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I consider myself as having a fairly moderate political and moral viewpoint, though I'm aware I lean to the left. As such, I've always supported a woman's right to chose to abort a pregnancy. This, however, comes under the stipulations that the pregnancy be terminated as early as possible, or under the condition that the mother's life is in danger.
Editted for Hypothetical Context... thanks Aisengard
Hypothetically speaking: You are a young woman who comes from a long line of women who have incredible difficulty bringing children through birth. This is not a case of simple infertility/inability to conceive, you are a woman who has conceived MANY more children than she was birthed, and those lost are often not due to simple subclinical miscarriage. Knowing that more than half of your conceived children will die before they are born, you go on over a 10+ year period to eventually give birth to 4 children, losing 6, 8, possibly even more in the process, many of which are difficult and traumatic experiences for you.
Now...
Call me a hypocrit all you want, but this seems incredibly wrong to me. Knowing that more than half of your conceived children will die in the process, but going and and trying to have 4 or more regardless seems incredibly unethical to me. I'm sure the hardcore ProChoicers will stick to the "her body, her choice" line, and the ProLifers will say something like "God wants you to bear children, but it was by his design that some of them died etc etc..." If I was in her position, and REALLY wanted a child, I might try for 1... maybe 2... but after that, why go through the continuing loss? Why not accept that maybe you just weren't meant to/aren't fit to.
I guess my question is. How do people on either end of the spectrum feel about this in relation to abortion? As I said, I'm ProChoice, but for some reason I just wouldn't be able to justify THIS to myself (knowing that more than half of my unbirthed children would die, some not til after 5 or 6mo). For me at least, it brings up something of an ethical paradox which has forced me to question my stance on Choice vs Life.
Please take note: I do NOT advocate legislation to strip women of their right to give birth due to genetic/misc factors, nor am I opposed to a woman's right to abortion as I have stated previously.
Editted for Hypothetical Context... thanks Aisengard
Hypothetically speaking: You are a young woman who comes from a long line of women who have incredible difficulty bringing children through birth. This is not a case of simple infertility/inability to conceive, you are a woman who has conceived MANY more children than she was birthed, and those lost are often not due to simple subclinical miscarriage. Knowing that more than half of your conceived children will die before they are born, you go on over a 10+ year period to eventually give birth to 4 children, losing 6, 8, possibly even more in the process, many of which are difficult and traumatic experiences for you.
Now...
Call me a hypocrit all you want, but this seems incredibly wrong to me. Knowing that more than half of your conceived children will die in the process, but going and and trying to have 4 or more regardless seems incredibly unethical to me. I'm sure the hardcore ProChoicers will stick to the "her body, her choice" line, and the ProLifers will say something like "God wants you to bear children, but it was by his design that some of them died etc etc..." If I was in her position, and REALLY wanted a child, I might try for 1... maybe 2... but after that, why go through the continuing loss? Why not accept that maybe you just weren't meant to/aren't fit to.
I guess my question is. How do people on either end of the spectrum feel about this in relation to abortion? As I said, I'm ProChoice, but for some reason I just wouldn't be able to justify THIS to myself (knowing that more than half of my unbirthed children would die, some not til after 5 or 6mo). For me at least, it brings up something of an ethical paradox which has forced me to question my stance on Choice vs Life.
Please take note: I do NOT advocate legislation to strip women of their right to give birth due to genetic/misc factors, nor am I opposed to a woman's right to abortion as I have stated previously.