ok, first off, here's some background info. we've been going out for the past 9 months online, i love her more than anything, and i thought she loved me the same way. maybe she does, right now i don't know. we have always had a relationship built on trust and on good communication. she lives in the states and i live in canada, so we don't get to talk on the phone much, but we chat on aim as much as possible. last night she had two of her best friends(both female) over for a sleepover, and she just confessed that her and one of them 'fooled around'. i don't know how far they went, and right now i'm just trying to absorb all of this(and trying to be coherent at the same time ) any advice? i don't even know what to think right now...