"I've always had a problem living beyond my means. I know I have a problem and really want to work this out. I hope she gives me the chance"
Fritzo, you do not deserve that chance. Nevertheless, I do hope you give your family and yourself that chance. You have the situation in your control, not the other way around.
"First 15 minutes in the door, she wanted me out by next weekend. We have two young kids that would be scarred for life if their father left during Christmas, so I think I'm going to be able to stay."
Well, I guess you do have a chance to redeem yourself. Get creative fast! Take care of your debts and redeem yourself. Necessity is the mother of invention.
If I were in this situation, in spite of the children, I would ask him to leave and straighten himself first. I could work with him whilst he's away if he's serious about changing. You aren't enabling your family by spending unreasonably; rather, you're disabling your family. Not only did you spend foolishly, you concealed the truth thereby opening wounds and distrust. I really wish, not you, but your family well. Hope you work things out, and get your acts together! Keep us updated. (Of course, the above are my expressed opinion, not a divine revelation or truth.)
[Red Dawn:] "You are a fine one to talk, you haven't even come to terms on whether you are going to digest or purge your dinner yet!"
LMAO! It wouldn't be so funny if it were true. Good one, especially considering the fact that I haven't even had dinner or contemplated it.
Fritzo, you do not deserve that chance. Nevertheless, I do hope you give your family and yourself that chance. You have the situation in your control, not the other way around.
"First 15 minutes in the door, she wanted me out by next weekend. We have two young kids that would be scarred for life if their father left during Christmas, so I think I'm going to be able to stay."
Well, I guess you do have a chance to redeem yourself. Get creative fast! Take care of your debts and redeem yourself. Necessity is the mother of invention.
If I were in this situation, in spite of the children, I would ask him to leave and straighten himself first. I could work with him whilst he's away if he's serious about changing. You aren't enabling your family by spending unreasonably; rather, you're disabling your family. Not only did you spend foolishly, you concealed the truth thereby opening wounds and distrust. I really wish, not you, but your family well. Hope you work things out, and get your acts together! Keep us updated. (Of course, the above are my expressed opinion, not a divine revelation or truth.)
[Red Dawn:] "You are a fine one to talk, you haven't even come to terms on whether you are going to digest or purge your dinner yet!"
LMAO! It wouldn't be so funny if it were true. Good one, especially considering the fact that I haven't even had dinner or contemplated it.