I have reached the end of my rope

[Magnum357]

My girlfriend of almost a year and a half has been cheating on me. I knew for a while, but she told me she wasn't, I believed her. She did again tonight. I want to scream and cry so loud. I don't know what to do. this is going to be a long night, hey well atleast I have all the anandtech people, I think that makes things worse I'm posting.

 

[Zorro]

Forget her and move on

 

[chucky2]

Forget her and move on x 2.

Or, make sure to not be home when she gets back/calls next.

When she asks where you were, tell her its about time that she knew that she is terrible in bed and you need more than she can give.

Then, just walk out on her.

At least she'll be the pissed off one then and not you.

Hey, its just an option!

Chuck

 

[Renob]

Sorry you feel bad but

I knew for a while ------------ You should of ended it then.

I don't know what to do ------------ End it right now!


Good luck and I hope your feel better real soon.

 

[MomAndSkoorbaby]

Seriously, trust is an important foundation for any relationship.

 

[Cyco]

Although the pain is present, it will in time go away. Just keep in mind the cause of the pain and remove yourself from it. Life does go on, whether you want it to or not. Time does heal all wounds. You will be alright. It's better that you see the person that she is now instead of somewhere down the road. You need to go on without her and forget her. There is no other option. Good luck to you.

 

[Magnum357]

You are right but it is hard to move on

 

[blahblah99]

slip her a few more bones and move on!

 

[WyteWatt]

Magnum357 well #1 rule is you will never know who some people are for real. I mean look at how some people marry someone after knowing them for 2 to 10 years + and they thought they knew them but sometimes they don't. The only person you can know 100% sure that you think you know is mostly yourself.

 

[shiner]

Love 'em, leave 'em

Written By: Gene Simmons
Album(s) from: Rock And Roll Over

My limousine is a-waitin'
And I see you comin' my way, hey, hey, hey
I'm sittin' by the window
And you ask me which hotel I stay in
Well, make a reservation
Between the hours of ten and two, how do you do
You've got the time to remember
I've gotta stiff proposition for you
There's nothing else I'd rather do

So you lift your dress
You wanna impress
There's one thing I've got to confess

Love 'em, leave 'em, love 'em, leave 'em
Love 'em, leave 'em, love 'em, leave 'em, yeah
Yeah, yeah

Mmm, so I give you my number
You say you will see me tonight
You just have to remember
Check with me if it's alright
You wanna sit in my driver's seat
If you do it's alright with me
I've got to hand it to you, baby
You know what a girl's gotta do
There's nothing else I'd rather do
With you, but I, but I

Love 'em, leave 'em, love 'em, leave 'em
Love 'em, leave 'em

Love 'em, leave 'em, love 'em, leave 'em
Love 'em, leave 'em, love 'em, leave 'em, yeah

Love 'em, leave 'em, love 'em, leave 'em
Love 'em, leave 'em, love 'em, leave 'em, yeah
Love 'em, leave 'em, love 'em, leave 'em
Love 'em, leave 'em, love 'em, leave 'em, yeah
Love 'em, leave 'em, love 'em, leave 'em
Love 'em, leave 'em, love 'em, leave 'em, yeah
Love 'em, leave 'em

 

[Scarpozzi]

Similar thing happened, only my roommate got with one of my Exgfs without asking. Of course I was still dating my ex on and off. I felt like nothing we ever had meant anything after that. She'll never forget the wonderful things I called her when I found out. :Q Just keep in mind, there are lots of fish in the sea and lots of beer to help you find one this weekend that will at least get your mind off this whole thing.

 

[xuanman]

dump her. she cheated on you. there's tons of better women out there.

 

[Kadarin]

Staying with someone who has cheated on you in the past is extremely difficult; staying with someone who continues to do so is next to impossible. Emotionally, after the initial hit, you'll be far better off getting yourself out of this situation.

In my past life I have been the cheater, and I've also been the one who was cheated upon, so I can say this from experience. Two things will make it feel better: Time, and getting another g/f.

 

[pamchenko]

better to have a cheatin gf than no gf at all

 

[shiner]

Originally posted by: pamchenko
better to have a cheatin gf than no gf at all

You don't get out much do you? How about you put down your copy of Seventeen Magazine and stop killing kittens for a while?

 

[SuperSix]

Bang a few of her friends....

 

[CraigRT]

better to have a cheatin gf than no gf at all

hahah.. sure..

Bang a few of her friends....

took the words right outta my mouth!

 

[BD231]

Damn sluts :disgust:. Sorry to hear about the bad news, but what can I say, you live in America.

 

[NewSc2]

Originally posted by: Scarpozzi
Similar thing happened, only my roommate got with one of my Exgfs without asking. Of course I was still dating my ex on and off. I felt like nothing we ever had meant anything after that. She'll never forget the wonderful things I called her when I found out. :Q Just keep in mind, there are lots of fish in the sea and lots of beer to help you find one this weekend that will at least get your mind off this whole thing.

that's... pretty messed up. sorry dude

 

[Balthazar]

Kick her ass to the curb post haste.

ANYONE can do better than someone who cheats on them, don't even let yourself think for one minute that she is anywhere NEAR the best you can do....I'd say she's MILES away!

 

[Kyle]

my almost GF is at a frat party tonight getting drunk. Before we were doin stuff she would make out with guys when she got drunk, she told me she wont tonight, but I am preparing for the worst =(
I have a friend at the party whos watching so I should know tomarrow...I trust her sober, but drunk is another story

 

[notfred]

Originally posted by: Kyle
my almost GF is at a frat party tonight getting drunk. Before we were doin stuff she would make out with guys when she got drunk, she told me she wont tonight, but I am preparing for the worst =(
I have a friend at the party whos watching so I should know tomarrow...I trust her sober, but drunk is another story

Sounds classy.

 

[Kyle]

uh, I guess. Sounds like a college kid to me.

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: Kyle
my almost GF is at a frat party tonight getting drunk. Before we were doin stuff she would make out with guys when she got drunk, she told me she wont tonight, but I am preparing for the worst =(
I have a friend at the party whos watching so I should know tomarrow...I trust her sober, but drunk is another story

Does she know you have a friend at the party?

 

[compuwiz1]

Hey, it was just a girlfriend....no great loss.