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Locut0s

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only advice in the thread:

If you are serious, you don't need a GP. You need a psychiatrist. And therapy. And maybe some antidepressants.

also trident: being that it's winter and you are in Seattle, you're likely feeling the effects of SAD: seasonal affect disorder.

You may well just need to spend some time exposed to the sun and get some vitamin D supplements.


Of course you also need to realize that you're the biggest liar you know and forgive yourself and others for their faults.

^These, this and those.

Have you looked at seeing a psychiatrist TridenT? I'm seeing one now. It won't solve all your problems. You will have to work at it and it will take years no doubt but it's an important step. I'm often not confident in solving my own problems, some days I give up. But I'm on meds seeing a psychiatrist and working on it.
 
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IndyColtsFan

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TridenT,

One day, you will learn to stop giving a crap about how others see you or what others might think of you and when you finally adopt that attitude, things will probably become much better for you.
 

manimal

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Get a dog and walk it.


Cant tell you how many girls I met walking my golden in Ryunion Canyon when I lived in LA.

What did you do when you are a kid that made you happy? Model cars? Bicycling? Go back to a passion you has when you were a kid.

A few years ago I was going trough a difficult period in my life. We were having trouble concieving and work was awful for both my wife and I.

We ended up changing where we lived, what we did for work, how we managed our free time.

By removing the big stressors we were able to concieve and spend more time together. I Also started working on cars again because it made me happy when I was young.

First thing you should do is stop caring about what internet trolls think of you.

How about being a big brother to a less fortunate kid? This year I sponsered two families and helped get them out of poverty. If you make a difference in peoples lives you will feel it too. So much of our virtual world is fake. Go back to REAL LIFE.
 

Andres3605

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Try to think less and do more. Hit the gym, join study groups, join a club... Also everyone lies at one point or another, deal with it.
 

Capt Caveman

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TridenT,

One day, you will learn to stop giving a crap about how others see you or what others might think of you and when you finally adopt that attitude, things will probably become much better for you.

I don't see that as his problem at all. He's lazy, has a shitty attitude of others and instead of having the motivation to improve his lot in life, just makes-up excuses for why he can't.
 

TridenT

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ughhhhh...

Called her yesterday... Got voicemail earlier than should have. (She hit ignore call, multiple reasons for why that could happen, but only one is likely) I doubt she will call me back. I just want a real explanation because not knowing is what has always driven me crazy on just about anything... And she knows that.

I'm not going to stop thinking about it. It just won't stop. I can't sleep at night. I'm doing terrible in school because of it. I can't enjoy a lot of things because they remind me of her. I set up an appointment on Monday to see a doctor so that I can get some sleeping meds. Hopefully that will be able to get me to at least sleep at night so that I won't feel super drained everyday.

Everything is really fucking me over.
 

Elbryn

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I don't see that as his problem at all. He's lazy, has a shitty attitude of others and instead of having the motivation to improve his lot in life, just makes-up excuses for why he can't.

it's kinda like the TO is broke thread.. sans 80 million?!?
 

Locut0s

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ughhhhh...

Called her yesterday... Got voicemail earlier than should have. (She hit ignore call, multiple reasons for why that could happen, but only one is likely) I doubt she will call me back. I just want a real explanation because not knowing is what has always driven me crazy on just about anything... And she knows that.

I'm not going to stop thinking about it. It just won't stop. I can't sleep at night. I'm doing terrible in school because of it. I can't enjoy a lot of things because they remind me of her. I set up an appointment on Monday to see a doctor so that I can get some sleeping meds. Hopefully that will be able to get me to at least sleep at night so that I won't feel super drained everyday.

Everything is really fucking me over.

While you're there get a referral to a psychiatrist. I'm not trying to shit on you either. It could help!
 

Red Squirrel

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Girls are a waste of time. The single life is awesomeness. No stress and you can do whatever the hell you want. Want to sit down and do nothing, or watch a movie, or play video games? You can! The glass is half full, not half empty. In fact I think it was half full to begin with and someone just filled the rest up with some fine wine. Enjoy it!
 

the DRIZZLE

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IMO many of Trident's problems come from a lack of perspective. He should take a year off from school and go work in an oil field in ND or something. Travel. go see some shit. Good shit, bad shit, whatever. Once he sees how good and bad life can really be and he will realize that stuff he complains about here is insignificant.
 

shortylickens

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IMO many of Trident's problems come from a lack of perspective. He should take a year off from school and go work in an oil field in ND or something. Travel. go see some shit. Good shit, bad shit, whatever. Once he sees how good and bad life can really be and he will realize that stuff he complains about here is insignificant.

Thats the problem with ALL children.
You think HE'S bad? I see worse every day at college. I'd boot some asses if I didnt think I'd get stuck in jail overnight.
 

Locut0s

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IMO many of Trident's problems come from a lack of perspective. He should take a year off from school and go work in an oil field in ND or something. Travel. go see some shit. Good shit, bad shit, whatever. Once he sees how good and bad life can really be and he will realize that stuff he complains about here is insignificant.

Depends on the nature of his problem. He comes across as a spoiled brat who spits in everyone's face. But he may have some underlying emotional problem. In that case seeing the world may not help.
 

bfdd

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stop talking about giving up because that means you haven't given up. people who have given up are already going through with killing themselves. stop wasting all of our time please.
 
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