Wish i could post all the game sites, reviews etc that made a HUGE deal of the res differences when it was the other way around last gen.. every story was "there is hardly any difference, but if you are going to chose, why not chose the slightly better" now its, "well its better on this system but nobody will notice". You pretty much cant read a review from that last gen without that blurb, and now this gen nobody cares.. As I own both (last gen and this gen) I tend to agree, neither gen has any great weakness that made the choice you made be a bad pick.. I just hate the flip flop way its presented, last gen it was all about the extra rez, this gen nobody cares? Right now i think either NEW console is a waste, there just isn't enough worth buying at this time, and in a few more months prices will drop again. But if your heart is set, its quite simply the games, Cross platform, there is little difference, exclusives are about it. and use as stated. the PS3 is not a much of a media player (its promised fixes, but nobody has seen or heard anything in ages) the Bones is a pretty great media player. Future, ps4 has almost 1/3 more games coming (good or bad? who knows, and many wont come, and some will go cross platform later) if that matters? Coming to a console forum and asking a question like which is better is pretty silly, nobody (including myslef) can look at it objectivity, we all prefer one and will let that taint our opinion.
For me it was simple, one has the games (exclusives) i wanted the most.
But i think for most user I would look at what my friends have, I play almost exclusively PC online (so consoles are not used for it) but if all my friends had one or the other it would play a big deal in my pick as playing alone or with randoms is never as fun as with a friend, and there are pretty much zero cross platform online games.