Nanette,
Never really got into a lot of discussions with you, but have read enough of your posts to know that you are a good and honorable person. I feel a genuine surge of anguish when I think about you being given a countdown, for you and your family. I have lost a lot of friends and family in the last year or two, the thought of losing more good people puts a pit in my stomach even though I've never met you.
I implore you to fight, fight, fight, to never give up. Accepting it is the little death which insures the real one. I had a great uncle and a grandmother who were both given months to live, and both of them exceeded their doctor's expectations by almost a full 2 years each. I do not claim to know what you are dealing with but I don't care. You need to be a salty ol bastard about it like they were.
If it is inevitable I hope you can spend the rest of your days bathed in comfort and love, and make your time left a victory lap of sorts. Say the things you need to say and do the things you need to do before meeting The Great Mother again. As another poster already asked, I think if there is anything this forum can do for you, please tell. We can all at least try.
Wish I could give you a hug, and that you and your family can stay strong. Know that people all around you are better off for having known you, and that many wish they could have.
*blows e-kiss*
Love, Kage.