I don't understand why some people just don't get it, Argghhh

[erikiksaz]

My stupid hoebag of an ex-girlfriend (hah, not sure if that made sense), just keeps trying to talk to me. It's starting to get annoying, so i've been giving her the cold shoulder. I am not the type that would hold a grudge, but for what she has done, she will NOT ever be forgiven. Basically, to sum it up, she decided that one day after our breakup, she wanted to poke at one of my softer spots; my father. When i was six years old, he passed away after a year-long hospitalization. What angers me the most is that it was brought out intentionally, and i had done nothing to provoke these actions. The word, "disheartening," doesn't seem to fit my situation. I just don't understand. After 8 months of pure effort, trying to make our relationship work out (even after the breakup), she decides to pull this out of the closet. Here's what she said on AIM:

"sweet dreams haa what happened to oh we will still talk..haa it is okay.. just wanted to fix things..start out new this year.."

So i'm thinking, WTF, are you messing, or are you just dense?! You do not do what you did, and expect to be forgiven!

:disgust:^99

 

[notfred]

<< I don't understand why some people just don't get it >>



You don't get why they don't get it?

 

[erikiksaz]

EXACTLY. You figure that it's not too difficult to read body language, written language, and verbal language. She JUST WON'T GET IT!!

 

[KennyTheGreat]

girls are girls..
:|

 

[Moonbeam]

"Basically, to sum it up, she decided that one day after our breakup, she wanted to poke at one of my softer spots; my father. When i was six years old, he passed away after a year-long hospitalization. What angers me the most is that it was brought out intentionally, and i had done nothing to provoke these actions."

Makes no sense and tells me nothing. So she poked at one of your soft spots huh? Without knowing how, the context, who can say if you're not the one who's nuts. You say intentionally, but give nothing that would say so. You did nothing to provoke. Sure you didn't, in your eyes. What about in hers.

Until I know more, I'm blaming you for everything. And until I hear from her, I'm just taking what you say as half a story.

 

[veryape]

Women: Can't live with em', can't strangle them into unconciousness without fear of being inprisoned.:Q J/K

 

[millsy]

<< Well, then give it to her and make sure she gets it. >>



haha funny

 

[jjones]

<< stupid hoebag >>

 

[Forever42]

<< Until I know more, I'm blaming you for everything. And until I hear from her, I'm just taking what you say as half a story. >>



Exactly...can't give only your part of the story, and half of it at that, and expect a lot of sympathy

 

[erikiksaz]

ok, this is what happened. The beginning of November, we broke up. I decided to break it up after 8 months because things weren't working out anymore. She was too busy with her sports and her school clubs, and our relationship had degenerated into a physical relationship, I couldn't even stand talking to her on the phone, since we would always end up fighting over a stupid subject. So after the relationship, i try to make things better, e.g. stay friends. Things work out for a few weeks, then one day she decides to accuse one of my male friends for spreading rumors. As a friend that i have known since early childhood, i KNOW for a fact that he did not lie, nor spread any rumors. So my ex from then on condones myself as an enemy, since i was supporting my childhood friend. From that point on, I did not like what was happening, but i didn't really feel the need to fix anything, it was pointless. If she was going to act stupid, even though my friend and I have explained to her the truth MANY MANY times over, then we had nothing else to say. She deserted the friendship that i strove to keep together.

So, a month later, she does what the initial post stated. From November to December, i had done nothing. We did not speak at all during that period. I went back to my group of friends, as did she. It was just that one day that she decided to bring it up. If you guys don't believe what i say, then i nothing left to tell you. Her actions were not provoked in any way or form. The only way i could have known that what she had done was done intentionally, was her tone of voice.

 

[Jen]

i like to here her side of the story........


Jen