Originally posted by: iamwiz82
Originally posted by: purbeast0
Originally posted by: iamwiz82
Originally posted by: purbeast0
Originally posted by: iamwiz82
Originally posted by: rh71
Originally posted by: Inspector Jihad
i dont understand the western concept of letting your child work his way thru college...in indian culture, parents help the child thru college with payments...and the children usually take care of the parents once they get older...its an awesome system that works for both sides and creates strong and healthy relationship between parents and children...and adn this doesnt make the kids less hard working if you've brought them up right...i wonder if other eastern cultures also do this?
I've been saying this for awhile now... in a lot of American homes, the child either gets kicked out at 18 (awesome parenting!) or the kids are so annoyed at their parents (or maybe just the stigma of staying at home) that they want to leave ASAP... with hardly any financial stability. Not a good system.
In my opinion, if the chance exists... stay home for a few years even after you graduate college + work full time... that way you'll save enough money to buy your 1st home at around 25-27. Even faster if your significant other is in the same boat.
The people who stay until they are 25 are so unprepared for the real world that I'm amazed they can wipe their own butts. I was out of the house by 18 (my choice) and never looked back.
so because you were out at 18, thats the limit then ... yea, that is good logic :roll:
i'm lived on campus for my first 4 years in college, my last year i lived at home and commuted to college. i graduated may 04 and landed my first fulltime job september 04. i have been living at home since i graduated. i am currently still living at home. i plan on living there for probably another year or so until i either decide to buy a house around here, or move down south and buy a house there. i plan to have between $20K - $25K when I do this to.
if you think thats a stupid plan on my part and that i'm not ready for the "real world" then please, explain it to me, because I'm confused.
Hey, if it works for you, great. I'm just saying that you are going to be overwelmed by the amount of stuff you will need when you buy a house. We had an apt. for almost 4 years and we still spend thousands and thousands on stuff necessary for owning a house.
but you see, the thing is, you were paying rent in the apartment, i'm not. i dont mooch off my mothers stuff though. i get my own food, laundry detergent, soap, shampoo, etc, so its not like i'm a little kid liiving at home. on top of that my GF moved in with me at my moms house too.
why were you spending thousands and thousands of stuff for a house when you lived in an apartment?
I mean when we bought our house we spent thousands and thousands of dollars. lawn mowers, and weed wackers, and pool supplies, and paint, and stain, and cement, and wood, and appliances, and shovels, and wheel barrows, etc, etc, etc, etc.
We are going way off topic, though.