I have 4 weeks to live.

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Dari

Lifer
Oct 25, 2002
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Why is everyone here just wishing the OP goodbye instead of trying to better understand what's going on? Wish OP could tell us the back story. It doesn't make sense if the issue is getting access to medicine since her disease is diabetes. Also, doctors have a habit of being conservative in their assessments of how long people will have to live. When they live longer, who's the hero?

So, what's the story here, OP?
 

Azraele

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Why is everyone here just wishing the OP goodbye instead of trying to better understand what's going on? Wish OP could tell us the back story. It doesn't make sense if the issue is getting access to medicine since her disease is diabetes. Also, doctors have a habit of being conservative in their assessments of how long people will have to live. When they live longer, who's the hero?

So, what's the story here, OP?

It seems to me that death, especially one's own, is a very personal and potentially private affair. It would be hard enough to come to grips with without sharing details. If she doesn't wish to share, let it be.
 

JJChicken

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Sorry to hear OP, please enjoy your remaining days. You will live on through your positive impact on the world.
 

Greenman

Lifer
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It seems to me that death, especially one's own, is a very personal and potentially private affair. It would be hard enough to come to grips with without sharing details. If she doesn't wish to share, let it be.

I agree with you about it being a private affair, and a tough one to handle. But making an announcement like that on an open forum is going to generate questions. The op knew that going in, so the question is acceptable.
 

Pheran

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Dammit, it happened. Believe me, I'm not at all gratified to see it.

Nanette, I'm not a religious person, but I can tell you that each of us will live on in the memories and hearts of those whose lives we have touched. When they pass on some of the love and wisdom we've shared with them to others, then we have made a difference.

If you are willing to share with us what disease is primarily causing this, and if there's a foundation for fighting that, I would be interested in making a donation in your name.
 

Pheran

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Why is everyone here just wishing the OP goodbye instead of trying to better understand what's going on? Wish OP could tell us the back story. It doesn't make sense if the issue is getting access to medicine since her disease is diabetes. Also, doctors have a habit of being conservative in their assessments of how long people will have to live. When they live longer, who's the hero?

So, what's the story here, OP?

Because it's her life and her right to choose what she does and does not decide to share with a bunch of (relative) strangers on a forum. It's not as if ATOT can make better medical decisions than the doctors who are actually treating her.
 

KaOTiK

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I'm sorry to hear that Nanette
All I can say is, do what you want with each day remaining as they are yours to decide.
 

Dari

Lifer
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Because it's her life and her right to choose what she does and does not decide to share with a bunch of (relative) strangers on a forum. It's not as if ATOT can make better medical decisions than the doctors who are actually treating her.

Yeah, I guess you're right. I ask because I have a friend who has diabetes and it'd be hard to just accept that they can be gone in such a predictable way given that the disease is well-understood.
 

Pheran

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Yeah, I guess you're right. I ask because I have a friend who has diabetes and it'd be hard to just accept that they can be gone in such a predictable way given that the disease is well-understood.

It's not just diabetes. She's posted some things in the past like the fact that she has had 5 strokes and brain surgery.
 
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Dari

Lifer
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It's not just diabetes. She's posted some things in the past like the fact that she has had 5 strokes and brain surgery.

Oh, wow. I had no idea. That's serious. Sorry, OP. Hope you spend your last days with those you love.
 

SeaSerpent

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Sep 24, 2001
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I have no idea what is on the other side, but I hope that it is a peaceful happy place.

I am truly sorry..
 

BurnItDwn

Lifer
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Sometimes the brightest lights burn out the fastest. Here's to Princess Ida, a bright light, a beacon, the personification of humility.
 

Genx87

Lifer
Apr 8, 2002
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from your link, thats just a fancy name for diabetes.
its not fatal if u take insulin.
"All forms of diabetes have been treatable since insulin became available in 1921"

op, sorry to hear

People die from complications related to the disease.
 

FiLeZz

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Jun 16, 2000
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I too am almost speechless. I hope your last moments are comforting are fill with peace and with people who you love and that love you. You will be missed....
 

seepy83

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Nov 12, 2003
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I hope that you and your loved ones can find peace and comfort, and that the life you have lived can be celebrated more than it is mourned.
 

foghorn67

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We haven't posted a lot in the same threads. But just in case...if I ever spoke to you or about you in any ill-mannered way, please forgive me. Even if it was banter.

No matter the outcome, I hope you find peace.
 

digiram

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Apr 17, 2004
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Sorry to hear... I hope fortune somehow flips for you. Best of luck to you and your family.
 

JoLLyRoGer

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Wow...I'm so very sorry for you, your situation, and your family.

It is a journey we all must make that no amount of preparation can ever ready us for but for what it's worth, I truly do believe there is more than just our short time in this life as we know it.

I wish you love, dignity, peace and comfort in your final days.

-JR

 

desiplaya4life

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Terribly, Terribly sorry to hear this, nanette1985. *wipes tear from eye*. I hate hearing bad news like this. Reminds me of how we had my grandma at the house during Christmas in hospice care. She died of pancreatic cancer. I hope you don't suffer. They do have a lot of good drugs out there.

I don't know if your very religious. Personally I'm not I'm just spiritual. Last time I went to church was when I was 11. I don't know a lot about the bible, but there's really only one thing that you only need to know. John 3:16. For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

I believe there is a heaven and we live on. One day perhaps we will meet. At least you can be with your loved ones this Christmas and bring in the new year. I'll be praying for you. God bless. *gives a hug* Now I need to blow my damn nose. :'(

“Tears shed for another person are not a sign of weakness. They are a sign of a pure heart.” ― José N. Harris


You think this world is a playground and we all 7.2billion people get into heaven for free first class??

you must be joking.


Safe travel OP wherever in your head you think you're headed. Forgive everyone, give everything you own away, for you are not a slave to the money or to the war lords.


Godspeed.
 

Attic

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Jan 9, 2010
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Thoughts to you and your family and thanks for sharing this aspect of you.

Say hi to mine on the other side.
 
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