I Feel Left Out...

[PistachioByAzul]

lol, you speak as if that's some sort of difficult task ... you guys are sooo easy

Such is being a man I suppose. Still, I feel compelled to take a cynical jab, since everyone else seems to be lost in their pants.

 

[Sir Fredrick]

<< Such is being a man I suppose. Still, I feel compelled to take a cynical jab, since everyone else seems to be lost in their pants. >>



Speak for yourself, I'm not wearing any pants!

 

[cressida]

 

[Stark]

<< Very very very good advice. You should also be aware there are two forms of female Orgasms, vaginal and clitoral. Vaginal are quite rare (the G spot is a trigger point for a vaginal O), only around 10% of the population are capable. >>



There is no scientific proof for the existence of any G spot, at least according do Dean Edell. And it is possible to stimulate the clitoris during intercourse with the penis, giving the woman an orgasm. It has much more to do with the man's ability to figure out where and how the woman wants to be touched than for her to figure it out on the own. That's my experience anyways.

 

[StageLeft]

So have sex. It's gonna happen anyway and chances are high that it will be before marriage. I know, I know...but I made that promise to myself also as did plenty of people I know. We all broke the promise and felt tinges of guilt. Why put yourself through the guilt?

 

[Pabster]

I sure as hell didn't feel any guilt

Seriously, take it with the flow. There are more important things. Like, well, anyway ...

 

[ace31216]

Don't feel like you're missing out because you're not. Let it happen naturally when the right guy comes along

 

[dirtboy]

<< I think it's funny that for some people sex is just something that they do. They don't think about it. They wouldn't know life without it. It's just very cut and dry: Life sucks without sex. >>



When you have sex for the first time and if it is good, your body will start to crave it...it's natural and extremely hard to ignore.

 

[dirtboy]

<< I honestly didn't think telling everyone I was a virgin was such a big PRIVATE issue. To me, it's a fact of my life. I would admit it to anyone who asked, so to admit it in an open forum is no big deal to me. >>



You would admit it if someone asked... so by admitting it on an open forum is like wearing a t-shirt that has printed on it, "I'm bitter because I'm still a virgin".

 

[mattyrug]

True, I remember my first time, I was scared, I was all alone!
Now I can't stop! I'll be 30 next year, and I got used to not getting any. Now I like food better!
J/K Kudos to you!

 

[Nemesis77]

<< Oh yeah, and the next time you call me 'dear' you're facing a *smackdown* I'm only slightly touchy about pet names, k? >>



Oh crap, I called you "Dear Lady" in the webcam-thread :Q! Ooops ....

If I have to face that "smackdown".... Please, be gentle. Not in the face!

 

[SuperSix]

<< I don't get why everyone thinks that one's virginity is special. It's not like it gets you 20% off at the Olive Garden or something.

I respect anyone either way, though. >>



LOL!!!

 

[Jingoh]

... everyone is NOT having sex. It just seems that way. ::

I just turned 35, been divorced for almost 10 years and I've had sex (have two sons to prove it), and well,
it's over rated if its not with someone special AND the right time. If I could do it all over again, I'd have waited
til I was married and/or had reached my major goals. Being divorced now... I have quite a sex drive, don't get
me wrong. But I put sex way down on the list of important things.

Just because it seems like everyone has... or is... doesn't make it right. Stick to your decisions/convictions
and you'll be happier in the long run. I do understand the desire and frustration... society is filled with the
notion that sex is everyone's goal. I think you are making a good decision for you... and for your future, that's
what is important.

 

[skace]

People that try to wait until everything in life is perfect to have sex are wasting there time. Because every condition will NEVER be perfect all at once. You will never suddenly turn rich, have all the time in the world for a family, meet mister or misses right with the perfect body and perfect mind, own a house on the beach and then have perfect sex with your zero experience. I hate people that think this way because they spend half their life trying to make all conditions perfect and then realize they've wasted half their life. Just remember this, you arn't getting any younger and you arn't getting any prettier, thats the truth.

 

[xirtam]

Jingoh: I assume you meant that "not everyone" is having sex rather than "everyone is not" having sex?

 

[Phuz]

What a stupid thread.. An all new low..

 

[StageLeft]

<< People that try to wait until everything in life is perfect to have sex are wasting there time. Because every condition will NEVER be perfect all at once. You will never suddenly turn rich, have all the time in the world for a family, meet mister or misses right with the perfect body and perfect mind, own a house on the beach and then have perfect sex with your zero experience. I hate people that think this way because they spend half their life trying to make all conditions perfect and then realize they've wasted half their life. Just remember this, you arn't getting any younger and you arn't getting any prettier, thats the truth. >>

This is true

 

[SleeplessHeart]

solve this once and for all the howard stern way - i'll bang ya

 

[BigToque]

I read through the first 60-70 threads so I don;t know if this has been said...

sex != getting pregnant.

You take the pill, party 2 uses a condom. Now you ain't getting pregnant! Go out and have fun (trust me, it is FUN!)!

 

[fatalbert]

hmmm too much reading,

but don't worry about it. I feel the same way sometimes but it isn't something that should be ruining your life

 

[InverseOfNeo]

Sarah,

Talk to me about this please.

Adam

 

[xirtam]

Left out by choice or by fate?

If by fate, it's just a complaint, and we empathize with you.

If by choice...
Why did you make the choice to maintain your virginity? Are those reasons compelling enough to you to continue your virginity in spite of "being left out"? What are you really looking for in a relationship? Fun... security... love... what?

 

[yoda291]

well, I take the Bill Clinton view of things. I won't do anything that may(even if the chance is infinitely small) that will endanger my significant other(s)). I also don't let a whole lot get done to me since, for the most part, I think it's a bit on the creepy side. But that doesn't mean I'm not there in case...ahem...she needs something.

Yup. I love my computers. hehe.

 

[XMan]

The best advice I can give you is too look upto someone for support. Someone who is a virgin and older than you. Maybe Hzl (25 and a virgin) or someone like me.

Hmm.

Uh . . .

Well.



Nevermind . . .