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Beev

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At MOST call her parents and tell them you got a weird message from her and you are concerned. That's it. No more.
 

EGGO

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Originally posted by: flyguy214

she is an ex because I used to be a huge player. I would give her money without her asking. I have money, if she needs that to get away from being hurt than that is ok. I would get her a place, prolly wouldnt stay with her though. I have a girl right now...but if that's what it took to get her out of trouble, yeah I would.

Ahahaha. Myspace, Nickelback, girl that hasn't talked to you in 2 years talks to you out of nowhere, and then you used to do this? This has to be shens.
 

irishScott

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If she's honestly afraid for her life she should be calling the cops as opposed to e-mailing you.

It amazes me when some people are so afraid to get humiliated they potentially put their lives at risk.
 

b0mbrman

Lifer
Jun 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: flyguy214
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
She has parents... she needs to get in touch with them and see if she can go home.

i would suggest that you not get too involved with this.

May I ask why I shouldn't? She reached out to me, said that none of her other friends knew. It seemed to me that she wanted me to do something, but I don't know what. My friend said it sounded like she wanted money, and to ignore her. Would you agree?

It sounds like you've already made your decision

But I would also recommend that you stay out and let more pertinent people know
 

txrandom

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Aug 15, 2004
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Don't let the boyfriend know and help her get out of the relationship. Then proceed to get some from your ex.
 

kamikaze27

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Oh please, you can only help people that want to be helped. Attention seekers like her dont think for themselves, thats how get into situations like that.

If she wants out, she can get out. With or without your help.
 

Bryophyte

Lifer
Apr 25, 2001
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Forward the email to her parents or phone them and read it to them. If you want to do more, phone a domestic violence hotline and talk to them about the situation and ask their advice.
 

Molondo

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Listen "player" why don't you just call her parents unless your desperate for some poon.

"I can't leave him, i have too many bills"
"Im embarrassed to call my parents"

Rigtho chaps.

 

djheater

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Mar 19, 2001
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Either she's yanking your chain, or she's making poor decisions.

Either way you need to alert the proper people, aid them in helping her if needed, and remain emotionally uninvolved.

Start with her parents and go from there.
 
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You are about to get played like a cheap violin. She knows you have money and is making a sob story to get it from you. You know if they are an ex and you haven't talked in 2 years, guess what, they're not friends anymore. I call shens if she can ask you for help but not her parents.
 

richardycc

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1. tell her to learn how to swim.
2. fake a boating accident.
3. have a gun ready in case he found out its fake.
4. shoot him if he tries tobreak into her place, and call 911 to report that you shot an intruder.

 
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Originally posted by: erub
where's that M4H's shens smiley face when we need it?

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Hold on a second.

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- M4H

:beer:

- M4H
 

eakers

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Aug 14, 2000
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give her the number of a local women's crisis shelter or tell her parents and be done with it.


that is, if this is even real.
 

rivan

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Jul 8, 2003
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Originally posted by: doze
Stay out of the drama dude, if your worried then get in touch with one of her good friends or her parents and let them take it from there.

:thumbsup:
 

Azraele

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Nov 5, 2000
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For those that are telling him to ignore the situation, what happens if he hurts or even kills her? I'm not saying he should try to handle this on his own, or take responsibility for her, or give her money, but he can get her in touch with a crisis center that can help her handle this situation.

 

zebano

Diamond Member
Jun 15, 2005
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wha-wha-what? Call her parents and tell her to contact them and the police. Those are the people that can best help her.
 

flyguy214

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: erub
where's that M4H's shens smiley face when we need it?

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Hold on a second.

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- M4H

It turns out the day I posted this her parents went to her house at something like 4 am and moved her out. This whole deal did end up breaking me up with my old GF. Since then I have been at the bar pretty much every day. Sorry that I did not update sooner.


If I knew how to put pics on here I would, just to please the masses.
 
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