulated in return (they aren't aware of this, nor will they admit it).
By manipulating, I don't mean being a prick who hits it and quits it. Most women do not see the world as we do, every goddamn thing has to be some sort of fantasy for them. So you just have to play along, kind of like the movies. Don't be a wuss though and pour your heart out. Remain a little mysterious from time to time. Don't want her that bad (even if you do and when you do, just go take care of it yourself) and it'll drive her nuts. Before you know it, she'll be jumping your bones. Male/Female dynamics is one bigass cat and mouse mindfuck. You have to make them think they're winning and losing at the same time.
Good luck to you.