Here's an update.
I tried to call Dell and get a quote. In the quote, they gave me the bona-fide item number: 320-3039. It is listed as:
320-3039
1 NVIDIA GeForce GT 640 1GB GDDR5
Now the bad news. First, I tried to get them to add an extra GT 640, but the sales guy talked at length with "the tech guys" and the tech guys/production guys said that specific part was out of stock, and in any event it seems like the XPS 8500 doesn't have an extra PCIe x16 slot so that configuration wouldn't work anyway (making them suspicious). They said that it would be basically impossible to order that GT 640 separately.
I tried to place an order for just the part 320-3039 from the Parts Department. They tried to give me A6170213, which they mapped as: GT640 PCIe 3.0 1GB DDR3 DVI VGA HDMI. I kept on saying "is this GDDR5" and they hemmed and hawed about it. It obviously looks like the PNY model that I posted about before.
In conclusion: if you really want this part, you probably have to get the $1199 XPS 8500 (ships instantly), or get the $749 + $50 upgrade version (ships in 2 weeks). Then, you have to extract the card. Not really worth it, unless you're crazy, or are willing to sell the remaining XPS 8500 on eBay! (Actually for the price, the XPS 8500 is a reasonable deal, but if you are dead-set on building your own PC, you have to deal with that aspect.)
Also, if you have a service tag, you might be able to get them to send a replacement card under warranty, and then just wait for them to bill you. But short of a service tag or buying the whole PC, it's unlikely you're going to get this.
Here's the quote:
Quote Details
Quote Number: XXXYYY706
Item Number Quantity Item Description Unit Price Extended Price
225-3297
1 XPS 8500 Fast track config21 $989.80 $989.80
317-9193
1 3rd Gen Intel Core i7-3770 processor 3.40 GHz with Turbo Boost 2.0 up to 3.90 GHz
317-9211
1 12GB DDR3 SDRAM AT 1600MHZ-2x2GB + 2x4GB
331-6146
1 Dell KB213 Wired Multimedia Keyboard
320-2519
1 Ships Fast Monitor Included
320-3039
1 NVIDIA GeForce GT 640 1GB GDDR5
421-7190
1 Dell SRV Software 1703
342-4107
1 2TB SATA 6Gb/s,7200RPM
318-1872
1 XPS 8500, Black Chassis w/19:1 media card reader
421-5693
1 Genuine Windows 7 Home Premium 64 bit, English, No Media
330-1158
1 Dell USB 6-Button Laser Mouse
430-3628
1 Integrated 10/100/1000 Ethernet
410-0547
1 Adobe Acrobat Reader
318-1677
1 16X DVD+/-RW
318-2249
1 Integrated 7.1 with WAVE MAXXAudio 4
313-6138
1 No Speaker Requested
430-4735
1 Dell Wireless 1703 802.11b/g/n, Bluetooth v4.0+LE
331-5795
1 US Power Cord
331-5886
1 Localization parts-English/French
331-6145
1 XPS localiztaoin parts (power cord, documents, ship material)
331-6149
1 SHIP,XPS,L10,FXCN,8500,DAO
410-0569
1 McAfee 11, 15 Month
331-6176
1 Dell Resource DVD with Application Backup
421-8242
1 Additional Software
421-7997
1 No PDVD
410-0450
1 Microsoft Office Starter: reduced-functionality Word and Excel w/ ads. No PowerPoint or Outlook
992-8083
1 Dell Limited Hardware Warranty, Initial Year
992-8163
1 Dell Limited Hardware Warranty Plus In-Home Service After Remote Diagnosis, Initial Year
950-3337
1 1 Year Limited Warranty
951-6340
1 Accidental Damage Service, 1 Year
950-9797
1 No Warranty, Year 2 and 3
954-1820
1 Premium Phone Support, Initial Year
412-0358
1 Soft Contracts Consumer Accidental Damage Agreement
412-0359
1 Soft Contracts Dell In-Home Hardware Agreement
988-0099
1 To activate your online backupaccount, go to Start, Programs, DataSafe Online
927-2357
1 DataSafe Online 2.0 2GB
421-4356
1 Software, DataSafe Online 2.0 2GB
* -DISCOUNT/COUPON APPL
320-9334 1 Dell 24-inch Wide ST2420L Flat Panel Monitor, Customer Install $197.99 $197.99
600-0002 1 State Environmental Fee for display 15 inches, less than 35 inches
992-2309 1 1-Year Advanced Exchange Service $0.00 $0.00
Subtotal: $1,179.79
Shipping & Handling: $0.00
Tax: $94.55
Environmental Disposal Fee: $8.00
Total Price w/Discounts: $1,282.34