In shout you didn't understand a word I said. I have no problem with the idea that religious systems should match the reality we live in and how they affect our survival and well being is important. My problem is believing I am capable of knowing when that may be the case in any specific example or wrong. You have ideals that I can support. What I have problems with is that your notions that you are capable of what is and what's not lack a great deal of reflection and humility. For example, I used to be a person of faith and became an Atheist and only in that way was able to discover what I think real faith is. Like you, I do not believe in the gods you don't believe in because they don't exist. The claims religions make about them make no sense to me. For you that's the end of the story, you don't believe in things that make no sense, for which no proof exists. You saw through the delusion of belief but my expereince was in seeing through the delusion of doubt. God is only when one enters a God conscious state. It isn't a thing out there but an kind of awareness that ends thought and time. It includes the ending of questions such as to provide a certainty of knowing within, that one can enter that state only empty of ones thousand tons of cabbage. More discover this state and are free of delusion via religion than any other way and that is because buried in the garbage that people make of religion are traces of truth that can awaken those who sleep. I find your attitude toward religion, therefore, to be quite limited, the result of a lack of information and experience. To me you are just as dangerous in your ignorance as any religious fanatic. Like them you believe what you know to be the truth.
I believe, then, that the way I see things is more inclusive and a better way to create a more secular world. We are all the same and it is that inner truth that drives us to seek equality in the world. Equality is justice and even monkeys know when a game is not fair and they will not play. There is only love because it is love that drives the the need for equality and justice.