i have a little problem with my significant other

[Mrs AntiSocial Virge]

I have a tendancy to ramble. I'm a talker, not a writer. I don't think you're nuts, but to tell you the truth, nothing against my wonderful hubby, but if I were to ever find myself single again, I wouldn't ever do the online thing again. It's too damn hard. Oh yeah, I wouldn't marry a foreigner either. The paperwork alone is staggering

 

[sweetrobin]

Well .. she obviously told you about it .. so she felt it was something she needed to share with you and she probably felt bad about it ... I wouldnt let it be a big thing .. you are both young and probably havent even met ... so it cant be a committed relationship ...

 

[toph99]

lol, i know what you mean. i'd never do this again, it's a pain in the ass not to mention, i don't even get to talk on the phone with her more than maybe once or twice a month, if that

 

[geno]

OK, sorry if this sounds insensitive, but I don't quite get it: How do you go out online?

 

[kduncan5]

A relationship based on correspondence and telephone conversations isn't impossible. But with no physical interaction whatsoever, a relationship based on correspondence and telephone conversations doesn't, in my mind, have much of a future. You need to make plans to meet her in person! She may be just innocently experimenting.......then again she may not. If you love her half as much as you say you do, then you need to talk to her about her recent "discovery". Be tactful, be sensitive to her feelings, but don't attack her with jealous rage or your feelings of betrayal. Make plans to meet her in person, and both of you will find out more about whether or not you're suited for each other. -kd5-